Tickle me Silly : How to play with tickling in your BDSM scene!
Tickle Me Silly! The art of sensual /sadistic tickling with BDSM play Knismolagnia , commonly known as tickling, can be a fun addition to your BDSM play. Laughter in the dungeon can be a good thing, especially to heighten the energy and connection between your play...
The Dominatrix’s Male Submission Primer : Aspects of the Femdom and male sub power dynamic
The Domme’s Primer for Male Submission An A to Z synopsis of principles and activities surrounding the power dynamic of female domination & male submission. Many of these definitions are focused towards the male submissive , however they apply to all...
Being a Dominatrix but not a traditional Feminist : Why Feminism doesn’t mesh with sex-work & bdsm
As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a ” societal feminist”. I have taken into...
The Boundaries and Rights of the Dominant kinkster
Boundaries and Rights of the Dominant Person in BDSM & Kink For the sake of this article I will use the terms : Domme/ Dominant/Top to mean the one in charge or controlling the BDsm or kink interactions. Sub/Submissive/Bottom will be used to refer to the ...