Casual, his ass!

 

For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress note: Watching my slaves shed their societal wares to bare their self to me is one of my kinks and turn-ons.) Next came the leather hood, collar. After several long weeks, my chastity device was unlocked – though casual or no – as always an orgasm was still far from certain and entirely dependent on how pleased Ma’am was with my performance on this day. ( Your orgasm belongs to me. It is only granted when I am pleased. Orgasm control and keyholder are 2 things I enjoy engaging in.

Firstly, I was sent to stand in the bondage wall corner. She attached some clothespins to my nipples and cuffs were buckled around my wrists and ankles and subsequently fastened to the wall. Ma’am then concocted an additional twist by securing my collar to the wall as well, forcing me to hold as still as I could muster, lest I choke myself. (I do love my predicament bondage.)

Saint Louis Mistress with her slave

Both facing a corner, as well as being blindfolded, I could only hear the various rattling and clinking as Ma’am gathered various twisted implements for Her amusement. I never really knew what was about to hit me – literally – until, well, it did. Ma’am has often expressed a certain disappointment that in our phone sessions, I do not strike myself with quite the ferocity that She prefers, so She more than makes up for it when we are together. At some point, additional clothespins were added to my nipples as well. (The more clothespins and clamps ,the better.) Eventually, She rounded up six of Her favorites and informed me that in honor of Her recent birthday, I would receive ten strokes from each. Although not specifically instructed to, I called off – or yelped in many cases – the count as a means of getting through the experience. In the end, She was apparently quite pleased with the bruises She wrought, rewarding me with long, sensual scratches down my back.

It was then time to move to another position. Now I was on the floor, at Her feet, one of my favorite places to be. She told me to worship Her boots which I did so happily and eagerly. I make a point of ensuring the soles are properly cleaned (the heels were a bit too chunky to properly suck, but they were licked thoroughly) (Mistress note-I will never make things easy for you. My sadistic pleasure comes before your ease.) before indulging myself with the taste of Her leather. After She was satisfied, She rewarded me yet again by permitting me to then worship Her Goddess backside! I enthusiastically smothered Her bottom in kisses and savored every hungry sniff of Her aroma that I could inhale. She knows this is my biggest fetish and I must have taken my beatings well, indeed, to be so spoiled.

But, alas, nothing lasts forever and all too soon I was transferred to a reclining chair and after tying me down and blindfolding me again, my genitals were wired up and shocked. She also took advantage of this moment to swat my thighs with some implement and reach in and twist and pull my nipples with Her fingers. Presently, She decided my mouth was not being put to sufficient use. First, She slid a dildo in and out, pushing it ever deeper and deeper. A test, no doubt, of my progress on the cock-sucking training I am expected to perform at home in-between serving Her in person. Seemingly satisfied with my progress She switched to having me suck Her leather gloved fingers – again – making certain to twist them in deep. This has rapidly become one of my favorite activities during our sessions. Strap-On play is great – and we would come to that presently – but having an actual, warm, squirming, living part of Her, my Mistress, my owner, inside of me…  It’s powerful stuff.

Leather gloved finger sucking

Following that, I was directed to get up, move to the table and assume “the position.” She placed the previously utilized dildo directly in front of my face and off and on ordered it to be sucked some more. As I complied, She worked my whorish back hole with an electric plug, ramming it up deep inside me while cranking the voltage, which provided the most extreme stimulation of the day. When I couldn’t take it anymore, She finally showed mercy, replacing the plug with Her strap-on and pumping my hole until I finally begged Her to cum, which She graciously gave Her permission.  It was greatly appreciated! (Keep in mind, one will not always gets release from Me. It is only if I am satisfied with your performance.)

 

Pegging Goddess

Though spent, my service was not quite over as I to assist in helping tidy up the dungeon before being permitted to remove my collar and put my clothes on once more.

For what was supposed to be just a casual afternoon, I headed home with a bruised butt and legs of jelly. But as always, dreaming of the next time I would be privileged to enjoy Ma’am’s company again.

Oh, and we also got ice cream. (Mistress note: It’s the only time I enjoy vanilla!) That was fun. Thank You for everything, Ma’am.

Mistress Note:

For those that desire to have something a bit more relaxed while seeing if we mesh for session, I do offer lunch and dinner consultations. Where we can chill, get to know each other and discuss our mutual kinks. For my social consultation information, visit my sessions page.

If you are too far for in person or want to speak on the phone beforehand, my fan-sites are the best way to learn more about Mistress and have a conversation.

Loyalfans

Niteflirt

Sextpanther

 

 

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   I’ve attempted to write this blog now for a month. Starting and stopping numerous times.

It is hard to announce a major change to your life publicly and focus on the clarification of the event. I know this will be the first question many of you will ask, so let’s get it out of the way.

Let me state emphatically : I AM NOT RETIRING. REPEAT – NOT RETIRING!

I am committed to my career and clients. My intent is to continue accepting those both new and experienced that desire to see a mature, skilled Dominatrix with over 30 years of talent. Maturity is hot, after all!

Chicago Shiny Mistress

I have been blessed the last 32 years to do what I truly love – live and share a life of fetishism, kink, and BDSM. I will continue to do so.

I have had my own independent fetish exploration studio in Chicago for 32 years. The current studio had its inception in 2008. This year marks the 17th year you have had the pleasure of sharing my beautiful space with me. I loved creating it, sharing it with both my community and industry. It has been the center of so many beginnings and endings.

However it is time for a different mode of expression and business. With bitter sweetness, I have closed my Chicago studio ONLY. It was a very hard decision but time for a change.

My Saint Louis dungeon will remain. In Chicago, I will be accepting sessions at the wonderful Apex Media Chicago.

If desire a one hour session or a vibe similar to my heavy bondage front room, I also have the lovely option of Chicago Dungeon rentals.

Like many wonderful Dominatrices including my mentor Suzanna D’Arcy, Friend and owner of fabulous NY Rubber studio, Ariana Chevalier and Wonderful Vinyl Queen – there comes a time when our well-being, quality of life and life balance becomes important.

So many community groups and organizations had their events meeting sand parties there. Life-stylers and Professionals were provided with a safe, female owned and focused space with no drama or judgement – the first of its kind in Chicago.

Let me share a few of the groups that called my Studio home over the years:

Chicago Clubfem

Black beat – one of the first BIPOC groups formed in Chicago, run by my friend Ms Lash

Chicago ABDL group

Chicago Foot Parties

Vespertine

Rough Play group

TNGC Chicago

I have been proud to facilitate the local Chicago community and nationwide by hosting so many wonderful educational workshops, from my mentor Suzanne D’Arcy’s last class, Lee Harrington’s weekend, Kink Academy, 7 days of Domination and Mistress Chiaki’s Shibari classes, to name a few.

I have provided a safe home for numerous fellow Prodommes over the years, opening my doors in friendship and education.  There have been many wonderful touring Dommes visit me at my Chicago space, from my work wife Elena De Luca, Vinyl Queen, Irene Boss, Helene Locke, Sky Terrapin, Goddess Nyx and many more.

My space would not have become the welcoming, open space it is without all of you. So many hot scenes, transformative sessions, moving connection within the Studio’s walls. Oh, if the next tenant only knew!

            You will be able to still enjoy over 30 years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans

 I will be doing a retrospective blog of all the amazing, intense times I had in this studio and my others. I’ve been in front of some type of camera for the last 30 years so my catalog of images is extensive. Here is a treat of a few of my favorite scenes from last 3 years :

Saran Wrapped Pride clown

Suspended rubber gimp

Easter BDSM scene

Latex Mistress Simone with her demon sub

Rubber balloon Slaves

Please continue to read for timnext steps.

While  the time line can fluctuate, I estimate my current Chicago studio is now closed for sessions. REPEAT for the 1000th time: I AM NOT RETIRING> Myself and my bondage gear will be available for sessions at ApexMediaChicago and Chicago Dungeon Rentals.

My gear and equipment : Again, let me clarify this before it gets asked: I AM NOT CLOSING DOWN FOR GOOD – THEREFORE I AM KEEPING A GOOD PORTION OF MY GEAR AND DUNGEON FURNITURE. As my Saint Louis space is still open a few pieces and some of the gear from Chicago will go there. Some of it will also be going with me to Apex Media for use in my sessions there. I will still be fully equipped for all our mutual fetishes like heavy bondage, medical fetish, CBT and more.

I have not decided at this point whether or not I will open another public BDSM studio in Chicago. The main reasons I have decided to close my current space are the insane traffic and my current building condition.  If you’ve been to my studio within the last 10 years, you know the condition of the building has deteriorated, especially my leaky ceiling. I have reached the end of my patience with it.

While this is a huge change for Myself and those I sessions with, it will minimize my stress thus allowing me to relax and develop better connections with you when we session. It will be nice to have less stress and focus on our mutual interests instead of managing a space and its issues.

I do not know the emotions it will bring except bittersweet, sad and happy all at once. What I am putting forth here is the factual information of my decision. If you have a desire to reach out to chat, let me know your studio memories and how I and my spaces have created a difference in your life, please do! I would love to hear them, especially for my upcoming book I will be writing.

I can be reached of course here via my website , all my socials and my email

My Happy place!

DUNGEON SALE (completed!):

There will be a dungeon sale but it will of gear I want to go to a good home, gear I do not use often or items  that do not fit me. Items will range from dungeon furniture, impact toys, medical fetish items, dungeon supplies, vanilla furniture, shoes, latex clothing and more. Date is October 25th and 26th  more details via my social media accounts: X, Fetlife, Facebook and Instagram.  There will be  an industry only sale day on October 25th then Sunday, October 26th will be open to public. The public sale will require a 10$ donation to attend, of which all will be donated to SWOP.

October 25th -Industry ONLY sale 1-8pm Please be a verifiable professional. If you do not know the Studio address, please email me at chicagomistress@gmail.com

October 26th – Community open sale  1-7pm $10 SWOP donation due at door. No donation – no entry Studio address will be given to you via email if you do not know it. My email is chicagomistress@gmail.com

I will also be posting some items for sale via Facebook, Fetlife ,Ebay and Poshmark.

When I walk out the door for the final time, it will be with a sad heart but a full, happy and satisfied one. Knowing I did the best I could to make our kink world a little safer, happier and weirder. I hope you will continue to share in the next chapter of my Domination journey with me at Apex Media for Chicago sessions.

 You will be able to still enjoy over 30+ years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans.

                             As well as new scenes and clips as I get accustomed to Apex Media Chicago for my new adventures.

Thank you ever so much for trusting me with your kinks, fetishes and perversions. I look forward to this new leg of my Domination journey.

Warmly,  ChicagoMistress AKA Mistress Simone AKA Ma’am 

P.S. Watch for the Retrospective Blog showcasing some of the fantastic scenes, events, fellow Professionals and submissives I’ve had the honor and pleasure of meeting over my career.

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The art of sensual /sadistic tickling with BDSM play

Tickle time with my claws

Knismolagnia , commonly known as tickling, can be a fun addition to your BDSM play.  Laughter in the dungeon can be a good thing, especially to heighten the energy and connection between your play partner and you. I love having a submissive restrained to my table then tickle and tease them , hearing their laughter throughout the space. Usually my own laughter at their predicament joins in. I leave my nails long specifically so I can get deep into the tender tickle areas on the body. There can be assumptions that tickling is a light activity to engage in, but quite the contrary. I have had subs hyperventilate from the excitement of a heavy tickling, even one pass out. In all play, one should cover possible physical limitations or concerns that may impact a scene. Tickling requires one to delve deeper back into  possible memories of the activity that might affect the scene. Many of us recall being tickling by siblings, parents or other persons in our childhood. For some, these memories can create triggers that need to be acknowledged and discussed PRIOR to engaging in a tickle scene. There should always be a prior discussion that includes emotional history with scenes. In my intake interviews for play, I always ask if someone is ticklish. If the answer is yes, I always ask a secondary question of how they react to it. For many, it is a hard limit and negative trigger. Others enjoy its cathartic benefits immensely. Before you reach to tickle someone, you should know how he or she might react to it. You do not want to disrespect boundaries just because of an assumption.

While any activity we engage in can cause an adverse reaction based on memories, it is much more likely with tickling because of our societal norm of engaging in it at young ages. Fortunately this pattern has been changing in current times..Tickling can be one of the earliest personal touches  we may receive from another human. Think on how often a baby has heard “Coochy coo” while being tickled lightly on feet, tummy or chin? Think back to your childhood. Can you remember an incidence of tickling? Perhaps a family relative or sibling? Neighborhood kids who either you tickled or you were tickled by? It can be a very traumatic experience especially if we were very young, or boundaries not respect due to familial/societal environment. So when approaching it as an adult play activity, it can cause those feelings to reoccur. For some, the tickling becomes  erotic, awakening the senses and providing an endorphin rush. For others, it can arise anger, fear or hurt. One needs to tread lightly when beginning this type of play.

Restrained for tickling

Two paths a tickle scene can take: sensual or torturous. In tickling, the people being tickled (often referred to as ticklees,those administering are the ticklers) can allow themselves the release of total control. They do not have to think about the activity (in fact cognitive functioning drops when being tickled) nor generate or create the sensation. Just react and feel. This freedom is one big draw to tickling. If someone is new to tickling scenes, I suggest beginning with sensual. One can always heighten the intensity of tickling as scene progresses. Digging in hard right away without warning can send ticklee into negative space, cause an injury or get the tickler kicked or punched if the ticklee is not secured down or free to move around. Our initial reaction to being tickled is to move away from the sensation and/or push the tickler away. Ticklers must be aware of body position when tickling. Environment can cause injuries.If in a vanilla setting, look around to see what may cause injury if scene gets aggressive. Lamps, candles, table legs and tops, glassware, etc can all be a hazard. In a dungeon setting, same applies. When someone is on one of my equipment pieces, I need to make sure they can’t fall off or strain a muscle if tied down. I also want to make sure the restraining pieces are strong enough for heavy thrashing,otherwise injury can happen AND I may be replacing ripped/broken equipment. I’ve been bonked in the head before when a cuff got loose because of sub’s wiggling.

Psychologically , it can be an escape from stress, analytical thinking and responsibilities. High protocol slaves and submissives can place service aside for the moment and just breathe.If I am intensely tickling my slave, I can not be asking them highly cognitive questions at same time. Well I can for my amusement as the answers are sure to be amusing. If you are the D in the D/s relationship, you need to make sure your expectations of your sub during a tickle scene are realistic.  They may swear, yell, kick , thrash at you.  Discuss this beforehand so you both are on same page. it would be unethical to  punish a slave for a breech of protocol while being intensely tickled. Many people shut down part of cognition when engaged thusly. Poor taste to punish one because of that. For a more in depth psychological explanation, I suggest this Tickling Tips article.

Tickling is also one of those activities that we can engage in anywhere, any time and not generate unwarranted attention, if done in moderation and consensually. I can administer a light tickle to a sub’s neck while out to dinner. A small poke and wiggle with my fingers to their side while out. Ive even made submissives sit silently in a movie theater while i mercilessly tickle the side closest to me. Punishment if they squeal.  It does not require nudity or huge set-up and/or equipment.

Within scene, it can be combined with pain to create a wonderfully intense reaction.The highs and lows of intensity are one thing that attracts me to tickling. I can have a sub’s senses heighten due to other sensation including pain, then administer a light tickle to a foot or stomach as I move around them. Keep in mind, this is not for everyone. I only engage this way with those I know and play with regularly. I would not desire to take a sub out of subspace and relaxation by an unwarranted tickle or touch. Psychology Today has a great article here about why we may like being tickled.

Leather glove tickle

    How our bodies respond to being tickled:

• Endorphin rush

• Temperature change – Hot or Cold

• External senses dulled

• Analytical thinking temporarily ceases

• Heightened responses , possibly similar to fear

Rapid breathing

                                                             This a good article for understanding the science behind the tickle response.

Advice for body safety with tickling:

You want to take into consideration where you will be tickling. Ask your ticklee where they are most ticklish, if there are any areas to avoid, how intense do they desire. Tickling can leave marks, scratches and bruises. If in a prodomme session, make sure sub is aware and consents to the possibility of marks. Otherwise , wear gloves or use implements to minimize mark risk.

Learn the body’s erogenous zones.  I always tell my subs their entire body is my plaything so no area is off limits unless negotiated. Always respect limits.

Breathing is the key component to managing a tickling scene, both in how our bodies respond to it and possible complications.

Always have a safe word. Keep in mind, in a tickle scene ,the ticklee may not be able to speak coherently. Provide an alternative safe gesture such a a ball drop, toe wiggle, hand wave.

Main physical concerns when engaged in a tickle scene:

Thrashing, Squirming : Sometimes the ticklee likes to fight against being tickled. It is a natural instinct to  move away from being tickled.The struggle can be part of the attraction.

Strain or bruising of muscles; Thrashing around can possibly cause strain on muscles or bruising if the person is restrained tightly and fighting against them.

Bruised  or scratched skin – make sure to discuss prior to tickling. If you are using nails or sharp items to tickle, you can cut, leave scratches or draw blood. Be clear about his possibility before play.

Hyper ventilation – lightheartedness even fainting may occur if the ticklee gets very excited. Watch their breathing and take a break if need. Help them refocus on slow, deep yoga breathes to return to normal state.

Desensitization – I find with many types of sensation play, the nerve endings , skin and tissue mat become unresponsive to the administered sensation. It s the body;s way of telling you enough is enough. Discontinue the  sensation until a state of normalcy has returned.

           Three main types of tickling:

               Soft : what we most associate with tickling, light touching, fur, brushes, feathers, light touches

                                                                      Hard : pressure points, acupressure, digging in, fingernails

                                                                         Vibrational: vibrators, electricity, any thing that goes buzz!

                                                                                               Tickling to orgasm:

                                              Denial-Ruined – I have used tickling to deny a sub an orgasm. Right before the moment of climax, I will tickle them thus redirecting the body sensations

 Heighten –  While sexual pressure is building, administer light or hard tickling touch to increase arousal. Apply then remove- a form of tickle edging. I do a hard tickle with my nails  right before climax. All the synapses are firing, giving one hell of a release.

Tickling as therapy:

Tickling can be very therapeutic, assisting us in solving childhood issues, learning to relax and disengaging our brains. It allows one to feel life in the now and not worry about tomorrow. However, it is nor should be a replacement for actual therapy.

                          An unexpected tickle in scene/sex can trigger bad/good memories that may halt activity and need to be discussed. The signals can be confusing within tickle scene as many ticklees will scream, cry, fight and try to escape. Make sure a clear safe word or gesture has been preset and all involved partners are aware of what it is.

                                                                                                                                          Devious Devices

       Your own body – nails, hair, breath

Feathers in general

Owl or Eagle feathers

Fur

Hairbrushes- anything with a bristle

Vibrators

Paint brushes

                                                                                 Pot scrubbers

                                                                                  Dental tools

                                                                                  Fake flowers and shrubs

One of my favorite tickling site for tips is Tickling Tips. I particularly like the Games page.The endurance one is a favorite of mine. I challenge the ticklee to outlast my administrations.They receive a  Reward if do, punishment if fails!

I like adding sensory deprivation to a tickle scene. Removing another sense will heighten the tickling touch. Try a blindfold, hood or straitjacket if focusing on lower body. As mentioned before,        bondage can help keep ticklee in position and increase their enjoyment. I love binding the legs, leaving the feet vulnerable to my tickles.

All set to be tickled

Remember you can add humiliation or embarrassment  play in. Consensually delve into those past experiences and tickle memories. For those who want to experience tickling but  have yet to take the leap, consider combining it with their other kinks. Touch is the playground of adults. Have fun with it.

If you’re a ticklee who desires to be tickled, or a novice that would like to try it, fill out my session application.  I would love to create an intense ,fun tickle session between us. Both my Saint Louis and Chicago spaces are well equipped to keep you safe while we get our tickle on!

Love to experience a tickling session?

Then book a session in Chicago dungeon or Saint Louis studio here

You can also chat with me about your tickling interest via my online platforms:

Sextpanther

Loyalfans

Niteflirt

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Remembrance

His favorite thing to do was discuss Gilbert and Sullivan musicals while we played tic-tac-toe with a scalpel on his chest. We would play for hours remotely while he burned and cut himself under my orders while we listened to musicals and opera. And now he is gone. He wouldn’t let me see him at the end, afraid to do so. Now I grieve alone for a soul I was intimate with , in ways people outside our community would not understand.
Let me define what I mean by intimate here. I don’t only mean sexual activities.
As they say : “Anyone can fuck.”  To reach another deeply and energetically is profound and rare. Providing a space for another to let down their barriers, toss off societal conventions and be comfortable sharing their unique perversions is the most intimate we can be with each other. So many hide behind the facade of what is expected by society, family, career or religion. When you engage with a SW worker, fantasy comes to the forefront and even with a simple encounter, the world falls away and it s just you and her in the moment. What makes us good at our chosen path is the ability to let others into our space to be vulnerable, connect and let go while we still maintain our own self-space.
One of the saddest aspects of this path is sometimes not knowing what happens to our submissives. We are contextual for some, regardless of the intimacy we provide. For those rare few, we develop long relationships ,tying into each other’s lives.  It’s like a door is slammed shut and we are not allowed inside to share in the grieving process. So instead we must learn to cope and celebrate the life of them in our own way. Whether its through talking about it with fellow Dommes, reviewing the intense times you had, or memorializing their toys or collar -somehow we must cope. It’s a strange and solo kind of grief – being so connected yet so removed.
As Mistress Shayla Lange said : “It’s so hard to lose someone like that, without having the grieving and sharing stories/memories together with others who knew them brings.” It has changed some now with the advent of social media where we can reach out and share our stories and experiences with others that may have felt same. Before this, we were often left guessing whether they just lost interest or died. Often we would eventually find an obituary, or a family member would run across something about us and contact us in anger or despair – but usually not.

Over the years I have had at least 5 close submissives pass away. Some I received notice ,most I did not. They just disappeared. What made it worse in a few cases was that we had been in communication up to the end. I knew they were ill. One was an unexpected suicide.
In most cases the next communication after death was met with silence or a family member responding in one of 2 ways : angry or confused.

I want to share my experiences with you for a few reasons :
1. Its about time the myth of the uncaring Dominatrix is dispelled. We care very deeply. We develop bonds. We share experiences at the deepest level of connection.
2. For those younger Sex-workers just starting, I want to provide insight into this issue and hopefully provide some advice how to deal with it.
3. Let those subs who are connected with us know that we do experience grieve and loss when they leave us, and to possibly help a few set up a system for letting their Domme know.
4. Sharing my experiences will be cathartic for me, and hopefully help someone in same situation. I know, I know – its not the sexy fetish pics you want to see on a Mistress’s site or the information on how she will humiliate you. And if that is all you seek, we are not well matched. I I want your vulnerability, your pain, your tears, your humor  and your angst, in short- the real you.

So to my 5…

(before you get all huffy, all these names have been changed to protect identity OR the sub was out in the lifestyle. I would NEVER disrespect a client’s right to privacy.)

Nick : In my dungeon there are 3 pieces  I refuse to get rid of no matter how often they get used or how out of date they look. I may eventually move them to my private space but for now they remind me of who made them out of service and devotion. When I was a younger Domme I ran a well known Chicago BDsm club know as the Leather Rose now the LRA. I had my own play-space in the back, called the Annex. In front we had a retail store for fetish wear and gear. Nick came into the store one afternoon, then another , and another, etc. We chatted and got to know each other. He shared his submissive desires with me. Eventually he would offer to fix something for me around club. He would bring me coffee or lunch. Then he graduated to club nights,being there to help me set up and be security. I knew his personal life situation. We would session every so often but more so he was of service. When I needed new pieces for my space, he offered to build. He built a gorgeous cherry stained cross and whipping post. The post still gets much love today, and every time I use it , I feel his spirit.

Whipping post- ignore the meat

Nick helped me put on local fetish fashion shows at various Chicago clubs including Aftermath. He played my naughty Santa.
He taught me how to dive, giving me one of the greatest gifts of my life. We went to Hell and back, literally hell in the Grand Caymans. I swam with sting rays, did night dives. His wife and I became co-Mistresses. I met his daughter.
For years I had pushed him to watch his diet, eat better ,exercise. Stubborn as he was, my orders didn’t help. He came down with diabetes. Eventually it made him less able to come around. We kept in touch but he didn’t come around as often. Eventually I stopped seeing him. This was before the internet so I couldn’t text. We didn’t really email either. I called a few times and wife would say he was busy. About six months later, a community friend told me he passed away. I wasn’t invited to funeral because family didn’t want to explain me. I was crushed. He was my first loss. Till this day , I feel sad in not being able to say good-bye. Its why I keep the cross, post and memories.

Diverbob: My sweet soul who lost his will to live. When I first met my bob, he came to me for a cathartic session. He was a fellow diver, much more experienced than me. We bonded over this love. He traveled extensively so he would share the dives he did with me.Tiger sharks were his favorites,even though he knew it made me nervous. He would present me with small gifts from his travels when we sessioned. He eventually moved away but we kept in touch. I will not go into details but life changed for him, and he tried his best to cope but couldn’t. Then there was a long period of no communication.I grew worried so I sent an email which was the way we kept in touch – nothing unusual. I received an reply from his daughter letting me know he had made the choice to leave us.She had gotten my email and wanted to let me know. She found our correspondence while going through his things-(HINT!!!) When my email came through , she felt I should know. She wrote a very kind letter thanking me for making her dad’s life richer. I still have it.
It is important to note this is not the norm. Most often, we are left to wonder or contacted by  an angry and/or upset family.

Janette: One of my first sissies. We played dress up for over 20 years. Shared love of exotic cars, always brought me a gift for myself or my partner to do with cars. As kinksters age, the desire can stay strong but the ability to participate may not. Janette had numerous health problems we worked through to still be able to play. As the Mistress, it is my job to make sure the ones in my care stay safe when together. She started having longer break between sessions. Said she wasn’t sure could do it anymore. Interest waned. Her health got worse. Eventually my emails and texts went unanswered. Disappeared. I can only assume the worse. I won’t go looking for an obit.

D: He was an old friend from my Leather Rose days. We had played casually back then as he was a heavy masochist while I’m a heavy sadist- perfect match! He had a hard time find people to beat him hard enough. We kept in touch through emails and Fetlife.He knew my personal life and I knew his. he was very private though so I respected his desires (as a good Sex-worker should). Then he decided to come for a session. Grew close. He would spend the afternoon in my dungeon, fixing things for me, making sure it was in working order. I would beat him, he would fix things. I knew he had other play partners as he was a switch. But he was my pain slut. I was his sadist. More friends than Mistress/slave.He always said if he had his pants on, he didn’t have to behave. My partner loved his energy with me. They would spend time in the dungeon just hanging, fixing things,chatting. One day, he came in and told me we had to talk. He had found out he had cancer. My heart fell. He started treatment. We kept in touch. He would tell me his progress. Treatment was successful, we returned to our beatings and fixings. Then it came back…he fought hard but eventually from what I can guess, lost his battle. We kept in touch while fighting it again, then one day the texts just stopped. After a few months, I texted the number I had which was safe to communicate. I got back one sentence : “No Dale here.” My partner from time to time will look at me , tell me that he has pants on so doesn’t have to listen. I smile and remember my painslut.

Burning Man: My Opera & Musical loving heavy painslut. He came to me after years of knowing each other once again from the old days. He had never found anyone that was comfortable with his extreme interests. On suggestion of a mutual friend who knew of my sadism, he came for a session. Finally he found someone who would accept him and his desires. I thoroughly loved our severity. Even in all that, he was one of the gentlest souls I ever knew. Smart as hell – loved math. Would go into long diatribes about physics – which I would only understand 1/3. We both love musicals and operas so our relationship expanded to include both. He would treat me to season tickets. Opera, dinner then play. If he was unable to go into city due to health, I would go over to his home,(the only person I ever did outcall for). We would watch a musical on TV then play. I knew his other play partners as he was a switch. As his health deteriorated, he put in place communication between us so I wouldn’t be left in dark if something happened to him. When Covid hit, we took our play remote. Via text we would have long threads about musicals , politics ,etc – all while I instructed his masochism. It helped keep us connected, also not go crazy being locked inside. He never felt comfortable enough with his health to return to the dungeon. December 2022, he was scheduled for hip surgery. He informed me that after he healed he was coming back in person. Both of us were excited. It is so much better to see you bleed in person! I waited to hear from him. Late February I received a text from his other partner letting me know he had entered hospice. He didn’t feel comfy seeing anyone so we respected his wishes. Then I got the text letting me know he had passed. No word on memorial or if we would be welcome. His small collection of impact toys will come to me. Each time I use one, I will remember him. Every opera season I will attend one and keep an empty seat besides me in his memory.

Closure is something we do not often get as Sex workers. At times, we can share with others who played or knew our submissive. If we have friends or partners that knew them it can help in the grief. Often we must find a way to say “Farewell” on our own.them with others to keep them in your heart.

We can do this in many ways but some that I have found helpful are :

• Keeping their collar or cuffs, something to remind you of the connection
• Performing a farewell ceremony or ritual to honor them
• Placing something they cherished or gave you in your studio, dungeon
• Share stories of them with fellow Sex Workers who may need to share memories of them.
• Doing the things you did with them , such as the opera.

I have found this article helpful for processing my grief

It bears to mention , this is a 2 way street. For those that see, serve and care for us – if we disappear they can feel same as we do and grieve.
I have no final words of wisdom to make this easier to process. It is an individual journey we each must take. The only thing I can say is to remember those we connect and care for in a way that honors their uniqueness.
I hope mine will do the same for me.

MS-

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An A to Z synopsis of principles and activities surrounding the power dynamic of female domination & male submission.

Many of these definitions are focused towards the male submissive , however they apply to all genders and sexualities.

All these topics bear further exploration on their own but this primer is meant to introduce the reader to them. Further blog posts will define each concept deeper.

This primer is a living, breathing entity which will continue to expand and develop as new fetishes and kinks arise and the ones on this list grow.

Please keep in mind when reading this blog and my website, that my perspective comes from the female domination point of view.

Arousal and Denial: In regards to the male, denial is an excellent motivator. The promise or restriction of a possible orgasm will spur the strongest man to submission. Two components of these are edging and chastity – both which rate further exploration. Keeping him perpetually on edge increases his devotion to pleasing you above all else.

Ash tray Service: A sexy Mistress inhaling on a cigar or cigarette then engaging with her submissive as her ash receptacle personifies what many think of as ash tray service. However, just like other activities,it can range light to heavy. From having him kneel at your feet , holding a crystal ashtray while you blow smoke seductively into his face to something much more extreme and humiliating as making him consume your ashes(safely) – this type of service is as you desire.  Remember ,he is there to consensually serve as you wish.

Body Worship and/or Service: This is where The Mistress holds the real power. Your body is the ultimate
reward for the male. Controlling the sexual or body worship strings is where the Mistresses and women have the upper hand. Access to you is granted upon your desire alone. Male desire is secondary. It is time we as the dominant gender reclaim our pleasure. Only do and allow what you desire.

Butt Plugs: I will  write a whole paper on anal training with slaves  For all, it can be a wonderful device for sensation, humiliation and control. I love letting a male know I own all his orifices. Butt plugs are way to introduce anal training which can lead to full pegging/strap-on. Pegging  to me is very intimate, one I engage with my cherished subs that I own. The other way I enjoy it is with a sub that I want to ravage his holes. I usually combine pegging with dildo sucking on his knees with my hand on his head, forcing it deeper into his open and eager mouth. One of my favorite toy site for butt plugs is Mr. S Leather

CBT : Cock and ball torment, tease or torture- depending on the Mistress’s intent. One of my specialties.It encompasses any action that causes stimulation, pain or sensation to the male genitalia. There are separate blog posts about the elements involving CBT. See my page devoted to it.

CFNM: Clothed female, nude male. In our society, nudity is usually a sign of shame or
embarrassment. To require a male to be continually nude in your female presence  reminds him of your superiority over him. Historically , making a subservient male remove their clothing has been a method of intimidation, control and power.

Chastity: A device which should prohibit the  male arousal and orgasm. Orgasm control is one main kinks. I love the control. the male body does not deserve the release unless the female is satisfied first. Can also be mental chastity but that requires a much disciplined program from both parties and strong wills.  I have written many articles on the topic which will be posted on future blog posts. There are many companies for devices but 2 of my favorites are  steelwerks and holytrainer

Cock Rings: What I like to call the “hidden collar”. This is an excellent overt way of controlling and marking the male. They can be used for daily wear if comfortable [or not] and unobtrusive. Other types can enhance sexual arousal or pleasure for you both. Different than chastity devices. This site has a good variety.

Corporal Correction:  One of my favorite ways to correct poor male behavior. Traditionally this is administered as spankings over the knee, which is both humiliating and effective to keep him in line. Canes, hairbrushes and other implements may be used. Keep in mind , for some males this can be arousing to be over the Mistress’s lap. So if you find an erection rubbing your leg, consider cock punishment added to his correction.

Cuckoldry: Having your male watch you receive sexual pleasure from another person while he is denied such a privilege. It can include him serving the other person as a fluff-er, having him clean you up afterwards or just being allowed to be in the same room. If you so choose, he can be completely removed from the act and just told about it after the fact. Humiliation and service can be  components of this activity.

Emasculation: Any activity that assists the female in removing or lessening the masculine traits of her submissive. Can be achieved by other activities listed her such as forced feminization, humiliation or chastity. Can also include dehumanization, doll and robot play. Castration can be included under this activity , however i prefer to separate the concepts. Castration role play scenarios can be extreme. I never engage in active mutilation of my submissive.

Female Supremacy: The belief system that females are superior to males in all forms. There is whole Female Supremacy subculture within the female dominant community. Some good resources for it are : House of Sinn with my fellow Prodomme, Ezada Sinn  and the Female Led Manifesto 

Financial Control and FINDOM: Mistress holds the purse strings Financial Domination runs the gambit from  controlling the entire financial structure of your sub’s life to tribute only when you interact. Honesty and clarification of expectations is key in this type of play, or it can get messy. Princess Kali has some great information on Findom. Placing your male on an allowance , making him tribute a stipend or hand over his paycheck are all ways of financial control.

Forced Feminization: Cross dressing for the non-cross dresser.This topic is very diverse. I approach each feminization request by discovering the desires and motivation of each individual asking for this fetish.   If forced is the main component, I ask why. Is the drive for humiliation or embarrassment. Or could it be to take that first step into embracing their inner femininity. One must find out the mind of the ale before choosing an approach.  Many women find males dressed in slight feminine gear extremely erotic. Panties under the pants to work are a favorite of mine. A long discussion can be focused around gender fluidity and sexuality identity associated with cross-dressing. There are many good books written on the topic. Two of my favorites are  “Gender rebels” and “Skirting Gender“

Goddess Worship: An earth based form of female superiority. Stems from the ancient Earth religions were women were revered as the Mothers of All. I find this path to be very individualistic for each person involved. It can become akin to a spiritual journey. Goddesses are revered, worshipped, feared. What type of Goddess are you? Mother Earth? Kali? Artemis? Embody and empower yourself through goddess Worship. I will be publishing a blog on this soon.

My Goddess persona is Kali

House Hubbies: Recall Mr. Mom? That’s what this is. It can be a 24/7 thing or set for certain times such as week-ends, nights only or a trial month. It is basically role reversal. He takes on the typical feminine duties.I find it is key here for the Mistress to clearly define her expectations. It is hard work being a house wife or husband. Make sure what you require is clearly outline. I have all my expectations outlined in a house manual. it details my food preferences, what I require each day, laundry instruction and room by room cleaning details. You can’t get upset if you do not communicate your wishes.

Humiliation: Comes in many forms. Public, Verbal and physical are the three most common. Consent/ Non-consent should be key in all negotiations but particularly this area. One wrong word or action can trigger someone into a negative spiral , even dangerous. Do your homework before starting with humiliation. You want to do your best to avoid possible triggers.
Embarrassment is a wonderful tool to use where the male is considered,and my favorite.

Induced Orgasms: This refers to his masturbation under your guidance. You may place restrictions on it to suit whatever whim you desire. It is his goal to accomplish it. For example,
he will receive 57 strokes with the cane of his ass while masturbating. On stroke 57, he is to cum. If he fails, the process will be repeated until he does as you command. Get creative here.

Male Milking: You take the orgasm from him. He does not control it. Can use machines or make him do it. Ruined orgasm may be a component. Some of the common milking machines are Venus2000 and Serious Kit

Mounting: Male is bound and restrained while female uses him sexually. His sole use is to pleasure her.Not to be confused with Pegging-see below.

Nectar Ingestion: This can be one of the ultimate rewards for a male submissive. To drink the golden nectar from one’s Goddess can be both rewarding and humiliating depending on the submissive’s mind set. Direct from the Goddess or in a vessel – up to you.

Drink up, slave! Mistress Simone offers her golden nectar

Schedule Control: Placing limitations and requirements on his time. Assigning him tasks to complete, such as check-in times.This has become easier with social media. You define how much control is appropriate. Doing this can take much of the Mistress’s attention, so be sure you have the desire and time to engage in this type of control. It would be doing a disservice to both of you to promise and not follow through.

Shaving:Can be used as a tool for humiliation or emasculation. To remove a male’s hair from parts not normally bald is to remove part of his masculinity. By shaving his legs, you make him
more feminine.This is a great tool for distance control. Every time he looks or feels the shaved area, he will be reminded of his Domina.

Sissification: Sissy maids are their own special breed of submissives.Unlike humiliation aspects of forced feminization, sissification encompasses desire and love for all femininity. They want to feel pretty, and be told how pretty they are. Much detail and attention is required for engaging with sissification. Also, monetarily ,it can be a very expensive fetish.This site does some have delightful outfits!

Chicago Mistress and her pretty sissy slave

Smothering :Using your body to prevent his full breathing. Be careful.It is a form of controlled body worship. The goal here is not for him to pay homage to your person by for him to feel
engulfed within his Mistress’s aura and energy. Ass worship, face sitting all fall here.

Strap-ons also known as Pegging : Everyday should be International Women’s Day! Anal penetration for the male is a whole separate seminar. I believe Mother Nature knew exactly what she was doing when she put the male g-spot (prostate) in their asses! Taking your man as he traditionally would take you is a very empowering action. defining the control lines of the relationship.

Teasing: Using the vulnerability of the sub’s psyche in regards to your sexual prowess, sensuality and energy is a good skill for the Mistress to utilize at here discretion.

If you choose never to torment him teasingly with your sensual power, so be it.  Keep in mind, the male worships the feminine body and desires it. Use this to your advantage.

Trampling: The act of stepping on your male as he lies under your feet. Helps establish the fact that he is beneath you.Can be done in a variety of ways :Full or partial weight, bare feet, stockings, or shoes. Please take an instructional class either in-person or online before engaging in this activity. You can rupture internal organs of done wrong. I do offer trampling instruction. To inquire , please  email me.

Keep in mind this primer is ever evolving. I will add components as develop. Please feel free to offer topics or add-ons via  my email.

You may also inquire about a session or serving via my contact page.

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I have seen Mistress Simone’s website and social media and always wondered what a session would be like. The process started with a simple email followed by a questionnaire ( My contact application for sessions locate HERE) and some very non evasive screening. I requested a session in St. Louis that was very easy to schedule.

I arrived on time as requested, not early nor late. She greeted me at the door wearing black leather attire looking absolutely stunning. Her  Saint Louis Dungeon is fully equipped with all the implements anyone could possibly want. Every item was of a very high quality with the feel of real BDSM gear. ( Mistress note: I believe in quality in all I do, especially my dungeon gear. If it won’t survive through my sadistic machinations, its not worthy of my dungeons.) I was told to undress and kneel in front of her so we can have a conversation about expectations limits and safe words, rules and boundaries. ( Mistress note: I always have a pre session intake talk with new submissives. it helps us get comfortable with one another and cover session protocol.)

She asked if I had any questions and once the session began she immediately started with nipple clamps. She then ordered me over to her bondage chair which is an amazing piece of equipment. I was tied into it with my legs spread for full exposure. I was extremely impressed with her rope skills.( I love engaging my skills with bondage implements on you. With over 30 years of tying up people to allow them the freedom to let go and relax, I pride myself on creating a myopic universe for us together in my studio.Learn more about my bondage skills here.)

She said we’re going to start with some CBT,one of her specialties (Read how I enjoy creating CBT sensation on you). Continuing with her rope skills, she tied my balls in a tight package and took the opportunity to slap and squeeze them to make sure I was paying attention. She seem to thoroughly enjoy my whimpering and discomfort. (Mistress note: I do indeed enjoy your discomfort. Your reactions to my administrations is one of my main kinks.)

She then untied me and removed the nipple clamps. I was rewarded with the words “Good Boy”. Mistress Simone then put leather wrist and ankle restraints on me. She then had me crawl up on her bondage table. This is an amazing piece of equipment with restraining hooks placed all around the outer edge.( My equipment enhances our time together. I love gear that increases my ability to control you.View my Saint Louis dungeon here.) She put the nipple clamps back on and told me to lay my ass over this round pillow. While laying on my stomach,she ran rope through the chain of the clamps so any movement on my part would create more pull and pain. My arms and legs were secured to the hooks with my ass over the pillow and my legs wide open. I felt very exposed and helpless. (Mistress note: If you have seen me, you know I greatly enjoy predicament positions. Watching you try to wrap your head around not moving.)

Mistress Simone told me she was going to do some impact play now. Starting with some flogging I felt the sting of the lashes and my bottom warming. She then told me we were going to do 10 with each toy she had chosen. I had no idea how many toys she had picked. Mistress started with what felt like a spoon of some sorts, each SWAT getting just a little harder. The last one was a wooden paddle that she made sure I saw before hand. I think just for the mental effect. With the rope through the nipple clamps every time I jumped the effect was 2 fold. Once again I was rewarded with the words “Good Boy”.

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I then felt a cool slick liquid running down the crack of my ass followed by a plug being inserted. Little did I realize that was just the beginning of things to come. Mistress the put a sticky pad near the end of my cock. I felt her attaching what I know now was electric wires. She told me to tell her when I started to feel it. The cycle went from pain to pleasure. The entire time Mistress seemed to be entertained by my whimpering and moans. As I was reminded I was not allowed an orgasm without permission. Finally I was unhooked from the electric and the bondage table. I was feeling very used. Mistress Simone walked over to her throne and sat down. She then ordered me to crawl over in front of her on my knees. She told me to entertain her but do not forget the rules or I would be cleaning the mess up with my tongue. The embarrassment and humiliation seemed to please her as I begged for permission, pleading I was finally given permission. As I felt such release, I heard her say : “I didn’t tell you to stop”. Mistress told me I would now beg to stop. This time my begging was even more intense. As she laughed at my predicament,she finally granted permission to stop. I cleaned myself up and we chatted a little bit after session.

In closing. Mistress Simone is a world class dominatrix, her values and skills are exactly what a Domme should be. I felt submissive but safe. If Real domination is what your looking for, Mistress Simone is the only choice. Regardless of what level of submission or category from a beginner to a veteran Mistress Simone has the skills to accommodate. Her years of experience , knowledge and expertise will guide you through the Journey.

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Spending time with Mistress Simone is one of our all-time favorite things to do. She’s intelligent, witty, imaginative and knowledgeable. In short, if you’re looking for a domme to show you the ropes, literally or figuratively, then she’s your woman. We cannot say enough good things about her, both as a person and a dominant, and it’s truly my honor to submit to her, even if it’s never long enough.

Usually in our reviews I give a time line of what happened, in order. This time I’m going to jump around, beginning with something called sounds.

Sounds, if you don’t know, are a very invasive way to become very well acquainted with someone. Ma’am put me in a straitjacket and had me get on her exam table with my feet in the stirrups to give her and my wife access. A blindfold kept me from seeing exactly what was going on, or rather into, me. Ma’am explained before she started what I could expect and what I needed to be aware of. Now, this was something that I was really nervous about, but I wanted to do something that wasn’t in my safe zone. Funny how things like flogging or bondage can make me relax but I digress. When the sound entered, I felt the slight burning sensation she had mentioned to me and it subsided very rapidly. The further down it went in my urethra, the stranger it felt and it was messing with my head. Luckily for me, Ma’am quickly realized that the device she chose was a little much for me to handle and she adjusted, using the next smaller size. This time, while it was still a strange sensation, I was able to relax as much as possible into it; both from the adjustment in size and due to the encouragement I was getting from my wife and Ma’am. To be honest, at the time I don’t know how much I I enjoyed it, but looking back now it is one of my most vivid memories of the session. In fact, one of my fondest moments in this session was how she soothed me after the sounds were finished.

Flogging, from the first time Ma’am did it to me, has been one of my most favorite activities. If you combine that with rope bondage, I’m in subbie heaven. Well, this session actually began with my wife and Ma’am putting me in a modified hogtie but what I didn’t realize at first was that Ma’am put a spreader bar on my ankles. Again, another first, this time with the spreader bar. I was completely at their mercy with my ankles/lower legs kept apart. They applied clothespins and used a vibrator down below to tease and torment me while also flogging my back; that could have gone on for days and I wouldn’t have minded one little bit. I was very relaxed after that portion of the session that’s for sure.

Speaking of flogging, getting a lesson in how to flog from Ma’am was so much fun. With my wife secured to the Saint Andrews cross, Ma’am helped me with my technique and let me try several different floggers on her. My wife, that is. Afterward, my wife told me she could tell the difference between the two of us, even with the blindfold because I don’t hit as hard as Ma’am. Guess I shouldn’t be surprised. I’m always worried that I’ll hit her wrong, so kind of don’t let myself go. I think my technique got better as we went along and I’m confident we’ll practice that at home until I can get it right. If I don’t, I’ll just become the practice dummy for awhile. Hmm, that doesn’t sound so bad actually.

Have you ever been in a cage? No, not the metaphorical kind, but an honest to goodness cage? Me neither, at least until this session. Ever since I saw her combination bondage bench/cage, which is an impressive piece to see in person let me tell you, I’ve wanted to get inside there. For some reason, I never really said anything until this session. I was really glad to say something this time. Crawling into the cage made me really feel like a prisoner, but Ma’am was far from done even though this was near the end of our session time. Sliding a spandex bag in with me, I literally cocooned myself in it then Ma’am and my wife made sure I couldn’t get up by securing me with rope to the floor of the cage. My only regret on this was that it couldn’t be longer, but maybe next time.

Whether it’s solo bondage for me, couples bondage for us both, flogging for either of us, or anything in between, we’re always happy to visit Ma’am and wistful when it’s time to leave. From start to finish, our time with Ma’am is everything we could wish for and then some. She is a fabulous domme and can always think up something to enhance our session. We may have begun our journey later than some, but we could not have been more fortunate than to find Mistress Simone. Thank you Ma’am, from the bottom of our hearts, for everything you’ve done, both to and for us.

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Mistress Simone starts off 2019 with a rant suggested by an online encounter one of her collared slaves had with an unknown wanker Domme via Facebook. Social media presents our lifestyle with unique challenges for engagement with others. While many people tend to hide behind their online personas, those engaged in real-time relationships and encounters may have difficulty navigating this field. Translating one’s manners and protocol should be the key factor in regards to engaging with unknowns online. Just because they’re rude does not mean a slave or Mistress should stoop to their level, and toss out consideration. Boundaries should be maintained as established off keys. Mistress Simone lets her feelings be known about those who approach her owned slaves.

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Femme Domme Mystique Podcast : This episode, Mistress Simone  discusses service – how it differs to all, what it means to her and how to add this element to your power exchange and play. What does service mean to those partaking of it in a BDSM setting? There are many types of service, not just domestic or BDsm. Service is defined by the power exchange desired by the individuals involved. It can be sexual, administrative, financial, manual labor, meal and shopping duties and dress code. The topic can also be rife with issues on both sides with the service provider feeling taken advantage while the service receiver feeling in doubt, undeserving and also taken advantage of. With service, much like most kink activities, expectations must be clearly discussed at inception and reviewed regularly.

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In this episode, Mistress Simone discusses some of these service practices and how Femme dommes can incorporate them into their dynamic.

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