It is almost my birthday – and no you can’t ask how many!
Perfect time of year for a birthday – outdoor venues are open, summer festivals starting and my birthday – June 26th. Not too hot , but sunny and bright ( I’m not talking about me!)
My Sun sign is Cancer which supposedly means I’m maternal and nurturing – I’ve heard this said by some of my submissives after I administer their spankings!
Look nurturing to you? I don’t think so!
I share the day with some other kick-ass women : Babe Didrikson, Patty Smyth and Ariana Grande. What great company for my birthday!
Birthday Week Sessions:
I never session on my birthday unless a submissive makes it worth my while. Sessions before and after my day can be booked via sessions page.
I enjoy sessioning the week before my birthday, creating some special bondage scenes with you! Here are a few of my favorites in the past :
Amazon delivery!
All wrapped up for my birthday! Saran Wrapped slave
Rubber bondage birthday
If you do see me during my birthday month, be diligent and review my wishlist before you show up at my door. Tormenting you will be the icing on my celebration.
Even if you can’t see me on my special date, you can show your devotion with a tribute or gift. I will tell you how to please me in this blog.
If you are in my personal stable or a regular, a gift for special occasions is customary. One not dedicated to remembering their Mistress’s birthday will be noted.
Showing Your Appreciation :
You can make my month more enjoyable by tipping for drinks or dinner via my online platforms :
sextpanther.com/chicagomistress
I am always looking to expand my fetish wardrobe with items from a few of my favorite high-end fetish stores such as Northbound, Libidex or Demask
I am well known as a gear whore especially heavy leather and rubber. Add to my collection with a gift from one of my favorite shops: Studio Gum Current Pleasures Mr. S
Want to be the slave who gets to see me in the new latex you gifted me? The slave who gets to be first in my new gear?
Then send a gift tribute via my Wishtender or a gift card from any of these sites to and make both of us happy for my birthday!
My Amazon wishlist has a wide variety of gift choices in a wide price range from 10$ to 500$ , a little something for all who desire to please me. As I have said many times on social media, the size of the gift is not important. it is the thought and energy that went into choosing it.
Unable to serve or celebrate with me in person? Then send a electronic giftcard to my email from on of my favorite retailers: Sephora Killstar Jo Malone Tiffany Rituals Louboutin
Mistress loves Suits
So now that you have some idea of what I may enjoy receiving, let me tell you a few things I do not enjoy:
I am not big on flowers – I would rather see then thriving in the soil alive and vibrant. Plants however are welcome. I enjoy them in my environments.
Chocolate unless its White and Gourmet particularly Vosges
Wine . While I love wine my collection is quite full right now unless it is a rare vintage or a bottle of my favorite champagne Veuve Clicquot Rose Champagne
Over the years I have been a very lucky Mistress with some fantastic slaves gifting me lovely items.
Some of my favorites so far :
- CBT bondage chair from my irisihlicks: A deliciously evil new reclining CBT chair has arrived thanks to my slave.
- Car : back in the early 2000s, I had a car accident and totaled my beloved Thunderbird. My live-in female slave at the time gifted me a new grand Prix to make sure Mistress could get back and forth to the dungeon. She saw a need – and handled it.
- Erostek from my footslut Jack. My old one fizzled out, and he replaced it much to his regret, lol!
- Mini Bose Speaker from my sissy brenna for my Saint Louis dungeon. When I was opening my space in Saint Louis, I needed a way to play music simply. I did not want a full blown , over-sized stereo. She gifted me the perfect speaker which I still use to this day.
- A framed needlepoint of my beloved kitty, Re who passed a few years ago. Hand done by my girl Marie and helped by My other girl ,Maribeth. The love that went into such a tender gift makes it so much more special. It now hangs in my Chicago bedroom.
- My Tiffany necklace and bracelet from long time slave, Terry. I wear both regularly.
- Doxy wand from my nerd slave D. Make sure your Mistress is able to get pleasure whenever she desires, without dealing with another human. Plus the Buckaroo Banzi sequel.
These are only a few of the thoughtful and amazing gifts I have received across my career. I am a truly blessed Mistress. Thank you to all who have sent or given a gift over the years. Thinking of my desires and needs, then choosing to provide is a sign of your devotion and service. Every time I look at or use one of these items, I recall the sweet submissive(s) who gave it to me.
Self care is very important in my life – as it should be in your life especially if you are dedicated in service to me. I like my subs to be in good health and able to keep up with me. Your assignment to this end is to listen to my podcast on self care. It will provide you with insight into what your Mistress needs in this area.
My self care may be enhanced via monthly contributing to my beauty regime via my Wishtender as well as gift cards to my established places of self-care:
Love nails and feet? Do you get off at the idea of sucking my toes? Then take care of my manicure/ pedicure monthly! Visa giftcards may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com
You may also email if you are interested in being my nail slave. Your reward will be exclusive pics not posted anywhere online such as this:
While I appreciate gifts and spoiling me, it is never expected. I acknowledge and appreciate all tokens, regardless of cost or size. In this area, I really do mean, “It is the thought that counts”.
Thinking of your Mistress and her needs shows your service and devotion. A 20$ Starbucks card is just as appreciated as a 2,000$ pair of Louboutin heels – neither of which I wouldn’t enjoy!
All gift-cards may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com
MY Wishtender is the best way to send for a gift I desire.
If you read this blog after my special day, do note that it holds true all year round. Gifts are accepted and appreciated at all times.
If I will be seeing you for a session around this time, consider an outing for dinner and shopping. Even if we are not scheduled for playtime, I do love my outings.
Dinner and/or drinks after our session, or if desiring to serve and conversation prior to play- consider scheduling a social date. Keep in mind, prior to sessioning with me, tribute is required.
Chicago’s Queen Dominatrix Simone