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Bite ME Please! – Vampire Blood Play
BITE ME! Vampire Blood Play in BDsm Dealing with Vampiric Encounters The Intrigue of the Vampire Mythos Women swoon. Children cry. Men scream in fright. Placing the VAMPIRE label on something or someone...
Tickle me Silly : How to play with tickling in your BDsm scene!
Tickle Me Silly! The art of sensual /sadistic tickling with BDSM play Knismolagnia , commonly known as tickling, can be a fun addition to your BDSM play. Laughter in the dungeon can be a good thing, especially to heighten the energy and connection between your play...
The Dominatrix’s Male Submission Primer : Aspects of the Femdom / male sub power dynamic
A MALE SUBMISSION PRIMER An A to Z synopsis of principles and activities surrounding the power dynamic of female domination & male submission. Many of these definitions are focused towards the male submissive , however they apply to all genders and...
Being a Dominatrix but not a traditional Feminist : Why Feminism doesn’t mesh with sex-work & bdsm
As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a " societal feminist". I have taken into account the...
“What about me?” The Rights of the Dominant
Boundaries and Rights of the Dominant Person in Bdsm & Kink For the sake of this article I will use the terms : Domme/ Dominant/Top to mean the one in charge or controlling the BDsm, Sub/Submissive/Bottom to refer to the one submitting or accepting the...
Heel to Toe: Foot fetishism
The desire of foot fetishism also known as podophilia Millions of dollars every year is spent on adorning one small area of the human body: the foot. One can find such things as jewelry, nail polish, silky stockings, sexy hosiery and all types of foot wear for their...
Fear Factor: Using Fear in BDSM
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there...
Play: An Adult Concept
"And in the playing of it(games), we come to know ourselves-and each other-more deeply." ~Jacqueline Carey, Kushiel's Scion. How many of you currently have your cell phones on? Or will be going upstairs to check your email? Learning to disengage from our electronic...