Mistress Simone’s birthday desires

It is almost my birthday – and no you can’t ask how many!  Let’s just say 2025 is a milestone year in Mistress’s journey.

I do not believe age defines us. Ageism is a construct placed on society to create unrealistic beauty expectations AKA “lookism” on women and keep the billion dollar cosmetic industry funded. A mature Dominatrix has the skill to take you safely beyond where you feel you can go, to create your perfect scenario within her realm and to control your submission for her pleasure.

Perfect time of year for a birthday – outdoor venues are open, summer festivals starting and my birthday – June 26th. Not too hot , but sunny and bright ( I’m not talking about me!)

 My Sun sign is Cancer  which supposedly means I’m maternal and nurturing – I’ve heard this said by some of my submissives after I administer their spankings! Apparently I need to hit them harder.

Look nurturing to you?  I don’t think so!

I share June 26th, the day with some other kick-ass women :  Babe Didrikson, Patty Smyth and Silver Screen actress Eleanor Parker. What great company for my birthday!

                                                                                                              Birthday Week Sessions:

I never session on my birthday unless a submissive makes it worth my while. Sessions before and after my day can be booked via sessions page.

I enjoy sessioning the week before my birthday, creating some special bondage scenes with you! Here are a few of my favorites in the past :

 

 

 If you do see me during my birthday month, be diligent and review my wishlist before you show up at my door. Tormenting you will be the icing on my celebration.

Even if you can’t see me on my special date, you can show your devotion with a tribute or gift. I will tell you other items that will place a smile on my face in this blog.

If you are in my personal stable or a regular, a gift for special occasions is customary. One not dedicated to remembering their Mistress’s birthday will be noted.

 

 

My most desired gifts in 2025 are Monthly Self care, Experiences and Travel

Self care is very important in my life – as it should be in your life especially if you are dedicated in service to me. I like my subs to be in good health and able to keep up with me. Your assignment to this end is to listen to my podcast on self care. It will provide you with insight into what your Mistress needs in this area.

  My self care may be enhanced via monthly contributing to my beauty regime via  my Throne wishlist, my PayPal if you are privileged , tributes to cover via my online fan-sites or gift cards to my established places of self-care:

• Face & Body Spa
• Aire Ancient Baths
• Kings Spa

Blush Spa 

 Visa giftcards  to cover such gifts may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com

                                                    Experiences include a wide range of things from gourmet dinners, art museums, operas, theater and concerts. I would love to share these with you or know you                                         gifted me a lovely such event. My tastes run a very wide gambit from classical music, musical theater, electronic festivals and metal concerts.

 A few of my favorite venues to attend are :

Lyric Opera

Chicago Symphony

Fox theater Saint Louis

Rave venue Milwaukee

 

                                                  Travel : I do love seeing our big, beautiful world. And would enjoy seeing it with a dedicated submissive who I can torment when we are not sight seeing. We can travel to exotic destinations together , kinky all the way. FMWY (Fly Me with you) are reserved for those I see regularly.  I am also open to FMTY ( Fly Me to you) for sessioning and sightseeing. Visit my sessions page for more FMTY details.  Destinations on Mistress’s wish list:

Disneyland Toyko

Bali 

Grand Canyon

                                                                                                        Showing Your Appreciation on my birthday or year round:

There are other ways to gift to Mistress on her special date and year round.

You can make my month or year more enjoyable by tipping for drinks or dinner via my online platforms :

Sextpanther

Loyalfans

                                                                                                                                                                    Throne

While I do love my fetish wear such as boots, corsets and gloves, I have amassed quite a collection over the last 32 years. I expand my fetish wardrobe with items from a few of my favorite high-end fetish stores such as  Northbound, Libidex or Demask

                                                         I love my dark and spooky clothes too so a gift card to any of these sites will dress my curves to entice you : Killstar , Foxblood and Midnight Hour.

I am well known as a gear whore especially heavy leather and rubber. Add to my collection with a gift from one of my favorite shops:

Studio Gum       Current Pleasures         Mr. S

Enfettered      Fetters  

Want to be the slave who gets to see me in the new latex you gifted me? The slave who gets to be first in my new gear?

                                                              Then send a gift tribute  via my Throne wishlist  or a gift card to my email  from any of these sites to and make both of us happy for my birthday!

Want to partially contribute to my care, travel or a high end designer piece? Throne is the way to gift partially to one. MISTRESS’S THRONE

 

My  Amazon wishlist  has a variety of  gift choices in a price range from 10$ to 500$. It will enable all who desire to please me to choose something enjoy within their desired price range. . As I have said many times on social media and IRL, the size of the gift is not important. it is the thought and energy that went into choosing it.

                                                       Need to send a vanilla gift? Want to dress your Mistress for dinners and trips with you? Then send a electronic gift card to my email from on of my favorite retailers:

                            Alexander McQueen  Sephora  Jo Malone    Tiffany     Rituals      Louboutin

 

 

                                              So now that you have some idea of what I may enjoy receiving, let me tell you a few things I do not enjoy or only specific brands:

I am not big on flowers – I would rather see then thriving in the soil alive and vibrant. Plants however are welcome. I enjoy them in my environments.

Chocolate unless its White and Gourmet particularly Vosges

Wine . While I love wine my collection is quite full right now unless it is a rare vintage or a bottle of my favorite champagne Veuve Clicquot Rose Champagne

                                Scotch and  Bourbon. I do love my whiskey and scotch but tend to be specific on what bottles I desire. If you ask, I will make a desired suggestion for you to avoid duplication.

 

Over the years I have been a very lucky Mistress with some fantastic slaves gifting me lovely items.

Some of my favorites so far :

1. CBT bondage chair from my irisihlicks:  A deliciously evil reclining CBT chair has arrived thanks to my slave.
2. Car : back in the early 2000s, I had a car accident and totaled my beloved Thunderbird. My live-in female slave at the time gifted me a new grand Prix to make sure Mistress could get back and forth to the dungeon. She saw a need – and handled it. What I consider service. From taking care of my daily coffee to making sure I have what I need.
3. Erostek from my footslut Jack. My old one fizzled out, and he replaced it much to his regret, lol!
4. Mini Bose Speaker from my sissy brenna for my Saint Louis dungeon. When I was opening my space in Saint Louis, I needed a way to play music simply. I did not want a full blown , over-sized stereo. She gifted me the perfect speaker which I still use to this day.
5.  A framed needlepoint of my beloved kitty, Re who passed a few years ago. Hand done by my girl Marie and helped by My other girl ,Maribeth. The love that went into such a tender gift makes it so much more special. It now hangs in my Chicago bedroom.
6.  My Tiffany necklace and bracelet from long time slave, Terry. I wear both regularly.
7. Doxy wand from my nerd slave  D. Make sure your Mistress is able to get pleasure whenever she desires, without dealing with another human. Plus the Buckaroo Banzi sequel.
8.                            Self-care gift of monthly maincure/pedicure from my subgirl Jessica. Continual service as a gift goes above and beyond in service.

 

These are only a few of the thoughtful and amazing gifts I have received across my career. I am a truly blessed Mistress. Thank you to all who have sent or given a gift over the years. Thinking of my desires and needs, then choosing to provide is a sign of  your devotion and service. Every time I look at or use one of these items, I recall the sweet submissive(s) who gave it to me.

 

 

 While I appreciate gifts and spoiling me, it is never expected. I acknowledge and appreciate all tokens, regardless of cost or size. In this area, I really do mean, “It is the thought that counts”.

Thinking of your Mistress and her needs shows your service and devotion. A 20$ Starbucks card is just as appreciated as a 2,000$ pair of Louboutin heels – neither of which I wouldn’t enjoy!

All gift-cards may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com

My Throne is the best way to send a gift I desire.

 If you read this blog after my special day, do note that it holds true all year round. Gifts are accepted and appreciated at all times.

If I will be seeing you for a session around this time, consider an outing for dinner and shopping. Even if we are not scheduled for playtime, I do love my outings.

                    Dinner and/or drinks after our session, or if desiring to serve and conversation prior to play- consider scheduling a social date. Keep in mind, prior to sessioning with me, tribute is required.