Being a Dominatrix but not a traditional Feminist : Why Feminism doesn’t mesh with sex-work & bdsm
As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a ” societal feminist”. I have taken into...
“What about me?” The Rights of the Dominant
Boundaries and Rights of the Dominant Person in Bdsm Much has been written about how a Dominant/Top should care for their submissive/bottom during the evolution of a scene. Concerns over possible abuse, inaccurate techniques and unsafe surroundings have been...
Heel to Toe: Foot fetishism
The desire of the foot Millions of dollars every year is spent on adorning one small area of the human body: the foot. One can find such things as jewelry, nail polish, silky stockings, sexy hosiery and all types of foot wear for their feet. Why so much attention...
Fear Factor: Using Fear in BDSM
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone...