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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Locked up for LOCK-tober &#160; After the usual initial pleasantries and catching up, Ma’am commanded me to strip and lie down upon the blue bondage table in Her dungeon. Despite being October, we had once again failed to plan ahead an appropriate Halloween “concept” for the session, so a basic Mad Scientist-slash-Creature-slash-electricity-“It’s Alive!” concept was [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Locked up for </strong><a href="https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/Locktober"><strong>LOCK-tober</strong></a></h3>
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<p>After the usual initial pleasantries and catching up, Ma’am commanded me to strip and lie down upon the blue bondage table in Her dungeon. Despite being October, we had once again failed to plan ahead an appropriate Halloween “concept” for the session, so a basic Mad Scientist-slash-Creature-<wbr />slash-electricity-“It’s Alive!” concept was hastily hashed out. Despite it being LOCK-tober, She unlocked the cage on Her property, as it would be the thing primarily receiving most of the previously mentioned electricity. (Mistress note: Regardless of the month, your worthless cock is my property. To do with as I wish &#8211; which will never be to touch me.)</p>
<p>Blindfolded within my snug leather hood, there was little else I could do but drift as Halloween themed music played on the speaker. Ma’am encased both of my hands in thick leather mittens and suspended them from above via green bungee cords &#8211; green being the apparent color of the day. My head was then placed in a restrictive paramedic … rescue worker ? box and strapped down securely and once my ankles were secure, She shifted Her focus to the area between my legs and soon I felt the familiar pulsating sting of an electrical current around the cock.(Mistress note : <a href="https://www.vast.de/en_US/shop/category/electrosex-40/page/2">E- stim</a> is a favorite CBT activity of mine. I love treating you like my own personal science experiment.)</p>
<p>Some unfortunate issues revolving around an anal probe followed, resulting in first a vibrator and ultimately a second plug being shoved up inside of me and it wasn’t long before I was buzzing in two extremely sensitive regions.(Mistress note: Always be prepared for oopsies! Things happen in real time sessions that can not be edited out as in video clips? If you saw our bloopers!)</p>
<p>As my nipples had gone relatively unmolested until then, Ma’am decided to compensate by attaching three clamps to each, each clamp bearing a particularly strong grip. My only solace was that She decided against hooking the clamps up to the frame above me via additional bungee cords, but She did opt to connect them to my uselessly dangling hands, cautioning me more than once not to move around too much. Mistress note: Placing you in your own body predicament bondage position delights me to no end. Using your own flesh against itself is a huge turn-on for me.)</p>
<p>Pleased with the suffering I was enduring for Her, Ma’am then opted to indulge Her artistic side, wrapping me up with green cling film. She was happily in Her element which almost made my clamped, plugged and shocked condition endurable. For a while, anyway.</p>
<p>Eventually She seemed satisfied with Her work and declared that She wanted to take pictures of Her creation. But before that, She went to retrieve another toy, leaving me to float in mounting torment. In time, She found what She wanted. It wasn’t until later that I saw that they were long, vicious claw appendages to place over Her fingers. All I knew was that suddenly very sharp things were being dragged across my flesh and very sharp, pokey things were jabbing into parts of me that were already beginning to wear down from the relentless crush. ( Wearing you down so all your barriers fall &#8211; that is when your true training begins for me.)</p>
<p>Since I still had one hole not being used for Ma’am’s entertainment, She removed a few of the claws and slid Her leather gloved fingers into my mouth. First one, then two, shoving them deep. It’s become one of my favorite aspects of our time together – when She… invades my body. Using it. Claiming it. (Making your body mine is key to ownership of all of you. First step &#8211; body, next step &#8211; mind, Final step &#8211; soul.)</p>
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<p>I could have gone on with Her violating my mouth until the end of the session, but there were pictures to take. Having been shown them today, the day after, once Her property was already locked away again and unavailable, I am keenly brought to mind of the irony of my situation. I enjoyed the company of a goddess yesterday, a radiant, profane goddess, but the price was to sacrifice my freedom to truly indulge myself to Her beauty. ( Your freedom is an illusion, granted only by Mistress when she desires.)</p>
<p>Still, all good things and all that. The moment passed, She began to undo all Her handiwork as I became increasingly aware that more than just electrodes had been applied to my groin. But first, the fiendish devices that had been chomping on my poor nipples had to come off. The pain was staggering. Ma’am immediately lent a helping hand by forcefully massaging the blood flow back into the area while I howled. Then off came the clamps down below, their nasty bite initially masked by the electrics. (Nipple play is one of my favorite activities! I love digging my long nails into the soft flesh.)</p>
<p>Last to come off was the blindfold. I was then free to sit up and begin moving my body once again, but my respite was short lived for I was soon leaning up against the same table as Ma’am began indulging her penchant for impact play – first a  whip across my shoulders followed up by a series of heavy paddles across my butt.</p>
<p>Then She said the words: “Turn around!”</p>
<p>There is some debate as to whether or not I muttered a certain curse under my breath, but it only took a few strokes to my poor, brutalized nipples and I unquestioningly screamed: “Mercy!” ( my slave has such sensitive flesh knobs! I am working on increasing his ability to handle more for me.)</p>
<p>Not missing a beat, Ma’am altered the vector of Her whip to up between my legs before eventually having me turn back round to resume Her assault against my backside. I didn’t last long before crying for “Mercy!” again. (Such a sweet word when you give in to me.)</p>
<p>We had discussed before the session began that being the middle of “Locktober” I would not receive an orgasm.  It was my suggestion and to some extent, I do regret opening my big, stupid mouth. But in other, fundamental ways, not so much. Days like this, after we’ve had our fun and I’ve been permitted to cum and then be sent back to my little life… this is usually when I feel the least submissive. It’s like we’ve just been playing a game… or it was just a dream (I referred to it as “Narnia” in the past) But today, after a long, intense session which focused primarily on Her interests and ended with me sent home and locked up with no immediate hope for release… it feels VERY real.( When it becomes real in your mind, I control you.)</p>
<p>But we weren’t even done. Not just yet.</p>
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<p>Ma’am had me sit in a chair while She attached one final set of electrical toys to my body, This time the testicles. She did not spare the batteries, either.</p>
<p>As wave after wave of intense, agony surged though my body, She made me look Her in Her beguiling hazel eyes, demanding: “WHO owns you?” “WHO owns ALL of you?” while punctuating each question with a not-entirely-gentle slap to my face. To make things worse, She handed me Her <a href="https://hitachiwand.com/shop/original-hitachi-magic-wand-massager/">Hitachi magic wand</a> (the secret weapon of Mistress and prodommes worldwide), repeatedly ordering it turned on and off as I jammed it into the cock whose ownership there was no question.  All while She toyed with the intensity of the electrics, frying the bits below. She let me stroke Her bare foot. She rubbed Her breasts in my face. Worst of all, She turned around and ground Her magnificent bottom into me as I cried in pain and shouted “YOU! YOU! YOU OWN ME, MISTRESS SIMONE!” over and over again. (Using my attributes that you will never be allowed to have to tease and torment you delights me!)</p>
<p>Her point made, the torture ceased. She graciously consented to sit on me, allowing me contact with Her bottom, about which I have spun so many fantasies for Her amusement, one last time. (Subs may get rewarded after taking what I desire to administer to them in session. As my slave has an<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cultural_history_of_the_buttocks"> ass fetish</a>, rewarding him with a small worship keeps him well-behaved between our play sessions.)</p>
<p>Then it was time to clean up. She told me that I did well and that She had a good time, two things I am always very happy to hear. Sadly, schedules did not permit a meal afterwards, so we made our way to our cars, hugged, and went our separate ways. ( I do love an after session social time with my slaves. It allows the control to continue in a mundane setting. Power exchange continues to grow.)</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Casual, his ass! &#160; For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress note: Watching my slaves shed their societal wares to bare their self to me is one of my kinks and turn-ons.) Next came the leather hood, collar. After several long weeks, my <a href="https://www.steelwerksextreme.com/">chastity device</a> was unlocked – though casual or no – as always an orgasm was still far from certain and entirely dependent on how pleased Ma’am was with my performance on this day. ( Your orgasm belongs to me. It is only granted when I am pleased. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_sexual_denial">Orgasm control</a> and<a href="https://totalchastity.com/blogs/chastity/choosing-your-keyholder"> keyholder</a> are 2 things I enjoy engaging in.</p>
<p>Firstly, I was sent to stand in the bondage wall corner. She attached some clothespins to my nipples and cuffs were buckled around my wrists and ankles and subsequently fastened to the wall. Ma’am then concocted an additional twist by securing my collar to the wall as well, forcing me to hold as still as I could muster, lest I choke myself. (I do love my predicament bondage.)</p>
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<p>Both facing a corner, as well as being blindfolded, I could only hear the various rattling and clinking as Ma’am gathered various twisted implements for Her amusement. I never really knew what was about to hit me – literally – until, well, it did. Ma’am has often expressed a certain disappointment that in our phone sessions, I do not strike myself with quite the ferocity that She prefers, so She more than makes up for it when we are together. At some point, additional clothespins were added to my nipples as well. (The more clothespins and clamps ,the better.) Eventually, She rounded up six of Her favorites and informed me that in honor of Her recent birthday, I would receive ten strokes from each. Although not specifically instructed to, I called off – or yelped in many cases – the count as a means of getting through the experience. In the end, She was apparently quite pleased with the bruises She wrought, rewarding me with long, sensual scratches down my back.</p>
<p>It was then time to move to another position. Now I was on the floor, at Her feet, one of my favorite places to be. She told me to worship Her boots which I did so happily and eagerly. I make a point of ensuring the soles are properly cleaned (the heels were a bit too chunky to properly suck, but they were licked <i>thoroughly</i>) (Mistress note-I will never make things easy for you. My sadistic pleasure comes before your ease.) before indulging myself with the taste of Her leather. After She was satisfied, She rewarded me yet again by permitting me to then worship Her Goddess backside! I enthusiastically smothered Her bottom in kisses and savored every hungry sniff of Her aroma that I could inhale. She knows this is my biggest fetish and I must have taken my beatings well, indeed, to be so spoiled.</p>
<p>But, alas, nothing lasts forever and all too soon I was transferred to a reclining chair and after tying me down and blindfolding me again, my genitals were wired up and shocked. She also took advantage of this moment to swat my thighs with some implement and reach in and twist and pull my nipples with Her fingers. Presently, She decided my mouth was not being put to sufficient use. First, She slid a dildo in and out, pushing it ever deeper and deeper. A test, no doubt, of my progress on the cock-sucking training I am expected to perform at home in-between serving Her in person. Seemingly satisfied with my progress She switched to having me suck Her leather gloved fingers – again &#8211; making certain to twist them in deep. This has rapidly become one of my favorite activities during our sessions. Strap-On play is great &#8211; and we would come to that presently &#8211; but having an actual, warm, squirming, <i>living</i> part of Her, my Mistress, my owner, inside of me…  It’s powerful stuff.</p>
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<p>Following that, I was directed to get up, move to the table and assume “the position.” She placed the previously utilized dildo directly in front of my face and off and on ordered it to be sucked some more. As I complied, She worked my whorish back hole with an electric plug, ramming it up deep inside me while cranking the voltage, which provided the most extreme stimulation of the day. When I couldn’t take it anymore, She finally showed mercy, replacing the plug with Her strap-on and pumping my hole until I finally begged Her to cum, which She graciously gave Her permission.  It was greatly appreciated! (Keep in mind, one will not always gets release from Me. It is only if I am satisfied with your performance.)</p>
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<p>Though spent, my service was not quite over as I to assist in helping tidy up the <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">dungeon</a> before being permitted to remove my collar and put my clothes on once more.</p>
<p>For what was supposed to be just a casual afternoon, I headed home with a bruised butt and legs of jelly. But as always, dreaming of the next time I would be privileged to enjoy Ma’am’s company again.</p>
<p>Oh, and we also got ice cream. (Mistress note: It&#8217;s the only time I enjoy vanilla!) That was fun. Thank You for everything, Ma’am.</p>
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<p>For those that desire to have something a bit more relaxed while seeing if we mesh for session, I do offer lunch and dinner consultations. Where we can chill, get to know each other and discuss our mutual kinks. For my social consultation information, visit my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/session-info/">sessions page</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Chicago dungeon &#8211; The times they are changing</strong></h1>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">   I&#8217;ve attempted to write this blog now for a month. Starting and stopping numerous times.</h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">It is hard to announce a major change to your life publicly and focus on the clarification of the event. I know this will be the first question many of you will ask, so let&#8217;s get it out of the way.</h4>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Let me state emphatically : I AM NOT RETIRING. REPEAT &#8211; NOT RETIRING!</strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">I am committed to my career and clients. My intent is to continue accepting those both new and experienced that desire to see a mature, skilled Dominatrix with over 30 years of talent. Maturity is hot, after all!</p>
<div id="attachment_2141" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2141" class="size-medium wp-image-2141" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/DSC_2201Retouch_11-200x300.jpg" alt="ChicagoMistress in her dungeon wearing shiny vinyl" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2141" class="wp-caption-text">Chicago Shiny Mistress</p></div>
<p style="text-align: center;">I have been blessed the last 32 years to do what I truly love &#8211; live and share a life of fetishism, kink, and BDSM. I will continue to do so.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I have had my own independent fetish exploration studio in Chicago for 32 years. The current studio had its inception in 2008. This year marks the 17th year you have had the pleasure of sharing my beautiful space with me. I loved creating it, sharing it with both my community and industry. It has been the center of so many beginnings and endings.</p>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">However it is time for a different mode of expression and business. With bitter sweetness, I have closed my Chicago studio <strong>ONLY</strong>. It was a very hard decision but time for a change.</h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">My Saint Louis dungeon will remain. In Chicago, I will be accepting sessions at the wonderful <a href="http://www.apexmediachicago.com">Apex Media Chicago</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">If desire a one hour session or a vibe similar to my heavy bondage front room, I also have the lovely option of <a href="http://www.chicagodungeonrentals.com">Chicago Dungeon rentals.</a></p>
<p>Like many wonderful Dominatrices including my mentor Suzanna D&#8217;Arcy, Friend and owner of fabulous NY Rubber studio, Ariana Chevalier and Wonderful <a href="http://www.vinylqueen.com">Vinyl Queen</a> &#8211; there comes a time when our well-being, quality of life and life balance becomes important.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">So many community groups and organizations had their events meeting sand parties there. Life-stylers and Professionals were provided with a safe, female owned and focused space with no drama or judgement &#8211; the first of its kind in Chicago.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Let me share a few of the groups that called my Studio home over the years:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Chicago Clubfem</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Black beat &#8211; one of the first BIPOC groups formed in Chicago, run by my friend Ms Lash</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Chicago ABDL group</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Chicago Foot Parties</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Vespertine</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Rough Play group</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://fetlife.com/TNGChicago">TNGC Chicago</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">I have been proud to facilitate the local Chicago community and nationwide by hosting so many wonderful educational workshops, from my mentor Suzanne D&#8217;Arcy&#8217;s last class, Lee Harrington&#8217;s weekend, <a href="https://www.kinkacademy.com/">Kink Academy</a>, <a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/">7 days of Domination</a> and <a href="https://www.mistresschiaki.com/rope-works">Mistress Chiaki&#8217;s Shibari classes</a>, to name a few.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I have provided a safe home for numerous fellow Prodommes over the years, opening my doors in friendship and education.  There have been many wonderful touring Dommes visit me at my Chicago space, from my work wife <a href="https://nydominatrix.com/">Elena De Luca,</a> <a href="http://www.vinylqueen.com/">Vinyl Queen</a>, <a href="https://domboss.com/">Irene Boss,</a> <a href="https://dominahelena.com/">Helene Locke</a>, <a href="https://fetlife.com/SkyTerrapin">Sky Terrapin</a>, <a href="https://goddessnyx.com/">Goddess Nyx</a> and many more.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">My space would not have become the welcoming, open space it is without all of you. So many hot scenes, transformative sessions, moving connection within the Studio&#8217;s walls. Oh, if the next tenant only knew!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">            You will be able to still enjoy over 30 years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: <a href="http://www.sextpanther.com/Chicago-Mistress">Sextpanther</a> and <a href="http://www.loyalfans.com/chicagomistess">Loyalfans</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> I will be doing a retrospective blog of all the amazing, intense times I had in this studio and my others. I&#8217;ve been in front of some type of camera for the last 30 years so my catalog of images is extensive. Here is a treat of a few of my favorite scenes from last 3 years :</p>
<div id="attachment_2625" style="width: 198px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2625" class="wp-image-2625 size-medium" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/pride-clown-marc-188x300.jpg" alt="Saran Wrap Pride Slave in Mistress's Chicago dungeon" width="188" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2625" class="wp-caption-text">Saran Wrapped Pride clown</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2628" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2628" class="size-medium wp-image-2628" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/Rubber-suspended-gimp-chicago-Studio-300x199.jpg" alt="Rubber gimp Suspended in Chicago dungeon" width="300" height="199" /><p id="caption-attachment-2628" class="wp-caption-text">Suspended rubber gimp</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2630" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption alignright"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2630" class="size-medium wp-image-2630" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/DSC_4498-200x300.jpg" alt="Mistress Simone catches her Easter slave with all the eggs in their basket" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2630" class="wp-caption-text">Easter BDSM scene</p></div>
<div id="attachment_631" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption alignnone"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-631" class="size-medium wp-image-631" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/breathlogo-200x300.jpg" alt="Latex Demon captured by Latex Mistress" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-631" class="wp-caption-text">Latex Mistress Simone with her demon sub</p></div>
<div id="attachment_2633" style="width: 179px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2633" class="size-medium wp-image-2633" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/20230422_1605201-169x300.jpg" alt="Mistress Simone's encased rubber balloon slave" width="169" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2633" class="wp-caption-text">Rubber balloon Slaves</p></div>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;">Please continue to read for timnext steps.</h5>
<p style="text-align: center;">While  the time line can fluctuate, I estimate my current Chicago studio is now closed for sessions. REPEAT for the 1000th time: I AM NOT RETIRING&gt; Myself and my bondage gear will be available for sessions at<a href="http://www.apexmediachicago.com"> ApexMediaChicago</a> and <a href="http://www.chicagodungeonrentals.com">Chicago Dungeon Rentals</a>.</p>
<p><strong>My gear and equipment</strong> : Again, let me clarify this before it gets asked: I AM NOT CLOSING DOWN FOR GOOD &#8211; THEREFORE I AM KEEPING A GOOD PORTION OF MY GEAR AND DUNGEON FURNITURE. As my Saint Louis space is still open a few pieces and some of the gear from Chicago will go there. Some of it will also be going with me to <a href="http://apexmediachicago.com">Apex Media</a> for use in my sessions there. I will still be fully equipped for all our mutual fetishes like heavy bondage, medical fetish, CBT and more.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I have not decided at this point whether or not I will open another <strong>public</strong> BDSM studio in Chicago. The main reasons I have decided to close my current space are the insane traffic and my current building condition.  If you&#8217;ve been to my studio within the last 10 years, you know the condition of the building has deteriorated, especially my leaky ceiling. I have reached the end of my patience with it.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/IMG_20250704_2315011.heic"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2612" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/IMG_20250704_2315011.heic" alt="" /></a><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2612" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/IMG_20250704_2315011.heic" alt="" /><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2617" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/IMG_20240123_1559291-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">While this is a huge change for Myself and those I sessions with, it will minimize my stress thus allowing me to relax and develop better connections with you when we session. It will be nice to have less stress and focus on our mutual interests instead of managing a space and its issues.</p>
<p>I do not know the emotions it will bring except bittersweet, sad and happy all at once. What I am putting forth here is the factual information of my decision. If you have a desire to reach out to chat, let me know your studio memories and how I and my spaces have created a difference in your life, please do! I would love to hear them, especially for my upcoming book I will be writing.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I can be reached of course here via my <a href="http://www.chicago-mistress.com">website</a> , all my socials and my <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email</a></p>
<div id="attachment_956" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-956" class="wp-image-956 size-medium" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/IMG_17651-300x225.jpg" alt="THE CHICAGO DOMINATION STUDIO of Mistress Simone" width="300" height="225" /><p id="caption-attachment-956" class="wp-caption-text">My Happy place!</p></div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">DUNGEON SALE (completed!):</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">There will be a dungeon sale but it will of gear I want to go to a good home, gear I do not use often or items  that do not fit me. Items will range from dungeon furniture, impact toys, medical fetish items, dungeon supplies, vanilla furniture, shoes, latex clothing and more. Date is <strong>October 25th and 26th</strong>  more details via my social media accounts:<a href="https://twitter.com/#!/chicagomistress"> X,</a> <a href="http://www.fetlife.com/mistress-simone">Fetlife</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/mistress.simone.worthington">Facebook</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chicagomistress_1/?hl=en">Instagram.</a>  There will be  an industry only sale day on <strong>October 25th then Sunday, October 26th</strong> will be open to public. The public sale will require a 10$ donation to attend, of which all will be donated to<a href="https://www.swopchi.org/"> SWOP</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>October 25th -Industry ONLY sale 1-8pm Please be a verifiable professional. If you do not know the Studio address, please email me at <a href="mailto:chicagomistress@gmail.com">chicagomistress@gmail.com</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>October 26th &#8211; Community open sale  1-7pm $10 <a href="https://www.swopchi.org/">SWOP</a> donation due at door. No donation &#8211; no entry Studio address will be given to you via email if you do not know it. My email is <a href="mailto:chicagomistress@gmail.com">chicagomistress@gmail.com</a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I will also be posting some items for sale via<a href="http://facebook.com/mistress.simone.worthington"> Facebook</a>,<a href="http://fetlife.com/Mistress-Simone"> Fetlife</a> ,Ebay and Poshmark.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">When I walk out the door for the final time, it will be with a sad heart but a full, happy and satisfied one. Knowing I did the best I could to make our kink world a little safer, happier and weirder. I hope you will continue to share in the next chapter of my Domination journey with me at <a href="http://apexmediachicago.com">Apex Media</a> for Chicago sessions.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"> You will be able to still enjoy over 30+ years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: <a href="http://www.sextpanther.com/Chicago-Mistress">Sextpanther</a> and <a href="http://www.loyalfans.com/chicagomistess">Loyalfans</a>.</p>
<p>                             As well as new scenes and clips as I get accustomed to<a href="http://www.apexmediachicago.com"> Apex Media Chicago</a> for my new adventures.</p>
<p>Thank you ever so much for trusting me with your kinks, fetishes and perversions. I look forward to this new leg of my Domination journey.</p>
<h3><em>Warmly,  </em><em>ChicagoMistress AKA Mistress Simone AKA Ma&#8217;am </em></h3>
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<h5>P.S. Watch for the Retrospective Blog showcasing some of the fantastic scenes, events, fellow Professionals and submissives I&#8217;ve had the honor and pleasure of meeting over my career.</h5>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>                BITE ME! Vampire Blood Play in BDsm                                        Dealing with Vampiric Encounters &#160; The Intrigue of the Vampire Mythos Women swoon. Children cry. Men scream in fright. Placing the VAMPIRE label  on something or someone causes a myriad of  images. Creatures that are ravenous predators, evil harmful killers who prey on innocent victims.Sensual This [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>                BITE ME! Vampire Blood Play in BDsm</h2>
<h3>                                       Dealing with Vampiric Encounters</h3>
<div id="attachment_632" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-632" class="size-medium wp-image-632" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/boobs-mistress-chicago-200x300.jpg" alt="Medical Mistress Simone is a naughty nurse for your exam" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-632" class="wp-caption-text">You&#8217;re finger licking good</p></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">The Intrigue of the <a href="https://mythosanthology.com/vampire/">Vampire Mythos</a></h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">Women swoon. Children cry. Men scream in fright.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Placing the VAMPIRE label  on something or someone causes a myriad of  images. Creatures that are<br />
ravenous predators, evil harmful killers who prey on innocent victims.Sensual</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">This class will shed light on the seduction vampires have  held over<br />
humanity for centuries.The lore of the life sucking creatures prey on humans has existed since humanity walked on 2 legs.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The Medieval times presented vampires as walking corpses most likely die to disease and pestilence. It wasn&#8217;t until<a href="https://www.forwardpathway.us/the-evolution-of-gothic-literature-and-vampire-narratives"> The Gothic Era</a> that the more romanticized version appeared.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">The <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/vampire">traditional vampire</a> is portrayed as the reanimated body of a<br />
deceased person believed to come from the grave at night and suck<br />
the blood of the person asleep. They can be repelled by sunlight<br />
and/or garlic and can be killed by a wooden stake to the heart.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">In recent times, we have even further glamorized vampires with such<br />
shows as<a href="https://www.hbo.com/true-blood"> True Blood</a>, <a href="https://www.fxnetworks.com/shows/what-we-do-in-the-shadows">What We do Within the Shadow</a>s, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buffy_the_Vampire_Slayer">Buffy</a>,<br />
<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Twilight_Saga_(film_series)">Twilight</a> and of course countless romance/ fantasy series.the movie,<a href="https://www.focusfeatures.com/nosferatu/">Nosferatu</a> has recently been remade for a third time. It&#8217;s been called erotic, sensual, eerie, and sexual.</p>
<p>                                                                  Once again our culture is enraptured of a vampire. Women are swooning, men are aghast, parents are appalled. Let&#8217;s find out why,shall we?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Vampire play engages our most primal spirit. Hunger, sex and<br />
surrender all rolled into one sexy archetype. According to folklore, vampires feed upon the life force of another<br />
being whether it be animal, fish or human. The blood may be the draw.  For others, it is the darkness, romance or spiritual. The<br />
most primal energy of another creature. Having the power of life and death within one&#8217;s being encompasses true power, especially if you can return one to life &#8211; even a strange distorted life. The mysterious creature lurking in the shadows, forbidden, thrilling and sexual. Whether we like to acknowledge it or not, all humans are drawn to the dark.It intrigues and terrifies us at the same time.</p>
<h5 style="text-align: center;"> I recently was honored to present this class for <a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/home"><strong>7DOD</strong> online</a>. To watch the online class version, please visit  <a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/course/tbd-with-mistress-simone"><strong>7DOD Vampire Play</strong></a></h5>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Engaging in the vampire fantasies within our fetish scenes can denote many paths.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">It will need to be done safely and consensually.<br />
But role playing vampire in our sessions can have serious<br />
consequences that we need to be aware of. Biting a client can break the<br />
fluid boundaries. Pricking veins for blood draws can create unsafe<br />
connections and unwanted connections between you and client.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Now for the disclaimer:</strong><br />
I am not a medical professional. In this class, I will not provide full<br />
education on blood borne pathogens,STDs transmitted via bodily<br />
fluid exchange or consumption, or the multiple ways to do the wide<br />
variety of blood play.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Please make sure before you engage in fluid play, you educate<br />
yourself and your play partner on the risks. Knowledge in Power , especially when life in concerned.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Take a first aid class, or multiples, to gain knowledge in how to prevent permanent harm.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"> <strong>In this blog,I will discuss:</strong></h4>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Different forms of vampire play</h5>
<h5>                                                                    How we can engage in the fantasy within our fetish scenes safely and consensually.</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Fantasy vs Reality</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Energy play</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Biting Realistically</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Small blood draws with needles or finger pricks</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">I consider needle play a different beast from vampire play. Needles and<br />
scalpels can be used in this play but are not necessary. They create their own synergy in style and technique.</h5>
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<div id="attachment_2143" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2143" class="size-medium wp-image-2143" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/blood-play-mistress-200x300.jpg" alt="Blood drinking vampire Mistress" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2143" class="wp-caption-text">Your life fluid tastes so delicious!</p></div>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.vampirefacts.net/vampire-information/types-of-vampires/">Possible Forms of Vampire Play</a></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://misanthropicvampire.com/types-of-vampires/"><strong>Psychic or Pranic Vampire</strong></a>: Any person who enjoys actively and regularly absorbing and manipulating human kinetic energy in order to maintain their own emotional,sexual and spiritual well-being.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">They can do this via touch or distance.This type of vampire is very popular within New Age and Pagan communities. I have a separate blog on this topic.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Sexual Vampire</strong>: Any person that feeds specifically on the energy generated from intimate relationships, heavy sexual release and orgasms.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.vampirefacts.net/vampire-information/types-of-vampires/"><strong>Sanguine Vampire</strong>:</a> Vampires who take blood from a partner and use it as a focus for gaining energy. The blood is the main component.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Vampire Play Safety Protocols</strong></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;">Within our scenes, the desire is usually for actual sanguine play. Blood play does not have to incorporate vampire play.<br />
When one thinks of actual vampire blood play, biting is the activity one usually brings to mind.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">It is the image we all see in the media. Cutting , scalpel play, and small blood draws are more associated with blood play.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">However they are activities that can safely facilitate vampire play incorporating a blood component.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">As this is an overview<br />
class , I will cover each with beginners information. Truly each one is<br />
its own in-depth instruction.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Be aware of not only the health risks to all involved parties but the<br />
emotional and spiritual risks. The type of vampire play I engage in<br />
differs from person to person. The more blood/energy involved, the<br />
deeper and more permanent the connection.<br />
<a href="https://www.britannica.com/dictionary/consent">CONSENT</a> is paramount in blood play.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Prepping skin prior to opening it is essential for scene. This will<br />
minimize the risk of bacteria or germs entering the area.<br />
Likewise afterwards, make sure wound is cleaned and covered.<br />
Prevent infection in start and finish. Use 70% or above alcohol to<br />
clean.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Implements such as scalpels, needles and finger pricks must be<br />
single use, sterile and disposed of properly. Do not use knives, razor<br />
blades or vampire gloves. These items tend to be hard to sterilize to<br />
the level needed.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Adrenal spikes can occur with blood play {we tend to fight or flight<br />
when we see blood esp our own}. Make sure you are aware of blood<br />
pressure, heart issues and other possible health conditions of your<br />
donor that may be affected by blood play.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Learn your basic anatomy esp the circulatory system. You will<br />
need to know what major arteries to stay away from. This will<br />
also benefit you in other types of play.<br />
Choose areas that have less major arteries such as breasts,<br />
shoulder blades, buttocks. For a start, here is link to<a href="https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/circulatory-and-cardiovascular-system"> circulatory system</a>.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Vampire Blood Pla</strong><strong>y activities</strong></h3>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"> Biting {<a href="https://positivesexuality.org/tuesday-terms-sanguinophilia-odaxelagnia/">Odaxelagnia</a>}</h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">Biting is the classic vampire way! It is also known as <a href="https://positivesexuality.org/tuesday-terms-sanguinophilia-odaxelagnia/">Odaxelagnia</a>.<br />
The eroticism of Dracula slowly hypnotizing his victim, baring the vulnerable part of their neck<br />
sensuously caressing the vein then savagely sinking his teeth<br />
into their willing offering of flesh is an iconic image.  HOT!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Biting is its own fetish , done to degrees from gentle nibbles to hard<br />
chomps. However, gnawing away at your partner’s neck or body –<br />
even with sharp prosthetic fangs – will not gain you the result you desire. All it<br />
will do is bruise them and your jaw. If the bite is your kink, by all means<br />
administer the traditional sex blood love mark – a hickey. For those<br />
who desire access and fantasy to neck biting, this is the way I suggest<br />
you begin. It can be highly erotic and energetically connected. Plus<br />
leaves lovely reminders of your scene.<br />
Play the fantasy up as much as you like. I’ve done a whole role<br />
play scene where I am Vampire Mistress and my client is my helpless<br />
victim. Tying him down to my table, I then slowly strip his garments<br />
away to expose his vulnerable flesh which I then draw blood to the<br />
surface. You can imagine the rest.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">Keep in mind, this seemingly innocent activity may still break skin and<br />
you may ingest some blood. Also ingesting larger amounts of blood is<br />
not good for the human digestive system. Even though rare meat has<br />
some ,it is usually cooked to some degree. Raw blood from source<br />
can upset your internal system.<br />
If the blood ingestion is your desire, I suggest using a scalpel or<br />
needles. Keep it to a small amount, less than pint. Think of the<br />
medical blood draw we get when go to doctor. A vial that size.Practice safely and learn proper technique.<br />
If the role-play is your desire, consider using fake blood for the<br />
copious amounts. Again, do not ingest it.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/home">7DOD</a> has a wonderful online class on biting by Ms. Fox. You can watch it <a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/course/biting-with-mx-fox">here</a></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://domsubrelationship.com/what-is-knife-play-cutting/"> Cutting</a> (Piquerism)</h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">For all my cuttings also known as <a href="https://domsubrelationship.com/what-is-knife-play-cutting/">Piquerism</a> , I use a sterile, single use scalpel. As it is a medical<br />
implement, it must be disposed of as such.<br />
My main warning with cutting into someone’s flesh is Do not cut too deep!<br />
Last thing you desire is a hospital trip or accidental bleed.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Cuts can look light and not bled when first done so one’s tendency is to give<br />
another cut. Don’t. Be patient. Take the time to wait for blood to rise to<br />
skin.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Cuttings  can scar so this possibility should be discussed beforehand.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Make sure you have safety equipment close at hand to staunch<br />
possible bleeds.</p>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">Blood draws/drains</h4>
<p style="text-align: center;">Blood drains would be the most reminiscent of the traditional vampire drinking of blood. I would not suggest this for a casual session or one-time client.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I develop an intimate connection with all my “<a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blood%20doll">blood dolls</a>” or donors. It is a willing offering -not a forced or taken one.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">An activity I would consider at the higher end of risk. STD and infections are a big risk here. To engage in blood drains and draws safely, you will need to take a <a href="https://phlebotomycoach.com/faqs/what-is-venipuncture">venipuncture</a> class.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I will not go into details here on how to do so as its its own class. I prefer those pros interested in it go to a med professional class that includes certification. No more than a pint!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Think on when you go to get your blood drawn. Blood draws, also known as phlebotomy is how we obtain the blood draws/drains.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Needle pricks &amp; punctures Small amounts usually from needles and pinpricks. A great way to begin with blood ingestion, drawing or smears.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">If you have ever cut your finger, you know you can get what appears to be an incredible amount just from this small opening.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Many people start here with a small drop to taste. If blood art is your desire, the drips and cuts from scalpels and needles can allow you the ability to finger paint safely.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Always monitor your amount. Anytime your donor/partner feels woozy, dizzy, lightheaded or faint – immediately stop, stance the bleeding and administer first aid.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Blood draws is also used to draw a small amount used in ritual, connection and amulets. Blood bonding between partners can be a special passage, a commitment of one’s relationship.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">Be aware anytime you puncture the skin with needle you could end up with<br />
a blood blister especially on cock and balls. This may scare some clients<br />
and compromise them. Do not drain a blood blister, it will subside on own.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">If you would like to preserve the blood into an item to wear, there are ones<br />
for sale on <a href="https://www.etsy.com/">Etsy</a> and other sites that will provide directions on how to make the blood inert yet fluid.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Practical Components Overview<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;">1.  Choose the component that will best work with your intent and<br />
goals. Vampire Play doesn&#8217;t have to involve actual blood. It can just be the dark fantasy you enjoy.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">2.Blood play especially with energetic components does not<br />
preclude logical thought. The key practical ingredient of most protection is an energy<br />
shield. Guard your energy; it can be taken from you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">3. Decide where you stand on your vampire fetishism. Is it the<br />
fantasy, the aesthetic that get you off? The dark clothes, make-up?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">4. Be aware anytime you puncture the skin with needle you could<br />
end up with a blood blister especially on cock and balls. This may<br />
scare some clients and compromise them. Do not drain a blood blister, it will drain on its own.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">5. Hypnotism can be a competent of the fetish – playing off the vampire entrancing their prey with their penetrating gaze. Removing all will to resist.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">This would be a good component skill to add to your vampire play if  you desire. Remember CONSENT is key!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"> 6. Combine sex with your blood play if your dynamic is sexual. One of my hottest nights<br />
was fucking my partner while drawing blood runes on them<br />
from the numerous small cuttings and needles I had done on them prior.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">7.Menstrual blood- even more ritualistic and intimate. Also  lends itself to other types of play such as degradation, empowerment and humiliation.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I hope you enjoyed this blog on one of my favorite types of play. I would love to hear your thoughts or engage with you in session for this type of play. My email is <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">here</a>.</p>
<p>                                                    I love supporting other articles on topics I write upon that I find well-written. This one in particular I find informative. <a href="https://www.lovense.com/sex-blog/kink-bdsm/vampire-fetish">Lovense Vampire blog</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">To learn more of my medical fetish scene, please refer to my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/medical-fetishism/">medical fetishism page</a>.</p>
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<div dir="ltr">                                                          Chicago Mistress,Thanks again for an absolutely fantastic session. I&#8217;m finally coherent enough to put some thoughts together for you.</div>
<div dir="ltr">Before I get to that, though, I hope that you enjoyed yourself.(I did! Usually Mistress will not engage in something unless I also enjoy it. But remember, control of you is my main kink.)</div>
<div dir="ltr">I forgot to ask afterwards, which I usually try to do, but I can only reiterate that my mental faculties were a bit scattered (in a good way!) (Ultimately my goal is to scatter your faculties.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">First off, I really connected with your vibe, the way you were strict-but-playful. I don&#8217;t know you well enough to know if that&#8217;s &#8216;you&#8217; or you just reacting what I had expressed to you in our chat, but it felt genuine and was appreciated.( Mistress note : Strict but playful describes me to a T!  While I may appear approachable, if you misbehave , you will encounter my strict side.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Also, I appreciated the way that you consistently checked in and let me know what was going on (like you leaving for a bit). It made me feel secure and confident that I could push my boundaries. I have seen dommes that put me in stringent positions and then left for a bit, and it&#8217;s not a good thing IMO. ( Your safety will always be paramount to me in our scene. I don&#8217;t like to break my toys.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The initial position on the bed was both intense and comfortable (from a position standpoint). I was concerned at first about my hamstrings with the legs being pulled out like that, but it was fine. Those leg braces were interesting, the way they restricted movement, but allowed a little flex (I love my quality gear. These leg splints were from <a href="http://www.churchofsinvention.com">Sinvention</a>.) I haven&#8217;t worn anything like those before. ( Expanding your horizons with new kinks, implements and positions is one thing I enjoy discovering with you. If I can&#8217;t introduce you to something new, I am challenged to do so in future sessions. After 30 years, I am still able to find new ways to do similar activities.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I loved the way you kept layering in the bondage and restriction, from top to bottom. The butt plug was a nice size, and the electrical CBT via your <a href="http://erostek.com">Eros-tek</a> was intense.( E-stim is a favorite activity of mine. I love having you as my puppet while I control the input. Turning the dials to increase the stimuli. Tease and denial with a touch of my buttons.)</div>
<div dir="ltr">I would be interested in trying strap-on sometime &#8211; I&#8217;ve only done it a few times and it&#8217;s been a long while. ( I reserve my pegging for those I want to ravish. If you are not well-behaved and submissive, you don&#8217;t get my cock. Only those who show obedience to Ma&#8217;am get taken this way. While others engage in strap-on on a whim, with me , you must earn it.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The hand-over-mouth breath play was great, but feel free to go longer and push me more in that area. (Breath play is always done safely and consensually- to learn more read this<a href="https://jaywiseman.com/wordpress/index.php/bondage-and-positional-asphyxia/"> article</a> by Jay Wiseman.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The chair tie was really something. As I mentioned that hood really kept me focused on the breathing,  but also accentuated all the other sensations.(Hyper -focusing you on one sense while I manipulate the others,enhancing your reception of those you are not in control of.) Mistress&#8217;s current focus is on hoods. I have over 100 between my two dungeon locations &#8211; <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio/">Chicago</a> and <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis</a>.  It is my most recent gear focus.</div>
<div dir="ltr">Again loved the layering from the straps to the bondage wrap to the rope. All great. (Layering materials is one of my favorite sessions. Let&#8217;s begin simple and build up till you can&#8217;t move a muscle. Then I will begin to administer sensations- both painful and pleasurable. All at my discretion.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">And the bondage bag at the end was nice and snug &#8211; although a bit big on top as you know. But I loved that material, and you did a great job cinching it up really quickly. ( I will make sure my sub is tightly encased even if what I have on hand is not quite tight enough)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Again, thanks for everything! You obviously are incredibly good at what you do, and I&#8217;m only sorry that it&#8217;s taken me so long to get to <a href="https://www.choosechicago.com/articles/bucket-list/first-time-visitors-guide-to-chicago/">Chicago</a> with some spare time. ( I am glad he finally made it. If you have been on the fence in sessioning with me, I highly suggest you do so in the next 5 years. I know this sounds like plenty of time but in the grand scheme it&#8217;s not. Never leave for tomorrow,what you can accomplish today.)</div>
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<h3 dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Mistress&#8217;s Note</h3>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">All<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/reviews/"> reviews</a> on my website are authentic from submissives I have actually sessioned with in my studios. I add my opinion or clarification to the reviews posted to inform those who desire to see me on my side of the session review. What I gained from the encounter. How I enjoy playing with clients. After so many years as a Dominatrix, my joy comes from the unique, new, journey beginning, enhancing life quality. Oh, and controlling you. Getting you to do as I say, bending to my will.</div>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Tease and denial is a favorite, especially when you are bound and helpless.</div>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Let&#8217;s not wait for the perfect time. Let&#8217;s create the perfect time. Where I control your world!</div>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://throne.com/chiccagomistress">  My ultimate wish list!</a></h2>
<div>For celebrating my big prodomme 30th I wanted to put together the craziest list of items I would enjoy and cherish for the next 30 years. I know some of these items may be outlandish but a Dominatrix has only one 30th. If I&#8217;m blessed and lucky,I will  have a 50th!</div>
<div>It has been a wonderful and wild 32 years with my life being full of adventures, travel, challenges and excitement. I have met the most wonderful people &#8211; both submissives and fellow Dominatrices. Artists, Kinksters, Perverts and Fetishists  who all have joined me on this incredible journey of the past 32 years.</div>
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<div>My origin story will be in another blog but some important facts you may desire to learn while reading my insane list (now is the time to spoil me- like no other time!)</div>
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<li>I am a born and raised<a href="http://WWW.CHICAGO.GOV"> Chicagoan</a>. It is my city.</li>
<li>My first dominant memory was age 5 when I made the neighbor boy ride me around on the back of his tricycle.</li>
<li>I started professional domination  in 1993 -Yes I have proof!</li>
<li>Trained for 2 years in a house with other Mistresses. We shared skills and worked together &#8211; currently I am engaging in mentoring developing Sex Workers on Dominatrix skill sets. Inquire via my <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email.</a></li>
<li>Opened my first solo dungeon in 1995, north-side of Chicago. I have had 4 independent , private BDSM studios with my last studio location being 17 years.</li>
<li>Longest running independent Mistress in Chicago. I have  never taken a break, never semi-retired or month off unless it was by design. The first time I didn&#8217;t work at real-life sessions was during COVID.</li>
<li>I plan on accepting sessions as long as submissives and perverts desire to experience my skills. Translation &#8211; <strong>I&#8217;m NOT RETIRING!</strong></li>
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<p>Let me treat you to some <strong>BLASTS FROM THE PAST :</strong></p>
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<div id="attachment_1709" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1709" class="size-medium wp-image-1709" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/fcs0c8-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-1709" class="wp-caption-text">Latex Military Mistress 2012</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_1710" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1710" class="wp-image-1710 size-medium" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_-au7ee7-300x183.jpg" alt="Mistress Simone in her Chicago bdsm dungeon" width="300" height="183" srcset="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_-au7ee7-300x183.jpg 300w, https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_-au7ee7.jpg 399w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /><p id="caption-attachment-1710" class="wp-caption-text">Chicago Mistress in her Boystown dungeon Circa 2008 with bound female submissive</p></div>
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<div id="attachment_1711" style="width: 137px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1711" class="wp-image-1711 size-medium" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_qjkj3j-127x300.jpg" alt="Mistress Simone and latex clad slave boy in her Chicago dungeon, mistress is wearing latex dress and stilettos, slave boy is in a latex bodysuit and corset" width="127" height="300" srcset="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_qjkj3j-127x300.jpg 127w, https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/IMG_qjkj3j.jpg 409w" sizes="(max-width: 127px) 100vw, 127px" /><p id="caption-attachment-1711" class="wp-caption-text">Kneel before Me &#8211; Chicago Mistress 2017</p></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">   More Vintage dominatrix timeline pictures will be on My upcoming blog on my humble Mistress beginnings</h4>
<p>Over the years I have enjoyed owning some wonderful slaves. Thank you to all of them who have made me the Mistress I am today. I treasure each and everyone of you who wore my collar and still do. Owning you has been one of the true blessings of my life. I have lost some of you to the ravages of time. Others have grown beyond our connection and moved into other desires. I hope with all of you, I have enhanced your lives as you enhanced mine, even if we parted ways. Those I am still blessed to own ,thank you for being mine. It is my pleasure. Let&#8217;s grow old together!</p>
<p>Even if we only played once or a few times, I hope I am in your mind and memory. I love leaving permanent threads in your psyche. Now is the time to get back in my attention, or just say &#8220;Thank you&#8221;</p>
<p>For new submissives who desire to session, serve and/or submit , I am opening my roster this year! To learn how to start on the journey with me, visit my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/session-info/">Sessions page</a> then fill out my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/contact/">application</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>A gift from this list or my personal website<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/wishlist/"> Wishlist</a> would get my attention. I also have an <a href="https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/11R1K9SIAUHJ8?ref_=wl_share">Amazon</a> list as I know it is easier for many.</strong></p>
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<h4>The best gifts IMO are experiences, travel and security. Enhancing Mistress&#8217;s life in one of these manners would be the perfect gift for my anniversary. Some of the ways to do so are :</h4>
<div>Stocks and bonds for portfolio (Some of you know how to place things in my vanilla name, others can email me)</div>
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<div>Tribute towards security and self-care ( best way is via <a href="https://throne.com/chicagomistress">Throne</a>) or <a href="http://www.investor.vanguard.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.investor.vanguard.com&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1693965067152000&amp;usg=AOvVaw0vp9SO4mv6ivR0DpRdO5ni">www.investor.vanguard.com</a></div>
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<div>Trip to <a href="http://www.bali.com">Bali</a>, <a href="http://www.spain.info">Spain</a> or <a href="http://www.portugal.com">Portugal</a> (may be crowdfunded via <a href="https://throne.com/chicagomistress">Throne</a>) or you can plan a FMWY- Fly Me With You &#8211; where we create an immersive power exchange vacation together</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.aa.com"> American Airline vouchers</a></div>
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<div>Dining Experience at one of Chicago&#8217;s finest, <a href="http://www.alinearestaurant.com">Alinea</a> ( you are more than welcome to join in this experience with me)</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.beaire.com/en/aire-ancient-baths-chicago">Aire Ancient Bathes Spa</a> Chicago Day Experience</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.lifetime.life">Lifetime fitness</a> membership covered for 2 years</div>
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<div><a href="http://www.faceandbodyspa.com">Face &amp; Body</a> Laser treatments</div>
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<div><a href="https://northbaywinetours.com/wine-tour/">Sonoma Country</a> wine experience ( you are welcome to accompany me)</div>
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<div><a href="https://www.thejoyfulgourmet.com/gift-cards/">Cooking classes</a> (Yes I like to cook, it relaxes me)</div>
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<h4>Gift cards are accepted for any of the above. Please send them to my <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email</a> or visit my <a href="https://throne.com/chicagomistress">Throne wishlist</a></h4>
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<h4>That said, there are some lovely tokens I would enjoy receiving and wearing/using for years to come:</h4>
<h5>In the Bondage arena, ultimate items would like:</h5>
<div><a href="https://enfettered.com/product/enfettered-et-line-tilting-treatment-chair/">Enfettered Medical Chair</a> &#8211; May be crowdfunded via my <a href="https://throne.com/chicagomistress">Throne</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://en.rubbers-finest.de/produkte/p/sarkopharg">Rubber Sarcophagus</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://erostek.com/products/mk-312bt-power-unit?variant=40581020057667">Erostek 312BT</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://churchofsinvention.com/ultimate-psyche-ward-arm-splints">Sinvention Arm Splints</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://churchofsinvention.com/prestigious-arm-muff-restraint">Sinvention Arm Muff</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://churchofsinvention.com/foot-suspension-for-bondage">Sinvention Foot Cuffs</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://fetters.co.uk/collections/straitjackets-sleepsacks/products/fetters-canvas-and-leather-straitjacket">Fetters Straight jacket</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://fetters.co.uk/collections/straitjackets-sleepsacks/products/fetters-deluxe-leather-lined-sleepsack">Fetters leather sleepsack</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/triskele-suspension-ring-stainless-steel">Triskele Suspension ring</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/locking-thigh-to-wrist-restraints">Locking Thigh to Wrist restraints</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/the-puffy-hood">The Puffy hood</a></div>
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<h5>For my personal enjoyment and pleasure, these items would make me smile:</h5>
<div><a href="https://www.hermes.com/us/en/product/elan-cuff-bracelet-H010694CD89T2/">Hermes Cuff</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.cartier.com/en-us/jewelry/rings/trinity/trinity-ring-classic-ceramic-CRB4095600.html">Cartier trinity ring</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://magiclinen.com/collections/queen-linen-sheets">Magic Linen Queen Sheet set in grey blue</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/nastroloubi-f-a-v-l-black-black-multi-3615487108704.html">Louboutin tote bag</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.veuveclicquot.com/en-us">Veuve Clicquot Rose Champagne</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.cremedelamer.com/"> La Mer</a>  skin care</div>
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<div><a href="https://eng.polene-paris.com/products/numero-un-nano-noir-graine">Polene Tote</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket">Sauna Blanket</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/pyraclou-black-lin-black-3210806b439.html">Louboutin Size 42</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://us.christianlouboutin.com/us_en/pumppie-botta-black-3230719bk01.html">Louboutin Pumps</a></div>
<div>Size 42</div>
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<div><a href="https://www.chanel.com/us/fashion/p/ABB500B14061NR342/cuff-resin-metal-strass/">Chanel Cuff</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.hermes.com/us/en/product/resille-necklace-H057125FD00/">Hermes Necklace</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.ritual.fashion/collections/from-the-stars/products/starchild-jacket?variant=39641783828522">Ritual Jacket</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.alexandermcqueen.com/en-us/the-slash-bag-732794DYTCC1090.html">Alexander McQueen</a></div>
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<div><a href="https://www.ralphlauren.com/women-accessories-small-leather-goods/rl-888-satin-mini-crossbody-chain/651480.html?dwvar651480_colorname=Black#lang=en_US&amp;rootLevelCat=&amp;br=t&amp;q=RL%2B888&amp;start=1">RL 888</a></div>
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<div>I also have my regular<a href="https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/11R1K9SIAUHJ8?ref_=wl_share"> Amazon</a> list for other items I would enjoy. Items range from 5$ to 500$</div>
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<div>If you will be seeing me during the next few months, a token from this list or one of my others would be appropriate and appreciated.</div>
<div>To help me celebrate, I would enjoy if you arrived with any of the above.</div>
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<div>A bottle of bubbly specifically<a href="https://www.vivino.com/US-NY/en/krug-grande-cuvee/w/7122486"> Krug Champagne</a> would please me if you showed up with one.</div>
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<h4>How to present/deliver a gift:</h4>
<div>Gifts may be presented in person when sessioning or an arranged time. I would enjoy a luxurious dinner with you after our session time.</div>
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<div>You many also mail gifts to my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis studio</a>. Email to request address if you don&#8217;t know it.</div>
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<div>E-gift cards to contribute or present a gift may be sent to<a href="mailto:chicagomistress@gmail.com"> chicagomistress@gmail.com</a></div>
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<div>Gifts may also be sent via <a href="https://throne.com/chicagomistress">Throne</a></div>
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<div>If you are one of my owned slaves, this is the time to focus on this list and show your devotion and service, especially if you have been with me for awhile ( translation &#8211; anything over a year but particularly 5 years or more!) Power exchange is the key to a successful Mistress/slave connection so both parties need to be fulfilled. If you are a long time client, one of these gifts should gain my attention for showing Mistress how she has helped you in your BDSM journey.</div>
<div>I try to be a very giving and caring Dominatrix but my Domme anniversary in October is the time for me to put forth my desires &#8211; henceforth this list.</div>
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<div>Know that I appreciate any and all gifts and attention to my special year. Nothing is expected but all appreciated. All gifts of any size sent with devotion and service will be appreciated.</div>
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<div>I look forward to sharing this milestone and many more with my fellow Dominatrices, submissives, slave , leather family and friends.</div>
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<div>Thank you for joining me in this celebration!</div>
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<div>Ma&#8217;am</div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Sensation Experience Session with sub z &#8211; Saint Louis Dungeon By Sub Z May 2022 at Saint Louis dungeon &#160; &#160; I had plans to visit St. Louis and discovered Mistress Simone’s website. I have a sensation fetish and am not into pain at all, and my initial reaction was that I wasn’t sure we [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align: center;">Sensation Experience Session with sub z &#8211; <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis</a> Dungeon</h2>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;">May 2022 at <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis dungeon</a></h5>
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<div id="attachment_669" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-669" class="wp-image-669 size-medium" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Anthony-Sapone-Photography-132-200x300.jpg" alt="Saint Louis Dominatrix in her bdsm studio wearing stilettos and vinyl bodysuit" width="200" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-669" class="wp-caption-text">Elegant Saint Louis Dominatrix</p></div>
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<p>I had plans to visit <a href="https://explorestlouis.com/">St. Louis</a> and discovered <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com">Mistress Simone’s website</a>. I have a sensation fetish and am not into pain at all, and my initial reaction was that I wasn’t sure we would be a good fit. But when I actually took the time to actually read her website in detail—always a good idea! —I realized we might have more in common than I originally thought so I contacted her about a possible session. I was still a little hesitant, but a quick phone conversation put me at ease. (Mistress&#8217;s note : If you are uncomfortable taking the first step, I am happy to chat with you via <a href="https://sextpanther.com/chicagomistress">Sextpanther</a> or <a href="https://www.Niteflirt.com/Mistress_Simone">Niteflirt</a> prior to our session.)</p>
<p>I went straight from the airport to her <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis dungeon</a> on a 100+ degree day and was a bit sweaty and light-headed by the time I got there. She let me clean up and took plenty of time to make sure I was feeling OK before proceeding. As soon as we started talking about the session, I felt like she really understood where I was coming from, and she asked a lot of questions to help both of us clarify<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bdsm-fetishes-kinks/"> interests</a> and limits—nothing was rushed. (And honestly, in retrospect, sitting naked in front of her while talking about my fetishes and interests without any judgment on her part was one of my favorite parts of the experience.) I prefer a playful session—but with the Dominatrix in full control—and that’s exactly the tone she set for the start. (Mistress&#8217;s note : Playing to connect and be present with the submissive I am with is key component of a good session for me. Meeting each other on the same level.)</p>
<p>The session entailed some light cross-dressing in lingerie and<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bondage/"> bondage</a> in a couple of variations while blindfolded with lots of amazing sensation play. I had also always listed <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">CBT</a> as a hard limit in sessions because I associate it with ball-busting, but her website talked about it not having to be painful. ( Mistress note: CBT does not have to be painful. Sensual to sadistic! What is most important is the reaction I receive from my submissive. I like creating responses in you)</p>
<div id="attachment_677" style="width: 253px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-677" class="size-medium wp-image-677" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/20180512_simone_chicagomistress4258-243x300.jpg" alt="Saint Louis Mistress enjoying cbt and sensation play. Nipple clamps" width="243" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-677" class="wp-caption-text">Let&#8217;s create some sensations in my Saint Louis bdsm studio.</p></div>
<p>We talked about it and she did some more sensation-based <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">CBT</a> that was really awesome. She constantly checked in on me and got permission before trying new things. She seemed really intuitive and anticipated when I might hit my pain threshold and let me decide whether or not I wanted to proceed (but make no mistake, she was entirely in control the whole time!). She also reminded me several times to make sure to breathe when things got intense, which helped me relax and stay in the moment.</p>
<p>I had been intrigued by the <a href="https://venusformen.com">Venus 2000</a> for years but had never experienced it, so we agreed to finish the session with that. I had no idea what to expect, but it was intense, mostly in a good way—all I’ll say is that I had warned her that it often takes me longer than most to finish, but it felt like it only took a minute or less when the Venus 2000 cranked up!</p>
<p>Bottom line, it was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had, and I would happily book a session again with Mistress Simone in a heartbeat the next time I’m in<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> St. Louis</a> or <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio">Chicago</a>. I’m sure she’s amazing if you’re into a heavier experience, but if you want to give up control while having a lighter session, I can’t recommend spending time with her highly enough! (Mistress note : While I am known for my heavier engagements, I love playing on all levels from novice to experienced, light to heavy. Connection with my subs/clients is the thing I enjoy most.So don&#8217;t be afraid to reach out to Mistress. My <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email</a> is the best point of initial contact.)</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a &#8221; societal feminist&#8221;.  I have taken into account the possible sensitive nature of my opinion ,hopefully by explaining it I [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>As this article was originally presented at in-person kink events, my personal opinion and experience is reflected within. I identify as a bisexual female dominatrix. My pronouns are she/her. I do not identify as a &#8221; societal feminist&#8221;.  I have taken into account the possible sensitive nature of my opinion ,hopefully by explaining it I will increase the general understanding of female dominance,sex work and the right to do as I see fit with my sexuality and body.</p>
<p>The definition of feminism from <a href="https://www.merriam-webster.com/">Merriam-Webster</a> is &#8220;<span class="dt "><span class="dtText">belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of women&#8217;s rights and interests</span></span>&#8221;</p>
<p>One of the issues with this definition is defining &#8220;Women&#8217;s rights and interests&#8221;. Much of traditional feminist theory is anti sex-work and anti &#8211; BDsm. The common misconception that a woman would not freely and actively choose sex work fuels this doctrine of anti-sex work feminism. It is lumped in with trafficking, abuse and poverty. While these factors do play a part in sex-work for many, it does not apply for all. Remove the trafficking part and we could say the same about  some male-focused monogamy. There are many factors surrounding choosing sex -work and male- controlled contractual relationships. I do not pretend to be an authority here, nor demean any woman&#8217;s freedom of choice or life situation. Class, Ethnicity, Social constructs all play a part in choice. My focus here is to dispel some of the negativity surrounding sex-work and especially Dominatrices.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.thoughtco.com/feminist-theory-3026624">Feminist theory</a> has come a long way since the 1970s. New ways of thinking about feminist have developed from intersectional, religious, class and conservative. Just as I desire to be accepted for my choices, I need to try to understand and accept another&#8217;s choices. While I may not be conservative, there are those that are and support the feminist ideals which go along with their values.The main thing I am advocating here in sex -work and BDsm can be a choice, an empowerment and a world of fun!</p>
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<p>Bondage &amp; Dominance/Sadomasochism &amp; Masochism (commonly referred to in our culture as BDSM) has been regarded as a taboo topic for open discussion. However, more and more lately you see it popping up in lecture series, classes’ syllabi and round table discussions. Why? Why now? Is our society finally ready to open the closet door and let out one of our darkest skeletons? I can only hope so.Not all the portrayals are healthy. Case in point &#8211; &#8220;<a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2322441/">Fifty Shades of Grey</a>&#8221; in which a stalker is romanticized. I have not read the book,nor will I with so much excellent eroticism written by actual kinksters on the shelves (support your local artists) ! However, I have read enough excerpts and seen movie clips to know this puts forth a perpetually continuing facet of abuse being romanticized. Just like society sees Dominatrices as controlling, money hungry shrews who hate men, or abused girls with Daddy issues. Abuse is not a joke, nor one to marginalize for politic purposes. It is a serious culture issue that needs our support for the victims.</p>
<p>Many misconceptions are attributed to  Mistresses, Dominatrices,Dominas,Dommes or dominant women (from here on in referred to as Dommes.)</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s begin with the common reasons that do not apply to myself as a Dominatrix. They may apply to others , but many people I know in this industry chose this profession.</p>
<h5><strong>Some of the popular ones I have been confronted with are:</strong></h5>
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<li>You hate men and like to hurt them.</li>
<li>You are a lesbian venting your anger on the male sex.</li>
<li>It’s a way to prove women are the stronger sex.</li>
<li>You were abused as a child (by either parent) and this is your way of coping.( Valid reason but not one of mine, again I do feel any form of abuse needs to be heard and validated)</li>
<li>You were raised by an overly aggressive mother and weakling father; or vice versa and are now<br />
compensating.</li>
<li>You just need a good lay, dick, cock, fill in the blank.</li>
<li>You&#8217;ve never had a stable relationship with a man.</li>
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<p>While I admit there are those in this lifestyle who have these reasons, I am not one. I will go into detail later about my personal reasons for choosing my profession. Besides it being my form of sexual<br />
expression, it is also my life-long career. I am a professional Dominatrix, <a href="https://www.kinkacademy.com/">sex educato</a>r, author and lecturer. I have now added Pod-caster to the list. Episodes can be found <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/podcast/">here</a>.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at this  concepts we often hear as sex-workers . Please do keep in mind, this is my OPINION.</p>
<p>&#8220;Hate Men&#8221; First, why would I desire to spend my entire adult life in intimate settings, touching and being touched by beings I hate? Does this not sound like a wasted life? I LOVE men and women and trans and Queer and and&#8230; humans! People are more than their skins allow. We are magical, engaging, vibrant creatures to whom as a sex worker I can show the transcendence of pain and pleasure, altering our realities for power, sex, enrichment and ethereal magic. Second, to judge an entire gender solely based on traits displayed by some is the same as saying &#8220;All Women are bitches.&#8221;  Let&#8217;s just not. Judge each person on their own merits and behaviors.</p>
<p>&#8220;Lesbian&#8221; Please update your outmoded opinions of who a lesbian, gay or queer can be. Educate yourself. As for venting anger on the male sex, why does anger only stem towards the males? Anger can be towards any gender. Anger is not defined by gender. However , a gender issue can cause anger such as sexual harassment, violence, rape.This is a very long and difficult topic which I am not knowledgeable enough to handle in one simple blog post. But to address the point- My career is not therapy therefore I do not take my anger out when engaging with clients. I am responsible for their safety. Anger can compromise that safety.</p>
<p>&#8220;Stronger&#8221; Why do we need to prove anything and to who? Again these hearkens back to the age old &#8220;Battle of the Sexes&#8221; Women, Men ,Trans, Non binary ,Queer are all strong in own ways. We should support each other in our differences. Plus my strength only needs to be proven to myself. I am the judge of my strength. Inner strength needs to bolstered in our society, not outward based on communal societies like the caveman pulling his mate by the hair after clubbing her. Men should be able to cry and not have their strength questioned. Women who are strong should not be called &#8220;Bitches&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Abuse&#8221; This one is hard to address. While BDsm can be cathartic, and we do at times trigger memories of abuse, we should not engage as therapists unless licensed to do so. It would be unethical to treat my clients for trauma or abuse without the support of a licensed therapist or doctor. I can assist , discuss, support and help heal. And I have met fellow sex workers that use their career as support for themselves and their clients to embrace trauma.</p>
<p>&#8220;Parents&#8221; Having an aggressive or strong mother and weak father doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;m going to grow up to be a Dominatrix. Neither does the opposite.While environment can affect one&#8217;s careeer path, it is not a set in stone for future life choices. We have freedom of choice. I grew up to be a Dominatrix because I&#8217;m a natural dominant, enjoy controlling others in a safe setting and am perverted as hell. It allows me freedom of expression and sexuality.</p>
<p>The last 2 I&#8217;m going to keep simple : Had plenty of both. Have plenty of both. Come up with a new line as we&#8217;ve heard it before. It also makes the male biased assumption that all we want is dick. That&#8217;s your fantasy honey, not ours.</p>
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<p>Now, let’s touch on feminism again.You would think being a dominant woman goes hand in hand with feminism. Those reasons stated above are just a few of why aligning with the popular feminist theory  while being a dominatrix can make it difficult. People don’t want to hear that a strong woman can actually enjoy the pleasure she receives from controlling men. That I enjoy the kinky activities I partake in. She must<br />
be a card carrying militant feminist! They don’t want to accept that one can be well adjusted, in a happy relationship, from a good home and not abused as a child.</p>
<p>It is difficult for many people to accept that anyone would desire to explore an alternative sexuality without being encumbered by heavy issues. Similar to porn stars, many women in the BDSM community are exposed to continual harassment from people for participating in such a deviant practice. Being the dominant women, I should be upholding the feminist creed of no subordination/subjugation by<br />
controlling these men. I am the stronger gender in my lifestyle. I am not subjected to the domination of men in my lifestyle.Or am I? All relationships have a component of power exchange. You visit the dentist &#8211; he tells you what needs to be done ; you go out to eat, get good service, reward with a tip ; you obey traffic laws- you don&#8217;t get arrested. Even as a Dominatrix I need to consider my play partner&#8217;s interests. Otherwise I would be out of a job. I may have more control over the total engagement than others, but I still need to be well-matched with those I see.</p>
<p>It may easier for me than my submissive sisters who must deal with all the negative connotations of female weakness, domestic violence and physical abuse. A submissive woman could not possibly be a feminist if she lets men control her and physically or emotionally manipulate her.How could she willingly place herself in the subordinate position, under a male? Consider for a moment, the immense amount of inner strength a submissive woman must have to place herself in that position against all current social constructs. She must truly know her inner desires and have the strength to pursue them regardless of how others might react to her. Much like our fore-mothers who pursued suffrage.</p>
<p>Along with BDSM as a sexual activity may come social activism, community awareness and political lobbying. These are all goals the original feminists strove for in the Suffrage movement.<br />
It was not simply enough to obtain our right to vote. The bigger goal was complete social reform. Suffragists were concerned with all aspects of society from the social to the moral. They<br />
sought to bring about the change of society by upholding its most valued principles: honesty, humility, charity and selflessness. I know a fellow dominant woman who is currently using her<br />
leather woman title to actively support the HIV clinical trial studies. Another friend uses her voice to petition all women to have mammograms. Many leather groups actively petition for<br />
overall LGBTQ? Rights. Personally, I used my platform to increase awareness about bisexuality within our community and LGBTQ? relationships. If this is not continuing the founding<br />
mother’s feminist principles, I do not know what is.</p>
<p>To further explore the feminism connection, the ability to express ourselves however we desire within both our sexual and daily lives stems directly<br />
from the contraceptive battles of the 1940s and 50s to the feminist bra burning fights in the 1970s. These women fought hard for the right to enjoy sex, have an orgasm and stand up and say:’ We like sex, we want sex and we are not<br />
ashamed of it!” How we devalue their efforts  now saying to other women that they can only enjoy sex how we as a whole group feel is unacceptable. We should be ashamed of ourselves!</p>
<p>One of our common Leather community principles states that all safe, sane and consensual activities are accepted.Another version is RACK &#8211; Risk Aware Consensual Kink. The keyword here is consensual. BDSM is about empowering  all people, especially women, to explore their sexuality in a safe context. We have set community standards for those interested to follow when they first enter the BDSM world. There are BDSM safe houses for those who are in abusive relations and desire to leave them. BDSM educators across the nation seek to inform the general populace about the reality of our lifestyle.<br />
Repression of our sexual desires has been shown to do more harm to our psyche than expressing them safely with those who we love (Social Psychology, Aronson, Wilson &amp; Akert,<br />
2002). <strong>Freedom of choice is one of the major tenets we base our country on. This right should be extended to those who practice alternative sexualities safely.</strong></p>
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<h6><strong>Now to the reasons I AM a dominant woman active in BDSM:</strong></h6>
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<li>I love men,women,trans, queer, non-binary = souls! I enjoy their reactions to the activities I administer upon them.</li>
<li>The power exchange between active parties in a scene is beyond explanation. It is a much more<br />
spiritual bond than I have encountered in my non-BDSM relationships.</li>
<li>The people in the community I have met are extremely intelligent, honest and moral. I enjoy<br />
having such people in my life.</li>
<li>Freedom of expression. It enables me to utilize some of my creative juices on a regular basis. <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/play-an-adult-concept/">Read</a> my take on how we as adults need play.</li>
<li>My office is the coolest , and my work uniform beats most.</li>
<li>Connection- control- compassion</li>
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<p>Professionally, I am fulfilled by assisting those who come to see me express their fetishes safely in a controlled environment. I do not partake in sexual exchange with my clients. Among my<br />
clients I have married men and women who can’t otherwise express their BDSM. I also have elderly and handicapped clients who are uncomfortable with public display or desire the safety<br />
of a professional. I have women who have submissive desires and are more comfortable with a female Dominatrix than a male master. My current desires for professional scenes are clarified <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/about-mistress/">here</a>.</p>
<p>Those are some of my reasons for being a dominant woman in the BDSM lifestyle. They are not everyone’s reasons. Power does come into play. I will not deny I enjoy my power over males.<br />
But it is not solely my reason. I also enjoy my power over all my submissives , regardless of gender. Other women I know have used it as a tool for such empowerment. I feel it can be a great healing tool for women dealing with all types of psychological issues, if coupled with proper therapy.</p>
<p>Feminism is a societal label slapped on a concept designed to place females into a controllable group. Feminism does not have tenets beyond the bolstering up of female identified genders. If my feminism means I get to live the life I choose as a sex worker that is no less feminist than a bra burning traditional feminist. Choice is choice.</p>
<p>I hope my thoughts here have given you some insight into our world. Many of the issues raised within this blog bear further exploration and research. I hope to continue my growth within<br />
this context and develop a sound body of work to help our society better understand females involved in BDSM.</p>
<p><strong>SUGGESTED READINGS/REFERENCES</strong></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mistress-Manual-Girls-Female-Dominance-ebook/dp/B005HZ6H5A/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2GYNY4QFWVJ6X&amp;keywords=Mistress+Manual&amp;qid=1649896831&amp;sprefix=mistress+manual%2Caps%2C350&amp;sr=8-1">The Mistress Manual</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Art-Sensual-Female-Dominance/dp/0806520892/ref=sr_1_12?crid=2U633Y7RX916O&amp;keywords=female+dominance+ethics&amp;qid=1649897488&amp;sprefix=female+dominance+ethic%2Caps%2C177&amp;sr=8-12">Art of Sensual female Dominance</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Thinking-Kink-Collision-Feminism-Popular-ebook/dp/B00XNYNOKI/ref=sr_1_1?crid=4KOUYWBV10UY&amp;keywords=kink+and+feminism&amp;qid=1649896941&amp;sprefix=kink+and+feminism%2Caps%2C363&amp;sr=8-1">Thinking Kink : The Collision of  BDsm, Feminism and Popular Culture</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Nagging-Questions-Dana-Bushnell/dp/0847680061/ref=sr_1_1?crid=LFR62L5SMUWZ&amp;keywords=nagging+questions+feminist&amp;qid=1649897086&amp;sprefix=nagging+questions+feminist+%2Caps%2C125&amp;sr=8-1">&#8220;Nagging&#8221; Questions: Feminist Ethics in Everyday Life</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Female-Domination-Elise-Sutton/dp/1411603257/ref=sr_1_10?crid=2U633Y7RX916O&amp;keywords=female+dominance+ethics&amp;qid=1649897273&amp;sprefix=female+dominance+ethic%2Caps%2C177&amp;sr=8-10">Female Domination by Elise Sutton</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sexually-Aggressive-Women-Perspectives-Controversies/dp/1572301651/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10ED59GTMV9DC&amp;keywords=sexually+aggressive+women&amp;qid=1649896669&amp;sprefix=sexually+aggressive+women%2Caps%2C394&amp;sr=8-3">Sexually Aggressive Women: Current perspectives and Controversies. Edited by Peter Anderson</a></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Saint Louis Dominatrix session review &#160; I have seen Mistress Simone&#8217;s website and social media and always wondered what a session would be like. The process started with a simple email followed by a questionnaire ( My contact application for sessions locate HERE) and some very non evasive screening. I requested a session in St. [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I have seen Mistress Simone&#8217;s <a href="https://www.chicago-mistress.com">website</a> and<a href="https://www.bluesky.com/chicagomistress"> social media</a> and always wondered what a session would be like. The process started with a simple email followed by a questionnaire ( My contact application for sessions locate <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/contact/">HERE</a>) and some very non evasive screening. I requested a session in<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> St. Louis</a> that was very easy to schedule.</p>
<p>I arrived on time as requested, not early nor late. She greeted me at the door wearing black leather attire looking absolutely stunning. Her <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> Saint Louis Dungeon</a> is fully equipped with all the implements anyone could possibly want. Every item was of a very high quality with the feel of real BDSM gear. ( Mistress note: I believe in quality in all I do, especially my dungeon gear. If it won&#8217;t survive through my sadistic machinations, its not worthy of my dungeons.) I was told to undress and kneel in front of her so we can have a conversation about expectations limits and safe words, rules and boundaries. ( Mistress note: I always have a pre session intake talk with new submissives. it helps us get comfortable with one another and cover session protocol.)</p>
<p>She asked if I had any questions and once the session began she immediately started with nipple clamps. She then ordered me over to her bondage chair which is an amazing piece of equipment. I was tied into it with my legs spread for full exposure. I was extremely impressed with her rope skills.( I love engaging my skills with bondage implements on you. With over 30 years of tying up people to allow them the freedom to let go and relax, I pride myself on creating a myopic universe for us together in my studio.Learn more about my bondage skills <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bondage/">here</a>.)</p>
<p>She said we&#8217;re going to start with some<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a>,one of her specialties (Read how I enjoy creating<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a> sensation on you). Continuing with her rope skills, she tied my balls in a tight package and took the opportunity to slap and squeeze them to make sure I was paying attention. She seem to thoroughly enjoy my whimpering and discomfort. (Mistress note: I do indeed enjoy your discomfort. Your reactions to my administrations is one of my main kinks.)</p>
<p>She then untied me and removed the nipple clamps. I was rewarded with the words &#8220;Good Boy&#8221;. Mistress Simone then put leather wrist and ankle restraints on me. She then had me crawl up on her bondage table. This is an amazing piece of equipment with restraining hooks placed all around the outer edge.( My equipment enhances our time together. I love gear that increases my ability to control you.View my Saint Louis <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">dungeon here.</a>) She put the nipple clamps back on and told me to lay my ass over this round pillow. While laying on my stomach,she ran rope through the chain of the clamps so any movement on my part would create more pull and pain. My arms and legs were secured to the hooks with my ass over the pillow and my legs wide open. I felt very exposed and helpless. (Mistress note: If you have seen me, you know I greatly enjoy predicament positions. Watching you try to wrap your head around not moving.)</p>
<p>Mistress Simone told me she was going to do some impact play now. Starting with some flogging I felt the sting of the lashes and my bottom warming. She then told me we were going to do 10 with each toy she had chosen. I had no idea how many toys she had picked. Mistress started with what felt like a spoon of some sorts, each SWAT getting just a little harder. The last one was a wooden paddle that she made sure I saw before hand. I think just for the mental effect. With the rope through the nipple clamps every time I jumped the effect was 2 fold. Once again I was rewarded with the words &#8220;Good Boy&#8221;.</p>
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<p>I then felt a cool slick liquid running down the crack of my ass followed by a plug being inserted. Little did I realize that was just the beginning of things to come. Mistress the put a sticky pad near the end of my cock. I felt her attaching what I know now was electric wires. She told me to tell her when I started to feel it. The cycle went from pain to pleasure. The entire time Mistress seemed to be entertained by my whimpering and moans. As I was reminded I was not allowed an orgasm without permission. Finally I was unhooked from the electric and the bondage table. I was feeling very used. Mistress Simone walked over to her throne and sat down. She then ordered me to crawl over in front of her on my knees. She told me to entertain her but do not forget the rules or I would be cleaning the mess up with my tongue. The embarrassment and humiliation seemed to please her as I begged for permission, pleading I was finally given permission. As I felt such release, I heard her say : &#8220;I didn&#8217;t tell you to stop&#8221;. Mistress told me I would now beg to stop. This time my begging was even more intense. As she laughed at my predicament,she finally granted permission to stop. I cleaned myself up and we chatted a little bit after session.</p>
<p>In closing. Mistress Simone is a world class dominatrix, her values and skills are exactly what a Domme should be. I felt submissive but safe. If Real domination is what your looking for, Mistress Simone is the only choice. Regardless of what level of submission or category from a beginner to a veteran Mistress Simone has the skills to accommodate. Her years of experience , knowledge and expertise will guide you through the Journey.</p>
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		<title>Chicago Dominatrix Simone &#8211; Sissification of sissy Eva</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Chicago Mistress sissifies her doll Eva &#160; &#8220;THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU MISTRESS for the best session ever. I will try to describe it.&#8221; Sissy Eva When i arrive and see you without boots i was disappointed, wanting to ask  you where your sexy boots were. But when i see them on the floor [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align: center;">Chicago Mistress sissifies her doll Eva</h2>
<div id="attachment_2359" style="width: 235px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2359" class="size-medium wp-image-2359" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/BeautyPlus_20211020222238504_save-225x300.jpg" alt="Curvy-mature prodomme in Chicago" width="225" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2359" class="wp-caption-text">Chicago Domina in her bdsm studio</p></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">&#8220;THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU MISTRESS for the best session ever. I will try to describe it.&#8221; Sissy Eva</h4>
<p>When i arrive and see you without boots i was disappointed, wanting to ask  you where your sexy boots were. But when i see them on the floor i knew i was going to help You put them on (thank you mistress and hope to do it every time). (Mistress note: I will take into consideration your requests and interests when we session. You may not get everything, but you will get what you need.) For Mistress&#8217;s interests, click<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bdsm-fetishes-kinks/"> here</a></p>
<p>When you start giving orders and start telling me what was going to happen to me, my mind start running (in unison with your cock). When You said that You were going to make me a sissy maid and then use my  ass pussy, I got excited. When You renamed me &#8220;Eva&#8221;, i knew i had to be the best Eva You had. Thank you for making worship Your boots.( Mistress note: Boot worship is one of my favorite fetishes to engage in with a slave. I love watching you kiss and lick my boot heel.) When you start dressing me as a sissy with garters to sustain the stockings i knew i would enjoy it. The chastity was a little difficult at first. i am sorry that i was thinking with my male persona. (Mistress note: If one can not control themselves , I will control you. Your cock clitty will only be erect when I desire)</p>
<p>You were wearing the key around Your neck resting between Your lovely breasts so that every time I see it, I was thinking &#8220;so near but so far&#8221;. While locked in your cage,I was dreaming it was your hand holding me  (Mistress note: If I ever touch you, it will be to control you or cause an uncomfortable<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a> reaction.)</p>
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<div id="attachment_2372" style="width: 235px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2372" class="size-medium wp-image-2372" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/BeautyPlus_20210716112130646_save-225x300.jpg" alt="Chicago dominatrix in her bdsm studio " width="225" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2372" class="wp-caption-text">Long legged Miss Simone</p></div>
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<p>You start dressing me in a pretty outfit then make me act like your sissy,calling me Eva. i had to be the best sissy for you. The breast forms were really humiliating but being unable to see the chastity made it more humiliating,controlled by the chastity. You  decided to sensuously rub against me to make my member strain against the cage. i was in heaven and in hell because of the chastity. (Mistress note : I enjoy locking up my subs and sissies to control their orgasm. One of the best cage company in my opinion is <a href="https://www.steelwerksextreme.com/">Steelwerks</a>.</p>
<p>Mistress starts lacing me into a corset making it tight to form the female curves, giving me an hourglass figure. When you put your hands on my corseted waist , I feel like a pretty sissy. The stockings were different,feeling silky and sexy on my feminine legs.The shoes were a little different, making me walk with my ass out. I liked that the high heels were locked on but i was a little afraid of the heels.(Mistress note: Learning the proper way to walk in high heels is key to a sissy&#8217;s education.)</p>
<p>I really did learn to appreciate a woman in high heels. After only being in the heels for less than an hour, i felt my legs tight. Now when i see a woman in high heels i appreciate her tight legs. The walking was difficult, scary, and exciting, especially since i feel like a sissy when walking. I hope i can learn to walk in them. If I please Mistress, maybe next time she will allow me to wear boots. You then put me in front of the mirror in a position for your use. I am a sissy for Mistress&#8217;s enjoyment</p>
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<p>I am allowed a little rest but soon Mistress says it&#8217;s time for my spanking. This is always scary for me because i do have a low pain threshold.  Mistress warms up my bare bottom under the crinoline skirt, informing me my cleansing is next. (Mistress note : I prefer my sissies clean before I use their ass pussy. ) You start the colonic ,ensuring I take the full bag. i knew You were going to use Your strap on your sissy.especially. i had to walk on heels for what seemed like a long distance to the restroom,every muscle in my body tense. When in the bathroom i had to pee and with the chastity it really made me feel like a sissy slave. When you instructed me to leave the door open, i was unable to think of doing anything against your wishes. The heels making even sitting to pee different. The humiliation was at all time high. I was able to see my legs and the position of them, different but feeling more like a sissy.</p>
<p>Once I am finished in lady&#8217;s room, I am informed you will spank me again to remind me of my position. When You start spanking me again, i had to admit that i deserved it. Thank you for the spanking making me remembering my position. i love it when you start to play with my nipples afterwards, removing the breast forms to get to them.</p>
<p>Mistress decides it is time to use my sissy hole.  You start by using your fingers to loosen me up, preparing me for your rubber phallus. i wanted to be able to serve You the way You deserve. Thank you for the treatment. When You left a dildo in my pussy i was in heaven and asked to kiss Your ass while kneeling at your feet.</p>
<p>Mistress i was in heaven when You made me worship / kiss Your Ass and Your boots (I must admit every time i had an opportunity , i was looking at Your Ass and high heels boots. When I was allowed  to use my hands,it was extremely erotic. The skirt You wore was magnificent, its form fitting would make anyone desire to kiss Your ass. Please i want it all the time, in all our sessions. (Mistress note: I only allow body worship when I feel comfortable and it is earned by the submissive.)</p>
<p>Then You make me worship Your boots and suck on the heels like a penis, informing me I will be donning the maid&#8217;s outfit to make you a cup of tea to relax after our session.(MY favorite tea is <a href="https://www.mariagefreres.com/en/">Mariage Freres.)</a></p>
<p>You then instruct me to kneel in front of you. Upon removal of the chastity cage, you keep me on my knees in front of you, instructing me how to make your perfect cup of tea. <a href="https://www.food.com/recipe/the-perfect-cup-of-tea-british-style-230372">How to make a perfect cup of tea</a>! I am then permitted to take the chastity cage off. You instruct me that I may orgasm but I will be eating anything that comes out. If not, there will be punishment.  I retreat to the studio kitchen to perform my tea task. Upon my return, you judge it worthy to drink. I achieve my well- earned release and ingest the result.  Thank you for the honor of becoming your sissy Eva.</p>
<div id="attachment_2385" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2385" class="size-medium wp-image-2385" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/IMG_20190117_124024_077-300x300.jpg" alt="Sissy maid serves Chicago Mistress her after session tea in the Chicago dungeon" width="300" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2385" class="wp-caption-text">Time for Chicago Mistress&#8217;s tea!</p></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU AGAIN MISTRESS for the best session ever. You really make me feel like your sissy maid</h4>
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