I had plans to visit St. Louis and discovered Mistress Simone’s website. I have a sensation fetish and am not into pain at all, and my initial reaction was that I wasn’t sure we would be a good fit. But when I actually took the time to actually read her website in detail—always a good idea! —I realized we might have more in common than I originally thought so I contacted her about a possible session. I was still a little hesitant, but a quick phone conversation put me at ease.
I went straight from the airport to her Saint Louis dungeon on a 100+ degree day and was a bit sweaty and light-headed by the time I got there. She let me clean up and took plenty of time to make sure I was feeling OK before proceeding. As soon as we started talking about the session, I felt like she really understood where I was coming from, and she asked a lot of questions to help both of us clarify interests and limits—nothing was rushed. (And honestly, in retrospect, sitting naked in front of her while talking about my fetishes and interests without any judgment on her part was one of my favorite parts of the experience.) I prefer a playful session—but with the Dominatrix in full control—and that’s exactly the tone she set for the start.
The session entailed some light cross-dressing in lingerie and bondage in a couple of variations while blindfolded with lots of amazing sensation play. I had also always listed CBT as a hard limit in sessions because I associate it with ballbusting, but her website talked about it not having to be painful, so we talked about it and she did some more sensation-based CBT that was really awesome. She constantly checked in on me and got permission before trying new things. She seemed really intuitive and anticipated when I might hit my pain threshold and let me decide whether or not I wanted to proceed (but make no mistake, she was entirely in control the whole time!). She also reminded me several times to make sure to breathe when things got intense, which helped me relax and stay in the moment.
I had been intrigued by the Venus 2000 for years but had never experienced it, so we agreed to finish the session with that. I had no idea what to expect, but it was intense, mostly in a good way—all I’ll say is that I had warned her that it often takes me longer than most to finish, but it felt like it only took a minute or less when the Venus 2000 cranked up!
Bottom line, it was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had, and I would happily book a session again with Mistress Simone in a heartbeat the next time I’m in St. Louis or Chicago. I’m sure she’s amazing if you’re into a heavier experience, but if you want to give up control while having a lighter session, I can’t recommend spending time with her highly enough!
Sub Z – May 2022
