Chicago Mistress’s New and Improved  Website

Hello! Welcome to my first major Chicago Mistress website update in 10 years. I am very excited to share my new look and updated information with you. It has been far too long since a fresh look!

The changes and new protocol within the site will let you discover if we are a good match for sessioning. The updated protocol reflects my experience and skill over my 25+ years as a Professional Dominatrix. It will help you assess if we would enjoy playing together plus inform you of what I desire and enjoy. My main kink is control but you can learn about my specialties here.

Desire to learn more about me overall – what motivates my Dominance, the type of submissive I enjoy, then read my About page.

Chicago Prodomme in her dungeon

Some of the wonderful additions besides updated images of your Mistress are:

Did you know I have a podcast?

FEMME DOMME Mystique podcast episodes :

Did you know I have a podcast focused on the Female Dominance power dynamic? It has been around for 10 years and can be found on multiple platforms including Spotify , Iheart radio ,Youtube , Audible

It has some wonderful interviews with fellow Dominatrices and lifestyle kinksters including Ava Zhang, Miranda Middleton AKA The Bondage Mistress and Queen Ariana Chevalier of NYC Rubber studio fame.

Episodes also include Mistress’s rants on topics which she feels need to be discussed and latest trends in kink. One of my favorite episodes is on 50 Shades of Grey when it came out.

Of course you can listen to ALL the episodes right here on my Femme Domme Mystique Podcast page!

Other Features you will now find on site:

NEW session intake form – updated for those serious in serving. I have fine-tuned my protocol to better suit Myself and you in determining our chemistry. I seek those who sincerely desire to play and engage in our mutual kinks. One does not need to be submissive to see me but you do need to be respectful of my role.

I will not switch or submit – not in my nature. We can enjoy a relaxed fetish focused time together but do not disrespect me.

BLOG on topics ranging from my mindset as a Professional and lifestyle Dominatrix to my thoughts on specific kinks and fetishes.

. For over 20 years I have been educating on kin, fetishism and BDSM. My writings on my blog include class lectures such as my Vamp Play class I just did for 7DOD

NEWS page covering my adventures as a prodomme, the events I attend , my touring and travel dates

REVIEWS from years past to present. These will enable you to get a sense of how I play with my submissives in my scenes

LOOK page for those who desire to gaze upon Mistress’s elegance and Dominance. For completely current images , you will need to visit my Loyalfans, Sextpanther and social Media pages

Details on both my  Kink Studio spaces – Chicago and Saint Louis

Off site ways to find more about Mistress

I like to support other lifestyle and kink sites that I find engaging, authentic and education – or just carry cool stuff!

Not sure if you know but your Mistress is a published author with articles on sites such as Fearless Press and Kinkly

Also I wrote a book on one of my favorite means of control – Chastity.  It can be hard to find but last I checked  “The Toybag Guide to Chastity” can be found on BooksaMillion

Shiny Mistress in her Saint Louis bdsm studio

My educational videos can be found via Kink Academy. For the good stuff though you will need to visit my Clips4sale store. While I am not a video clip Mistress, I do enjoy filming with friends and doing instructional clips. You my also purchase my clips on my Loyalfans

I know there are some of you out there who just desire the devotional material for you to worship so for you, there is my photo gallery.

Not enough pictures for you? Well then you must tribute for more via Loyalfans, Niteflirt or Sextpanther.

I do hope you enjoy the new website while learning more about Me. Read the reviews, peruse the blog and oogle the pictures – then when ready fill out my contact form to visit the real thing!

Take the step! Schedule your session here

Desire a conversation to see if we are compatible? I have a number of platforms available for us to chat and see if we are well-matched

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Mistress Simone attempts to enlighten her listeners on sadism,the pleasure of administering it to her slaves and what it could mean within the BDSM context. She sheds light on sadism within professional domination. A difficult concept to pin down or clarify, she takes on the daunting task of distinguishing good vs bad interactions, safety,protocol, the inner beast that must be watched and the goal of one’s sadism. Using common definitions and psychological guidelines, she dispels common misguided concepts of what being a sadist means for those of us within the BDSM world.

This will be the first of a continuing discussion as this topic is a multi-faceted and broad concept. Enjoy the beginning of the sadism series.

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Branding. Pro dommes have been engaging in branding ourselves way before it even became a buzzword. Like any good business, marketing and name recognition are paramount. And just like most successful businesses, eventually, someone else tries to copy or piggyback on the original. As many say “Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery”. BS! Mistress Simone goes off on those who steal from professional dominas to make themselves either look good or a small profit using our hard work.

Inspired by the recent upsurge of occurrences.

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Femme Domme Mystique Podcast : The famous Bondage Mistress of London comes to Chicago to create havoc with your host, Mistress Simone. In between tying slaves up and ball-kicking, these 2 evil sadists find time for a coffee interview. Mistress Simone expresses her dungeon envy,which if anyone knows her, is hard to do. She delves into what motivates Mistress Miranda, plus the favorites of Mistress Miranda. Learn what motivates this Mistress to go for more extreme scenes and restriction. What challenges Mistress Miranda to push the medical fetish envelope, creating extreme scenarios with her subs. Listen and find out!

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Femme Domme Mystique hostess, Mistress Simone of Chicago interviews three of her favorite professional dominatrices of New York City: Mistress Wynter, Mistress Elena DeLuca and Mistress Megan McCord. This coffee clutch hour romps through the world of professional domination covering how to approach a prodomme, lifestyle vs professional, social media impact, pet peeves, industry pros and cons and more.

Listen to veteran Prodommes from various generations discuss the industry and issues we deal with everyday.

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Femme Domme Podcast : This week Mistress Simone sits with Ariana Chevalier of the famous NYC Rubber Studio. Few fellow Prodommes have made it to 25 years. Be a fly on the wall when these 2 OG Dominatrices sit and chat about how the industry has altered and developed since the 1990s,how submissives have changed and what the internet & social media has done to the industry.  These iconic Mistresses discuss their beginnings, where they are currently in their sessions and what each enjoys the most about kink, fetish ad bdsm. This interview seems like 2 old friends sitting on the deck reminiscing of the golden days. Miss Simone and Queen Ariana Chevalier laugh about  SASEs and when our clients had to use them. They discuss how they accepted clients in the past, what annoys them most about current state of their industry and how they desire to be approach. Welcome to the Dominatrix coffee clutch.

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Mistress Simone was lucky enough to corner Mistress Genesis, one of the leading ladies of DomCon, the dominatrix professional industry event held in Los Angeles yearly. Ms Genesis discusses what she enjoys in those who serve her, and what types of play she enjoys. the best section of the interview comes with Genesis sharing her experience coming out to her family, and the self-discovery of her kinky nature. For those who may struggle with these topics, this interview will help one understand you are not alone and all struggle at times with mixing the BDSM and vanilla world.

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The internet- what a wonderful thing. But is it good for our profession and lifestyle? How has the way we interact changed due to it? When Mistress Simone began her journey as a leather Mistress, this tool did not exist. Now it runs everything. Without a web presence, prodommes cannot gain new clients as well as keep in touch with regulars. Dangerous predators can hide behind online profiles on a wide assortment of hook up sites. Even Fetlife has its pitfalls with such. In this episode Mistress Simone discusses how she feels the internet has affected the business and community. How the need for constant new images, clips, client engagement has created a hyper focused clientele who demand and desire input immediate. Boundaries have blurred, leading to quicker burnout, high stress and frustration. Sex workers now are constantly engaged , sharing most aspects of their lives on social media and fan sites. While the internet makes sex work easier on some grounds, it heightens stress and burn-out with this constant publish and produce. Mistress Simone delves into the pros and cons of the now so important internet.

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Femme Domme Mystique Podcast : This episode, Mistress Simone  discusses service – how it differs to all, what it means to her and how to add this element to your power exchange and play. What does service mean to those partaking of it in a BDSM setting? There are many types of service, not just domestic or BDsm. Service is defined by the power exchange desired by the individuals involved. It can be sexual, administrative, financial, manual labor, meal and shopping duties and dress code. The topic can also be rife with issues on both sides with the service provider feeling taken advantage while the service receiver feeling in doubt, undeserving and also taken advantage of. With service, much like most kink activities, expectations must be clearly discussed at inception and reviewed regularly.

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In this episode, Mistress Simone discusses some of these service practices and how Femme dommes can incorporate them into their dynamic.

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On this episode of The Femme Domme Mystique, Mistress Simone talks about domestic service! What exactly is it, does it fit into your power exchange? Domestic service doesnt fit into a cookie cutter format. It means something different to each person. Mistresses need to be very clear on what it means to them when a submissive offers to perform domestic service. Likewise, a submissive needs to understand that domestic service isn’t play or a scene. How a submissive can do it to please their Mistress. Guidelines for both Mistress and slave in connecting correctly on service desires are covered in this episode.

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