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ProDomme Anniversary Wishlist – It’s my 30th Year as a Professional Dominatrix

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Celebration Time – My 30th Anniversary – October 12th, 2023

Mature Mistress in Paris

Chicago Mistress in Paris 2023

  My ultimate wish list!

For celebrating my big prodomme 30th I wanted to put together the craziest list of items I would enjoy and cherish for the next 30 years. I know some of these items may be outlandish but a Dominatrix has only one 30th. If I’m blessed and lucky,I will  have a 50th!
It has been a wonderful and wild 30 years with my life being full of adventures, travel, challenges and excitement. I have met the most wonderful people – both submissives and fellow Dominatrices. Artists, Kinksters, Perverts and Fetishists  who all have joined me on this incredible journey of the past 30 years.
My origin story will be in another blog but some important facts you may desire to learn while reading my insane list (now is the time to spoil me- like no other time!)

  • I am a born and raised Chicagoan. It is my city.
  • My first dominant memory was age 5 when I made the neighbor boy ride me around on the back of his tricycle.
  • I started professional domination  in 1993 -Yes I have proof!
  • Trained for 2 years in a house with other Mistresses. We shared skills and worked together – currently I am engaging in mentoring developing Sex Workers on Dominatrix skill sets. Inquire via my email.
  • Opened my first solo dungeon in 1995, north-side of Chicago.
  • Longest running independent Mistress in Chicago. I have  never taken a break, never semi-retired or month off unless it was by design. The first time I didn’t work at real-life sessions was during COVID.
  • I plan on accepting sessions as long as submissives and perverts desire to experience my skills. Translation – I’m NOT RETIRING!

 

Let me treat you to some BLASTS FROM THE PAST :

 

Latex Military Mistress 2012

 

Circa 2008

 

Kneel before Me

 

NYC domme shoot w Natasha Gornik

NYC shoot 2015

   More Vintage dominatrix timeline pictures will be on My other blog for my 30th anniversary

Over the years I have enjoyed owning some wonderful slaves. Thank you to all of them who have made me the Mistress I am today. I treasure each and everyone of you who wore my collar and still do. Owning you has been one of the true blessings of my life. I have lost some of you to the ravages of time. Others have grown beyond our connection and moved into other desires. I hope with all of you, I have enhanced your lives as you enhanced mine, even if we parted ways. Those I am still blessed to own ,thank you for being mine. It is my pleasure. Let’s grow old together!

Even if we only played once or a few times, I hope I am in your mind and memory. I love leaving permanent threads in your psyche. Now is the time to get back in my attention, or just say “Thank you”

For new submissives who desire to session, serve and/or submit , I am opening my roster this year! To learn how to start on the journey with me, visit my Sessions page then fill out my application. A gift from this list or my standard Wishlist would get my attention.

I also have an Amazon list as I know it is easier for many.

Circa 2009

The best gifts IMO are experiences, travel and security. Enhancing Mistress’s life in one of these manners would be the perfect gift for my anniversary. Some of the ways to do so are :

Stocks and bonds for portfolio (Some of you know how to place things in my vanilla name, others can email me)
Tribute towards security and self-care ( best way is via Wishtender ) or www.investor.vanguard.com
Trip to Bali, Spain or Portugal (may be crowdfunded via Wishtender)
Dining Experience at one of Chicago’s finest, Alinea ( you are more than welcome to join in this experience with me)
Aire Ancient Bathes Spa Chicago Day Experience
Lifetime fitness membership covered for 2 years
Face & Body Laser treatments
Sonoma Country wine experience ( you are welcome to accompany me)
Cooking classes (Yes I like to cook, it relaxes me)

Gift cards are accepted for any of the above. Please send them to my email or visit my wishtender.

Baby domme 1999

That said, there are some lovely tokens I would enjoy receiving and wearing/using for years to come:

In the Bondage arena, ultimate items would like:
Enfettered Medical Chair – May be crowdfunded via my wishtender.com

Shibari Domme

For my personal enjoyment and pleasure, these items would make me smile:
 La Mer  skin care
Size 42
Size 42
I also have my regular Amazon list for other items I would enjoy. Items range from 5$ to 500$
If you will be seeing me during the next few months, a token from this list or one of my others would be appropriate and appreciated.
To help me celebrate, I would enjoy if you arrived with any of the above.
A bottle of bubbly specifically Krug Champagne would please me if you showed up with one.

Gothic Mistress 2009

How to present/deliver a gift:

Gifts may be presented in person when sessioning or an arranged time. I would enjoy a luxurious dinner with you during this time.
You many also mail gifts to my Saint Louis studio. Email to request address if you don’t know it.
E-gift cards to contribute or present a gift may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com
You may also do so via wishtender.com/chicagomistress
If you are one of my owned slaves, this is the time to focus on this list and show your devotion and service will be shown, especially if you have been with me for awhile ( translation – anything over a year but particularly 5 years or more!) Power exchange is the key to a successful Mistress/slave connection so both parties need to be fulfilled. If you are a long time client, one of these should gain my attention for showing Mistress how she has helped you in your BDSM journey.
I try to be a very giving and caring Dominatrix but this October is the time for me to put forth my desires – henceforth this list.
Know that I appreciate any and all gifts and attention to my special year. Nothing is expected but all appreciated.
I look forward to sharing this milestone with my fellow Dominatrices, submissives, slave , leather family and friends.
Thank you for joining me in this celebration!
Ma’am