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A Male Submission Primer : Aspects of the Femdom / male sub power dynamic
A MALE SUBMISSION PRIMER An A to Z synopsis of principles and activities surrounding the power dynamic of female domination & male submission. Many of these definitions are focused towards the male submissive , however they apply to all genders and...![Being a Dominatrix but not a traditional Feminist : Why Feminism doesn’t mesh with sex-work & bdsm](https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Anthony-Sapone-Photography-161.jpg)
Being a Dominatrix but not a traditional Feminist : Why Feminism doesn’t mesh with sex-work & bdsm
As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a ” societal feminist”. I have taken into...![“What about me?” The Rights of the Dominant](https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/DSC_0418.jpg)
“What about me?” The Rights of the Dominant
Boundaries and Rights of the Dominant Person in Bdsm & Kink For the sake of this article I will use the terms : Domme/ Dominant/Top to mean the one in charge or controlling the BDsm, Sub/Submissive/Bottom to refer to the one submitting or accepting the...![Heel to Toe: Foot fetishism](https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/simone20_bw.jpg)
Heel to Toe: Foot fetishism
The desire of foot fetishism also known as podophilia Millions of dollars every year is spent on adorning one small area of the human body: the foot. One can find such things as jewelry, nail polish, silky stockings, sexy hosiery and all types of foot wear for their...![Fear Factor: Using Fear in BDSM](https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/mistress_Simone-chicago-1080x675.jpg)