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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Casual, his ass! &#160; For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress note: Watching my slaves shed their societal wares to bare their self to me is one of my kinks and turn-ons.) Next came the leather hood, collar. After several long weeks, my <a href="https://www.steelwerksextreme.com/">chastity device</a> was unlocked – though casual or no – as always an orgasm was still far from certain and entirely dependent on how pleased Ma’am was with my performance on this day. ( Your orgasm belongs to me. It is only granted when I am pleased. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_sexual_denial">Orgasm control</a> and<a href="https://totalchastity.com/blogs/chastity/choosing-your-keyholder"> keyholder</a> are 2 things I enjoy engaging in.</p>
<p>Firstly, I was sent to stand in the bondage wall corner. She attached some clothespins to my nipples and cuffs were buckled around my wrists and ankles and subsequently fastened to the wall. Ma’am then concocted an additional twist by securing my collar to the wall as well, forcing me to hold as still as I could muster, lest I choke myself. (I do love my predicament bondage.)</p>
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<p>Both facing a corner, as well as being blindfolded, I could only hear the various rattling and clinking as Ma’am gathered various twisted implements for Her amusement. I never really knew what was about to hit me – literally – until, well, it did. Ma’am has often expressed a certain disappointment that in our phone sessions, I do not strike myself with quite the ferocity that She prefers, so She more than makes up for it when we are together. At some point, additional clothespins were added to my nipples as well. (The more clothespins and clamps ,the better.) Eventually, She rounded up six of Her favorites and informed me that in honor of Her recent birthday, I would receive ten strokes from each. Although not specifically instructed to, I called off – or yelped in many cases – the count as a means of getting through the experience. In the end, She was apparently quite pleased with the bruises She wrought, rewarding me with long, sensual scratches down my back.</p>
<p>It was then time to move to another position. Now I was on the floor, at Her feet, one of my favorite places to be. She told me to worship Her boots which I did so happily and eagerly. I make a point of ensuring the soles are properly cleaned (the heels were a bit too chunky to properly suck, but they were licked <i>thoroughly</i>) (Mistress note-I will never make things easy for you. My sadistic pleasure comes before your ease.) before indulging myself with the taste of Her leather. After She was satisfied, She rewarded me yet again by permitting me to then worship Her Goddess backside! I enthusiastically smothered Her bottom in kisses and savored every hungry sniff of Her aroma that I could inhale. She knows this is my biggest fetish and I must have taken my beatings well, indeed, to be so spoiled.</p>
<p>But, alas, nothing lasts forever and all too soon I was transferred to a reclining chair and after tying me down and blindfolding me again, my genitals were wired up and shocked. She also took advantage of this moment to swat my thighs with some implement and reach in and twist and pull my nipples with Her fingers. Presently, She decided my mouth was not being put to sufficient use. First, She slid a dildo in and out, pushing it ever deeper and deeper. A test, no doubt, of my progress on the cock-sucking training I am expected to perform at home in-between serving Her in person. Seemingly satisfied with my progress She switched to having me suck Her leather gloved fingers – again &#8211; making certain to twist them in deep. This has rapidly become one of my favorite activities during our sessions. Strap-On play is great &#8211; and we would come to that presently &#8211; but having an actual, warm, squirming, <i>living</i> part of Her, my Mistress, my owner, inside of me…  It’s powerful stuff.</p>
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<p>Following that, I was directed to get up, move to the table and assume “the position.” She placed the previously utilized dildo directly in front of my face and off and on ordered it to be sucked some more. As I complied, She worked my whorish back hole with an electric plug, ramming it up deep inside me while cranking the voltage, which provided the most extreme stimulation of the day. When I couldn’t take it anymore, She finally showed mercy, replacing the plug with Her strap-on and pumping my hole until I finally begged Her to cum, which She graciously gave Her permission.  It was greatly appreciated! (Keep in mind, one will not always gets release from Me. It is only if I am satisfied with your performance.)</p>
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<p>Though spent, my service was not quite over as I to assist in helping tidy up the <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">dungeon</a> before being permitted to remove my collar and put my clothes on once more.</p>
<p>For what was supposed to be just a casual afternoon, I headed home with a bruised butt and legs of jelly. But as always, dreaming of the next time I would be privileged to enjoy Ma’am’s company again.</p>
<p>Oh, and we also got ice cream. (Mistress note: It&#8217;s the only time I enjoy vanilla!) That was fun. Thank You for everything, Ma’am.</p>
<p><strong>Mistress Note</strong>:</p>
<p>For those that desire to have something a bit more relaxed while seeing if we mesh for session, I do offer lunch and dinner consultations. Where we can chill, get to know each other and discuss our mutual kinks. For my social consultation information, visit my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/session-info/">sessions page</a>.</p>
<p>If you are too far for in person or want to speak on the phone beforehand, my fan-sites are the best way to learn more about Mistress and have a conversation.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Bondage,Glorious Bondage!                                                           Chicago Mistress,Thanks again for an absolutely fantastic session. I&#8217;m finally coherent enough to put some thoughts together for you. Before I get to that, though, I hope that you enjoyed yourself.(I did! Usually Mistress will not engage in something unless I also enjoy it. But remember, control of you is my main [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bondage/">Bondage</a>,Glorious Bondage!</h2>
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<div dir="ltr">                                                          Chicago Mistress,Thanks again for an absolutely fantastic session. I&#8217;m finally coherent enough to put some thoughts together for you.</div>
<div dir="ltr">Before I get to that, though, I hope that you enjoyed yourself.(I did! Usually Mistress will not engage in something unless I also enjoy it. But remember, control of you is my main kink.)</div>
<div dir="ltr">I forgot to ask afterwards, which I usually try to do, but I can only reiterate that my mental faculties were a bit scattered (in a good way!) (Ultimately my goal is to scatter your faculties.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">First off, I really connected with your vibe, the way you were strict-but-playful. I don&#8217;t know you well enough to know if that&#8217;s &#8216;you&#8217; or you just reacting what I had expressed to you in our chat, but it felt genuine and was appreciated.( Mistress note : Strict but playful describes me to a T!  While I may appear approachable, if you misbehave , you will encounter my strict side.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Also, I appreciated the way that you consistently checked in and let me know what was going on (like you leaving for a bit). It made me feel secure and confident that I could push my boundaries. I have seen dommes that put me in stringent positions and then left for a bit, and it&#8217;s not a good thing IMO. ( Your safety will always be paramount to me in our scene. I don&#8217;t like to break my toys.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The initial position on the bed was both intense and comfortable (from a position standpoint). I was concerned at first about my hamstrings with the legs being pulled out like that, but it was fine. Those leg braces were interesting, the way they restricted movement, but allowed a little flex (I love my quality gear. These leg splints were from <a href="http://www.churchofsinvention.com">Sinvention</a>.) I haven&#8217;t worn anything like those before. ( Expanding your horizons with new kinks, implements and positions is one thing I enjoy discovering with you. If I can&#8217;t introduce you to something new, I am challenged to do so in future sessions. After 30 years, I am still able to find new ways to do similar activities.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">I loved the way you kept layering in the bondage and restriction, from top to bottom. The butt plug was a nice size, and the electrical CBT via your <a href="http://erostek.com">Eros-tek</a> was intense.( E-stim is a favorite activity of mine. I love having you as my puppet while I control the input. Turning the dials to increase the stimuli. Tease and denial with a touch of my buttons.)</div>
<div dir="ltr">I would be interested in trying strap-on sometime &#8211; I&#8217;ve only done it a few times and it&#8217;s been a long while. ( I reserve my pegging for those I want to ravish. If you are not well-behaved and submissive, you don&#8217;t get my cock. Only those who show obedience to Ma&#8217;am get taken this way. While others engage in strap-on on a whim, with me , you must earn it.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The hand-over-mouth breath play was great, but feel free to go longer and push me more in that area. (Breath play is always done safely and consensually- to learn more read this<a href="https://jaywiseman.com/wordpress/index.php/bondage-and-positional-asphyxia/"> article</a> by Jay Wiseman.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">The chair tie was really something. As I mentioned that hood really kept me focused on the breathing,  but also accentuated all the other sensations.(Hyper -focusing you on one sense while I manipulate the others,enhancing your reception of those you are not in control of.) Mistress&#8217;s current focus is on hoods. I have over 100 between my two dungeon locations &#8211; <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio/">Chicago</a> and <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis</a>.  It is my most recent gear focus.</div>
<div dir="ltr">Again loved the layering from the straps to the bondage wrap to the rope. All great. (Layering materials is one of my favorite sessions. Let&#8217;s begin simple and build up till you can&#8217;t move a muscle. Then I will begin to administer sensations- both painful and pleasurable. All at my discretion.)</div>
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<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">And the bondage bag at the end was nice and snug &#8211; although a bit big on top as you know. But I loved that material, and you did a great job cinching it up really quickly. ( I will make sure my sub is tightly encased even if what I have on hand is not quite tight enough)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Again, thanks for everything! You obviously are incredibly good at what you do, and I&#8217;m only sorry that it&#8217;s taken me so long to get to <a href="https://www.choosechicago.com/articles/bucket-list/first-time-visitors-guide-to-chicago/">Chicago</a> with some spare time. ( I am glad he finally made it. If you have been on the fence in sessioning with me, I highly suggest you do so in the next 5 years. I know this sounds like plenty of time but in the grand scheme it&#8217;s not. Never leave for tomorrow,what you can accomplish today.)</div>
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<h3 dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Mistress&#8217;s Note</h3>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">All<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/reviews/"> reviews</a> on my website are authentic from submissives I have actually sessioned with in my studios. I add my opinion or clarification to the reviews posted to inform those who desire to see me on my side of the session review. What I gained from the encounter. How I enjoy playing with clients. After so many years as a Dominatrix, my joy comes from the unique, new, journey beginning, enhancing life quality. Oh, and controlling you. Getting you to do as I say, bending to my will.</div>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Tease and denial is a favorite, especially when you are bound and helpless.</div>
<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: center;">Let&#8217;s not wait for the perfect time. Let&#8217;s create the perfect time. Where I control your world!</div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">An A to Z synopsis of principles and activities surrounding the power dynamic of female domination &amp; male submission.</h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Many of these definitions are focused towards the male submissive , however they apply to all genders and sexualities.</h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">All these topics bear further exploration on their own but this primer is meant to introduce the reader to them. Further blog posts will define each concept deeper.</h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">This primer is a living, breathing entity which will continue to expand and develop as new fetishes and kinks arise and the ones on this list grow.</h4>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">Please keep in mind when reading this blog and my website, that my perspective comes from the female domination point of view.</h5>
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid0" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Arousal and Denial</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">In regards to the male, denial is an excellent motivator. The promise or </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">restriction of a possible orgasm will spur the strongest man to submission. Two components of these are edging and chastity &#8211; both which rate further exploration. Keeping him perpetually on edge increases his devotion to pleasing you above all else.<br />
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid1" class="markedContent"></span><span id="page16R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Ash tray Service:</span></strong> A sexy Mistress inhaling on a cigar or cigarette then engaging with her submissive as her ash receptacle personifies what many think of as ash tray service. However, just like other activities,it can range light to heavy. From having him kneel at your feet , holding a crystal ashtray while you blow smoke seductively into his face to something much more extreme and humiliating as making him consume your ashes(safely) &#8211; this type of service is as you desire.  Remember ,he is there to consensually serve as you wish. </span><span id="page16R_mcid2" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page16R_mcid2" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Body Worship and/or Service:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">This is where The Mistress holds the real power. Your body is the ultimate</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">reward for the male. Controlling the sexual or body worship strings is where the Mistresses and women have the upper hand. Access to you is granted upon your desire alone. Male desire is secondary. It is time we as the dominant gender reclaim our pleasure. Only do and allow what you desire. </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid3" class="markedContent"></span></p>
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid3" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Butt Plugs:</span></strong> I will  write a whole paper on anal training with slaves  For all, it can be a <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">wonderful device for sensation, humiliation and control. I love letting a male know I own all his orifices. Butt plugs are way to introduce anal training which can lead to full pegging/strap-on. Pegging  to me is very intimate, one I engage with my cherished subs that I own. The other way I enjoy it is with a sub that I want to ravage his holes. I usually combine pegging with dildo sucking on his knees with my hand on his head, forcing it deeper into his open and eager mouth. One of my favorite toy site for butt plugs is <a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/ass-play/butt-plugs-ass-play">Mr. S Leather</a></span></span><span id="page16R_mcid4" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><strong><a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">CBT</a> :</strong> Cock and ball torment, tease or torture- depending on the Mistress&#8217;s intent. One of my specialties.It encompasses any action that causes stimulation, pain or sensation to the male genitalia. There are separate blog posts about the elements involving<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a>. See my <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">page</a> devoted to it.</p>
<p><span id="page16R_mcid4" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href="https://www.definitions.net/definition/CFNM">CFNM</a>:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Clothed female, nude male. In our society, nudity is usually a sign of shame or</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">embarrassment. To require a male to be continually nude in your female presence  reminds </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">him of your superiority over him. Historically , making a subservient male remove their clothing has been a method of intimidation, control and power. </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid5" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page16R_mcid5" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href="https://www.thefreedictionary.com/chastity"><strong>Chastity</strong></a>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">A device which should prohibit the  male arousal and orgasm. Orgasm control is one main kinks. I love the control. the male body does not deserve the release unless the female is satisfied first. Can also be mental chastity but that requires a </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">much disciplined program from both parties and strong wills.  I have written many articles on the topic which will be posted on future blog posts. There are many companies for devices but 2 of my favorites are  <a href="https://www.steelwerksextreme.com">steelwerks</a> and <a href="https://www.holytrainer.com/chastity-tease/SWISS-MADE-CERTIFIED.asp">holytrainer</a></span></span><span id="page16R_mcid6" class="markedContent"></span></p>
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid7" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Cock Rings:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">What I like to call the “hidden collar”. </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">This is an excellent overt way of controlling and marking the male.</span></span><span id="page16R_mcid7" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> They can be used for daily wear if comfortable [or not] and unobtrusive. Other types can enhance sexual arousal or pleasure for you both. Different than chastity devices. This <a href="https://www.cockringexpert.com/category/cock-ring-sets/">site</a> has a good variety.<br />
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid8" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Corporal Correction:</span></strong>  One of my favorite ways to correct poor male behavior. <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Traditionally this is administered as spankings over the knee, which is </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid8" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">both humiliating and effective to keep him in line. Canes, hairbrushes and other implements </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">may be used. Keep in mind , for some males this can be arousing to be over the Mistress&#8217;s lap. So if you find an erection rubbing your leg, consider cock punishment added to his correction. </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid9" class="markedContent"></span></p>
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<p><span id="page16R_mcid9" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Cuckoldry</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Having your male watch you receive sexual pleasure from another person while he is </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">denied such a privilege. It can include him serving the other person as a fluff-er, having him clean you up afterwards or just being allowed to be in the same room.</span></span><span id="page16R_mcid9" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> If you so choose, he can be completely removed from the act and just told about it after the fact. Humiliation and service can be  components of this activity.</span></span><span id="page16R_mcid10" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page16R_mcid10" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Emasculation</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Any activity that assists the female in removing or lessening the masculine traits </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">of her submissive. Can be achieved by other activities listed her such as forced feminization, humiliation or chastity. Can also include dehumanization, doll and robot play. Castration can be included under this activity , however i prefer to separate the concepts. Castration role play scenarios can be extreme. I never engage in active mutilation of my submissive. </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid11" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page16R_mcid11" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Female Supremacy:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">The belief system that females are superior to males in all forms. There is whole Female Supremacy subculture within the female dominant community. Some good resources for it are : </span></span><span id="page16R_mcid11" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href="https://www.houseofsinn.com/">House of Sinn</a> with my fellow Prodomme, Ezada Sinn  and the <a href="https://femaleled.info/the-flr-manifesto/">Female Led Manifesto </a></span></span><span id="page16R_mcid12" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid0" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href="https://www.7daysofdomination.com/course/findommyths">Financial Control and FINDOM</a>:</span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> Mistress holds the purse strings Financial Domination runs the gambit from  controlling the entire financial structure of your sub&#8217;s life to tribute only when you interact. Honesty and clarification of expectations is key in this type of play, or it can get messy. <a href="https://theprincesskali.gumroad.com/l/FinDomMythBusting">Princess Kali has some great information on Findom</a>. Placing your male on an allowance , making him tribute a stipend or hand over his paycheck are all ways of financial control. </span></span><span id="page26R_mcid1" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Forced Feminization</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Cross dressing for the non-cross dresser.This topic is very diverse. I approach each feminization request by discovering the desires and motivation of each individual asking for this fetish.  </span></span><span id="page26R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> If forced is the main component, I ask why. Is the drive for humiliation or </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">embarrassment. Or could it be to take that first step into embracing their inner femininity. One must find out the mind of the ale before choosing an approach.  Many women find males dressed in slight feminine gear extremely </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">erotic. </span></span><span id="page26R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Panties under the pants to work are a favorite of mine.</span></span><span id="page26R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> A long discussion can be focused around gender fluidity and sexuality identity associated with cross-dressing. There are many good books written on the topic. Two of my favorites are  &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Gender-Rebels-Cross-Dressers-Impersonators-Name-Changers/dp/1542044693/ref=sr_1_9?crid=3QR25UMKOP8C2&amp;keywords=book+historical+crossdressers&amp;qid=1672877824&amp;sprefix=book+historical+crossdressers%2Caps%2C140&amp;sr=8-9">Gender rebels</a>&#8221; and &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Skirting-Gender-Lessons-Cross-Dresser/dp/1732675902/ref=sr_1_16?crid=LHY4ZLTAGVJQ&amp;keywords=crossdressers+book&amp;qid=1672877950&amp;sprefix=crossdressers+book%2Caps%2C126&amp;sr=8-16">Skirting Gender</a>&#8220;</span></span><span id="page26R_mcid2" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid2" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Goddess Worship</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">An earth based form of female superiority. Stems from the ancient Earth </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">religions were women were revered as the Mothers of All. I find this path to be very individualistic for each person involved. It can become akin to a spiritual journey. Goddesses are revered, worshipped, feared. What type of Goddess are you? Mother Earth? Kali? Artemis? Embody and empower yourself through goddess Worship. I will be publishing a blog on this soon. </span></span><span id="page26R_mcid3" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<div id="attachment_1782" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-1782" class="size-medium wp-image-1782" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/CYMERA_20220422_122250-300x300.jpg" alt="Chicago Mistress Goddess Worship Kali" width="300" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-1782" class="wp-caption-text">My Goddess persona is Kali</p></div>
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<p><span id="page26R_mcid3" class="markedContent"><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">House Hubbies:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Recall Mr. Mom? That’s what this is. It can be a 24/7 thing or set for </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">certain times such as week-ends, nights only or a trial month. It is basically role reversal. He takes on the typical feminine </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">duties.I find it is key here for the Mistress to clearly define her expectations. It is hard work being a house wife or husband. Make sure what you require is clearly outline. I have all my expectations outlined in a house manual. it details my food preferences, what I require each day, laundry instruction and room by room cleaning details. You can&#8217;t get upset if you do not communicate your wishes. </span></span><span id="page26R_mcid4" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid4" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Humiliation:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Comes in many forms. Public, Verbal and physical are the three most common.</span> Consent/ Non-consent should be key in all negotiations but particularly this area. One wrong word or action can trigger someone into a negative spiral , even dangerous. Do your homework before starting with humiliation. You want to do your best to avoid possible triggers.<br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Embarrassment is a wonderful tool to use where the male is considered,and my favorite.</span></span><span id="page26R_mcid5" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid5" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Induced Orgasms:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">This refers to his masturbation under your guidance. You may place </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">restrictions on it to suit whatever whim you desire. It is his goal to accomplish it. For example,</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">he will receive 57 strokes with the cane of his ass while masturbating. On stroke 57, he is to </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">cum. If he fails, the process will be repeated until he does as you command. Get creative here.</span></span><span id="page26R_mcid6" class="markedContent"></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid6" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Male Milking:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">You take the orgasm from him. He does not</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">control it. Can use machines or make him do it. Ruined orgasm may be a component.</span></span><span id="page26R_mcid6" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> Some of the common milking machines are<a href="http://www.venusformen.com"> Venus2000</a> and <a href="http://www.SeriousKit.com">Serious Kit</a></span></span></p>
<p><span id="page26R_mcid6" class="markedContent"><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Mounting:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Male is bound and restrained while female uses him sexually. His sole use is to </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">pleasure her.Not to be confused with Pegging-see below.<br />
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<p><span class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Nectar Ingestion:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">This can be one of the ultimate rewards for a male submissive. To drink the golden nectar from one&#8217;s Goddess can be both rewarding and humiliating depending on the submissive&#8217;s mind set. Direct from the Goddess or in a vessel &#8211; up to you.</span></span></p>
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<p><span id="page26R_mcid7" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Schedule Control:</span></strong> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Placing limitations and requirements on his time. Assigning him tasks to </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">complete, such as check-in times.This has become easier with social media. You define how much control is appropriate. Doing this can take much of the Mistress&#8217;s attention, so be sure you have the desire and time to engage in this type of control. It would be doing a disservice to both of you to promise and not follow through.<br />
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid0" class="markedContent"><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Shaving:</span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Can be used as a tool for humiliation or emasculation. To remove a male’s hair from </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">parts not normally bald is to remove part of his masculinity. By shaving his legs, you make him</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">more feminine.</span></span><span id="page28R_mcid1" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">This is a great tool for distance control. Every time he looks or feels the shaved area, he will be </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">reminded of his Domina.</span></span></div>
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid2" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Sissification</strong>:</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Sissy maids are their own special breed of submissives.Unlike humiliation aspects of forced feminization, sissification encompasses desire and love for all femininity. They want to feel pretty, and be told how pretty they are. Much detail and attention is required for engaging with sissification. Also, monetarily ,it can be a very expensive fetish.This <a href="https://feminizeme.store/collections/sissy-maid-dresses">site</a> does some have delightful outfits!<br />
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid3" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Smothering :</span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Using your body to prevent his full breathing. Be careful.It is a form of controlled </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">body worship. The goal here is not for him to pay homage to your person by for him to feel</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">engulfed within his</span> <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Mistress’s aura and energy. Ass worship, face sitting all fall here.</span></span></div>
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid4" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Strap-ons also known as Pegging</span></strong> : Everyday should be International Women&#8217;s Day! <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Anal penetration for the male is a whole separate seminar. I believe Mother Nature </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">knew exactly what she was doing when she put the male g-spot (prostate) in their asses! Taking </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">your man as he traditionally would take you is a very empowering action. defining the control </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">lines of the relationship.</span></span></div>
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid5" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Teasing: </span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Using the vulnerability of the sub&#8217;s psyche in regards to your sexual prowess, sensuality and energy is a good skill for the Mistress to utilize at here discretion.</span></span></div>
<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid5" class="markedContent"><span dir="ltr" role="presentation"> If you choose never to torment him teasingly with your sensual power, so be it.  Keep in mind, the male </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">worships the feminine body and desires it. Use this to your advantage.</span></span></div>
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid6" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Trampling: </span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">The act of stepping on your male as he lies under your feet. Helps establish the fact that </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">he is beneath you.Can be done in a variety of ways :</span></span>Full or partial weight, bare feet, stockings, or shoes. Please take an instructional class either in-person or online before engaging in this activity. You can rupture internal organs of done wrong. I do offer trampling instruction. To inquire , please  <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email</a> me.</div>
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid7" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Vacuum Pumps:</span></strong>  Machines designed to milk the pathetic member of your submissive. <span dir="ltr" role="presentation">An excellent toy for you controlling his orgasm. Also enables you to control</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">without touching. For some of my favorite machines, see above for &#8220;Milking&#8221; Vacuum pumps can also be called Penis Pumps, which are for enlarging the cock temporarily via engorged tissue.<br />
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<div class="canvasWrapper"><span id="page28R_mcid8" class="markedContent"><br role="presentation" /><strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Vocalization: </span></strong><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Males are notorious for their lack of emotional communication. Require him to be </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">open with his feelings and thoughts on what he is experiencing. Have him keep a journal on his</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">daily submissive thoughts and acts, and then read it aloud to you. . Also, in regards to play,</span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">males tend to be quieter than females. This can be linked to our societal view on male crying.</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">Males who flinch or cry out in pain are viewed as wimps. Therefore, when play is occurring, </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">have him vocalize his pain. It will break him of this societal male pattern. Vocal limitations and</span><br role="presentation" /><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">requirements are a tool we all use in our community. There are many variations of this type of </span><span dir="ltr" role="presentation">training you may employ to control him</span></span></div>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;">Keep in mind this primer is ever evolving. I will add components as develop. Please feel free to offer topics or add-ons via  my<strong><a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com"> email.</a></strong></h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">You may also inquire about a session or serving via my <a href="http://www.chicago-mistress.com/contact"><strong>contact page</strong></a>.</h5>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Nervous Novice Sub meets Experienced Chicago Dominatrix &#160; By C- 2022 Chicago Dungeon Session Our session was far beyond my expectations. I’m unsure why I assumed I wouldn’t enter subspace (Mistress note-subspace is different for everyone. Not all go deep into a trance like state. For some it is just a sense of peace, relaxation [&#8230;]</p>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;">By C- 2022</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio">Chicago Dungeon</a> Session</h5>
<p>Our session was far beyond my expectations. I’m unsure why I assumed I wouldn’t enter <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/subspace-bdsm">subspace</a> (Mistress note-subspace is different for everyone. Not all go deep into a trance like state. For some it is just a sense of peace, relaxation or happiness) – and I didn’t even realize I had until you pointed it out, but it was surreal and absolutely incredible. Reading about subspace was nothing compared to experiencing it and that in-and-of itself is something I will be thinking on for a long time.</p>
<p>I appreciate you being patient with me, both during the session and with your instructions afterwards.I had no clear expectations of what I was going to feel. Naively, I think, I assumed impact play would only feel good during the impact itself (and maybe it does for some people) but, for me at least, it was the tingling after and contrast between impact and light touch after that was fascinating (and wonderful) – and, of course, the impact play itself was likely a large contributor to entering subspace.  Looking back, I am able to say I absolutely enjoyed it – even if, in the moment, I was only able to describe it as interesting.</p>
<p>(Mistress note &#8211; I do love my impact play! Skilled at administering to naughty subs, sensation junkies and those in need of a primal release, impact can be so much more than a simple spanking. Flogging and whipping can feel like a wonderful back/body massage).</p>
<p>Anyway, beyond overarching themes and on to specifics!</p>
<p>-I loved being collared and leashed, especially being lead around. Being pulled/tugged around, possibly in restraints that make it difficult to do so. (Leading my subs around the play stations in my dungeons gives a delightful jolt of enjoyment and pleasure. Likewise so does the jingle of restraints when a slave moves &#8211; as long as it doesn&#8217;t disturb Mistress&#8217; relaxation time.)</p>
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<p>-I am surprised to find that I also enjoyed being disciplined. While there was the worry of disappointing you, when this was assuaged afterwards, I couldn’t help but love the small tendril of fear that came with being forcefully reminded of the rules you set in place and knowing they were to be maintained absolutely. (Mistress note &#8211; Make no mistake, I will enforce my rules. I do not state them for my amusement. I expect them to be followed. Protocol  is one of my kinks after all.)</p>
<p>-I loved the flogger on my back as well as the pinwheel after harsher impact play in contrasting sensation. I enjoyed the spanking, especially OTK (although whether that preference is due to already being in subspace at that point, I am unsure). I also liked the riding crop.</p>
<p>-The blindfold allowed me to relax and focus on physical sensations, which worked very well since I was, obviously, quite nervous. I do think I would enjoy being able to watch as I’m tied up before a blind fold is put in place though, so I can see as well as feel that I’m immobilized.</p>
<p>-I loved the bondage, I wish I had tried pulling against them to be more aware of it. Being tugged around by the rope harness was also fantastic.( Mistress note &#8211; another version of collar and leash. I just enjoy dragging you around my dungeons.)</p>
<p>Overall, thank you, again, for one of the most enlightening and amazing two hours of my life I am very grateful you decided to take me on as a completely inexperienced and naïve sub. I have learned so much and would be honored to see you again should you like and once means permit.</p>
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<h3>                    Novices are welcome to session with me in either of my Dungeon locations &#8211; <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio"><strong>Chicago</strong></a> or<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"><strong> Saint Louis</strong></a></h3>
<h4>                      Sessions are paced to your comfort level till we develop a rapport. I will test you, push you but not break you. Till the next time!</h4>
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		<title>Chicago Mistress&#8217;s Lighter Side &#8211; Sensation session review</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Sensation Experience Session with sub z &#8211; Saint Louis Dungeon By Sub Z May 2022 at Saint Louis dungeon &#160; &#160; I had plans to visit St. Louis and discovered Mistress Simone’s website. I have a sensation fetish and am not into pain at all, and my initial reaction was that I wasn’t sure we [&#8230;]</p>
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<h5 style="text-align: center;">By Sub Z</h5>
<h5 style="text-align: center;">May 2022 at <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis dungeon</a></h5>
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<p>I had plans to visit <a href="https://explorestlouis.com/">St. Louis</a> and discovered <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com">Mistress Simone’s website</a>. I have a sensation fetish and am not into pain at all, and my initial reaction was that I wasn’t sure we would be a good fit. But when I actually took the time to actually read her website in detail—always a good idea! —I realized we might have more in common than I originally thought so I contacted her about a possible session. I was still a little hesitant, but a quick phone conversation put me at ease. (Mistress&#8217;s note : If you are uncomfortable taking the first step, I am happy to chat with you via <a href="https://sextpanther.com/chicagomistress">Sextpanther</a> or <a href="https://www.Niteflirt.com/Mistress_Simone">Niteflirt</a> prior to our session.)</p>
<p>I went straight from the airport to her <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">Saint Louis dungeon</a> on a 100+ degree day and was a bit sweaty and light-headed by the time I got there. She let me clean up and took plenty of time to make sure I was feeling OK before proceeding. As soon as we started talking about the session, I felt like she really understood where I was coming from, and she asked a lot of questions to help both of us clarify<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bdsm-fetishes-kinks/"> interests</a> and limits—nothing was rushed. (And honestly, in retrospect, sitting naked in front of her while talking about my fetishes and interests without any judgment on her part was one of my favorite parts of the experience.) I prefer a playful session—but with the Dominatrix in full control—and that’s exactly the tone she set for the start. (Mistress&#8217;s note : Playing to connect and be present with the submissive I am with is key component of a good session for me. Meeting each other on the same level.)</p>
<p>The session entailed some light cross-dressing in lingerie and<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bondage/"> bondage</a> in a couple of variations while blindfolded with lots of amazing sensation play. I had also always listed <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">CBT</a> as a hard limit in sessions because I associate it with ball-busting, but her website talked about it not having to be painful. ( Mistress note: CBT does not have to be painful. Sensual to sadistic! What is most important is the reaction I receive from my submissive. I like creating responses in you)</p>
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<p>We talked about it and she did some more sensation-based <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/">CBT</a> that was really awesome. She constantly checked in on me and got permission before trying new things. She seemed really intuitive and anticipated when I might hit my pain threshold and let me decide whether or not I wanted to proceed (but make no mistake, she was entirely in control the whole time!). She also reminded me several times to make sure to breathe when things got intense, which helped me relax and stay in the moment.</p>
<p>I had been intrigued by the <a href="https://venusformen.com">Venus 2000</a> for years but had never experienced it, so we agreed to finish the session with that. I had no idea what to expect, but it was intense, mostly in a good way—all I’ll say is that I had warned her that it often takes me longer than most to finish, but it felt like it only took a minute or less when the Venus 2000 cranked up!</p>
<p>Bottom line, it was one of the best sessions I’ve ever had, and I would happily book a session again with Mistress Simone in a heartbeat the next time I’m in<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> St. Louis</a> or <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/chicago-domination-studio">Chicago</a>. I’m sure she’s amazing if you’re into a heavier experience, but if you want to give up control while having a lighter session, I can’t recommend spending time with her highly enough! (Mistress note : While I am known for my heavier engagements, I love playing on all levels from novice to experienced, light to heavy. Connection with my subs/clients is the thing I enjoy most.So don&#8217;t be afraid to reach out to Mistress. My <a href="chicagomistress@gmail.com">email</a> is the best point of initial contact.)</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Saint Louis Dominatrix session review &#160; I have seen Mistress Simone&#8217;s website and social media and always wondered what a session would be like. The process started with a simple email followed by a questionnaire ( My contact application for sessions locate HERE) and some very non evasive screening. I requested a session in St. [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I have seen Mistress Simone&#8217;s <a href="https://www.chicago-mistress.com">website</a> and<a href="https://www.bluesky.com/chicagomistress"> social media</a> and always wondered what a session would be like. The process started with a simple email followed by a questionnaire ( My contact application for sessions locate <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/contact/">HERE</a>) and some very non evasive screening. I requested a session in<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> St. Louis</a> that was very easy to schedule.</p>
<p>I arrived on time as requested, not early nor late. She greeted me at the door wearing black leather attire looking absolutely stunning. Her <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/"> Saint Louis Dungeon</a> is fully equipped with all the implements anyone could possibly want. Every item was of a very high quality with the feel of real BDSM gear. ( Mistress note: I believe in quality in all I do, especially my dungeon gear. If it won&#8217;t survive through my sadistic machinations, its not worthy of my dungeons.) I was told to undress and kneel in front of her so we can have a conversation about expectations limits and safe words, rules and boundaries. ( Mistress note: I always have a pre session intake talk with new submissives. it helps us get comfortable with one another and cover session protocol.)</p>
<p>She asked if I had any questions and once the session began she immediately started with nipple clamps. She then ordered me over to her bondage chair which is an amazing piece of equipment. I was tied into it with my legs spread for full exposure. I was extremely impressed with her rope skills.( I love engaging my skills with bondage implements on you. With over 30 years of tying up people to allow them the freedom to let go and relax, I pride myself on creating a myopic universe for us together in my studio.Learn more about my bondage skills <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bondage/">here</a>.)</p>
<p>She said we&#8217;re going to start with some<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a>,one of her specialties (Read how I enjoy creating<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a> sensation on you). Continuing with her rope skills, she tied my balls in a tight package and took the opportunity to slap and squeeze them to make sure I was paying attention. She seem to thoroughly enjoy my whimpering and discomfort. (Mistress note: I do indeed enjoy your discomfort. Your reactions to my administrations is one of my main kinks.)</p>
<p>She then untied me and removed the nipple clamps. I was rewarded with the words &#8220;Good Boy&#8221;. Mistress Simone then put leather wrist and ankle restraints on me. She then had me crawl up on her bondage table. This is an amazing piece of equipment with restraining hooks placed all around the outer edge.( My equipment enhances our time together. I love gear that increases my ability to control you.View my Saint Louis <a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/saint-louis-bdsm-playspace/">dungeon here.</a>) She put the nipple clamps back on and told me to lay my ass over this round pillow. While laying on my stomach,she ran rope through the chain of the clamps so any movement on my part would create more pull and pain. My arms and legs were secured to the hooks with my ass over the pillow and my legs wide open. I felt very exposed and helpless. (Mistress note: If you have seen me, you know I greatly enjoy predicament positions. Watching you try to wrap your head around not moving.)</p>
<p>Mistress Simone told me she was going to do some impact play now. Starting with some flogging I felt the sting of the lashes and my bottom warming. She then told me we were going to do 10 with each toy she had chosen. I had no idea how many toys she had picked. Mistress started with what felt like a spoon of some sorts, each SWAT getting just a little harder. The last one was a wooden paddle that she made sure I saw before hand. I think just for the mental effect. With the rope through the nipple clamps every time I jumped the effect was 2 fold. Once again I was rewarded with the words &#8220;Good Boy&#8221;.</p>
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<p>I then felt a cool slick liquid running down the crack of my ass followed by a plug being inserted. Little did I realize that was just the beginning of things to come. Mistress the put a sticky pad near the end of my cock. I felt her attaching what I know now was electric wires. She told me to tell her when I started to feel it. The cycle went from pain to pleasure. The entire time Mistress seemed to be entertained by my whimpering and moans. As I was reminded I was not allowed an orgasm without permission. Finally I was unhooked from the electric and the bondage table. I was feeling very used. Mistress Simone walked over to her throne and sat down. She then ordered me to crawl over in front of her on my knees. She told me to entertain her but do not forget the rules or I would be cleaning the mess up with my tongue. The embarrassment and humiliation seemed to please her as I begged for permission, pleading I was finally given permission. As I felt such release, I heard her say : &#8220;I didn&#8217;t tell you to stop&#8221;. Mistress told me I would now beg to stop. This time my begging was even more intense. As she laughed at my predicament,she finally granted permission to stop. I cleaned myself up and we chatted a little bit after session.</p>
<p>In closing. Mistress Simone is a world class dominatrix, her values and skills are exactly what a Domme should be. I felt submissive but safe. If Real domination is what your looking for, Mistress Simone is the only choice. Regardless of what level of submission or category from a beginner to a veteran Mistress Simone has the skills to accommodate. Her years of experience , knowledge and expertise will guide you through the Journey.</p>
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		<title>Chicago Dominatrix Simone &#8211; Sissification of sissy Eva</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Chicago Mistress sissifies her doll Eva &#160; &#8220;THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU MISTRESS for the best session ever. I will try to describe it.&#8221; Sissy Eva When i arrive and see you without boots i was disappointed, wanting to ask  you where your sexy boots were. But when i see them on the floor [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align: center;">Chicago Mistress sissifies her doll Eva</h2>
<div id="attachment_2359" style="width: 235px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-2359" class="size-medium wp-image-2359" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/BeautyPlus_20211020222238504_save-225x300.jpg" alt="Curvy-mature prodomme in Chicago" width="225" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-2359" class="wp-caption-text">Chicago Domina in her bdsm studio</p></div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">&#8220;THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU MISTRESS for the best session ever. I will try to describe it.&#8221; Sissy Eva</h4>
<p>When i arrive and see you without boots i was disappointed, wanting to ask  you where your sexy boots were. But when i see them on the floor i knew i was going to help You put them on (thank you mistress and hope to do it every time). (Mistress note: I will take into consideration your requests and interests when we session. You may not get everything, but you will get what you need.) For Mistress&#8217;s interests, click<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/bdsm-fetishes-kinks/"> here</a></p>
<p>When you start giving orders and start telling me what was going to happen to me, my mind start running (in unison with your cock). When You said that You were going to make me a sissy maid and then use my  ass pussy, I got excited. When You renamed me &#8220;Eva&#8221;, i knew i had to be the best Eva You had. Thank you for making worship Your boots.( Mistress note: Boot worship is one of my favorite fetishes to engage in with a slave. I love watching you kiss and lick my boot heel.) When you start dressing me as a sissy with garters to sustain the stockings i knew i would enjoy it. The chastity was a little difficult at first. i am sorry that i was thinking with my male persona. (Mistress note: If one can not control themselves , I will control you. Your cock clitty will only be erect when I desire)</p>
<p>You were wearing the key around Your neck resting between Your lovely breasts so that every time I see it, I was thinking &#8220;so near but so far&#8221;. While locked in your cage,I was dreaming it was your hand holding me  (Mistress note: If I ever touch you, it will be to control you or cause an uncomfortable<a href="https://chicago-mistress.com/cbt/"> CBT</a> reaction.)</p>
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<p>You start dressing me in a pretty outfit then make me act like your sissy,calling me Eva. i had to be the best sissy for you. The breast forms were really humiliating but being unable to see the chastity made it more humiliating,controlled by the chastity. You  decided to sensuously rub against me to make my member strain against the cage. i was in heaven and in hell because of the chastity. (Mistress note : I enjoy locking up my subs and sissies to control their orgasm. One of the best cage company in my opinion is <a href="https://www.steelwerksextreme.com/">Steelwerks</a>.</p>
<p>Mistress starts lacing me into a corset making it tight to form the female curves, giving me an hourglass figure. When you put your hands on my corseted waist , I feel like a pretty sissy. The stockings were different,feeling silky and sexy on my feminine legs.The shoes were a little different, making me walk with my ass out. I liked that the high heels were locked on but i was a little afraid of the heels.(Mistress note: Learning the proper way to walk in high heels is key to a sissy&#8217;s education.)</p>
<p>I really did learn to appreciate a woman in high heels. After only being in the heels for less than an hour, i felt my legs tight. Now when i see a woman in high heels i appreciate her tight legs. The walking was difficult, scary, and exciting, especially since i feel like a sissy when walking. I hope i can learn to walk in them. If I please Mistress, maybe next time she will allow me to wear boots. You then put me in front of the mirror in a position for your use. I am a sissy for Mistress&#8217;s enjoyment</p>
<div id="attachment_679" style="width: 235px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-679" class="size-medium wp-image-679" src="https://chicago-mistress.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/1625881882381-225x300.jpg" alt="Chicago dominatrix in sexy high heels" width="225" height="300" /><p id="caption-attachment-679" class="wp-caption-text">Sexy high heels make the legs</p></div>
<p>I am allowed a little rest but soon Mistress says it&#8217;s time for my spanking. This is always scary for me because i do have a low pain threshold.  Mistress warms up my bare bottom under the crinoline skirt, informing me my cleansing is next. (Mistress note : I prefer my sissies clean before I use their ass pussy. ) You start the colonic ,ensuring I take the full bag. i knew You were going to use Your strap on your sissy.especially. i had to walk on heels for what seemed like a long distance to the restroom,every muscle in my body tense. When in the bathroom i had to pee and with the chastity it really made me feel like a sissy slave. When you instructed me to leave the door open, i was unable to think of doing anything against your wishes. The heels making even sitting to pee different. The humiliation was at all time high. I was able to see my legs and the position of them, different but feeling more like a sissy.</p>
<p>Once I am finished in lady&#8217;s room, I am informed you will spank me again to remind me of my position. When You start spanking me again, i had to admit that i deserved it. Thank you for the spanking making me remembering my position. i love it when you start to play with my nipples afterwards, removing the breast forms to get to them.</p>
<p>Mistress decides it is time to use my sissy hole.  You start by using your fingers to loosen me up, preparing me for your rubber phallus. i wanted to be able to serve You the way You deserve. Thank you for the treatment. When You left a dildo in my pussy i was in heaven and asked to kiss Your ass while kneeling at your feet.</p>
<p>Mistress i was in heaven when You made me worship / kiss Your Ass and Your boots (I must admit every time i had an opportunity , i was looking at Your Ass and high heels boots. When I was allowed  to use my hands,it was extremely erotic. The skirt You wore was magnificent, its form fitting would make anyone desire to kiss Your ass. Please i want it all the time, in all our sessions. (Mistress note: I only allow body worship when I feel comfortable and it is earned by the submissive.)</p>
<p>Then You make me worship Your boots and suck on the heels like a penis, informing me I will be donning the maid&#8217;s outfit to make you a cup of tea to relax after our session.(MY favorite tea is <a href="https://www.mariagefreres.com/en/">Mariage Freres.)</a></p>
<p>You then instruct me to kneel in front of you. Upon removal of the chastity cage, you keep me on my knees in front of you, instructing me how to make your perfect cup of tea. <a href="https://www.food.com/recipe/the-perfect-cup-of-tea-british-style-230372">How to make a perfect cup of tea</a>! I am then permitted to take the chastity cage off. You instruct me that I may orgasm but I will be eating anything that comes out. If not, there will be punishment.  I retreat to the studio kitchen to perform my tea task. Upon my return, you judge it worthy to drink. I achieve my well- earned release and ingest the result.  Thank you for the honor of becoming your sissy Eva.</p>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;">THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU AGAIN MISTRESS for the best session ever. You really make me feel like your sissy maid</h4>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Episode 23: The first Mistress interview of 2019 is in the bag! Your hostess, Mistress Simone sits down for a chat with one of the most creative BDSM clip producers on the market today: Alice In Bondageland. Alice develops unusual scenarios using pop culture, movies, popular icons and unusual topics. Unlike many clips producers, hers [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>The first Mistress interview of 2019 is in the bag! Your hostess, Mistress Simone sits down for a chat with one of the most creative BDSM clip producers on the market today: Alice In Bondageland. Alice develops unusual scenarios using pop culture, movies, popular icons and unusual topics. Unlike many clips producers, hers feature realism, laughter and a wide variety of people. These are true kinksters, not paid models. Instead of providing us with an unattainable fantasy based on impossible to meet societal expectations, we are treated to positive role models, good energy and creative play.</p>
<p>And laughter let&#8217;s not forget laughter!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Femme Domme Mystique Episode 09: Service within Power Exchange Femme Domme Mystique Podcast : This episode, Mistress Simone  discusses service &#8211; how it differs to all, what it means to her and how to add this element to your power exchange and play. What does service mean to those partaking of it in a BDSM [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Femme Domme Mystique Episode 09: Service within Power Exchange</h2>
<p>Femme Domme Mystique Podcast : This episode, Mistress Simone  discusses<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Service-oriented_submission"> service </a> &#8211; how it differs to all, what it means to her and how to add this element to your power exchange and play. What does service mean to those partaking of it in a BDSM setting? There are many types of service, not just domestic or BDsm. Service is defined by the power exchange desired by the individuals involved. It can be sexual, administrative, financial, manual labor, meal and shopping duties and dress code. The topic can also be rife with issues on both sides with the service provider feeling taken advantage while the service receiver feeling in doubt, undeserving and also taken advantage of. With service, much like most kink activities, expectations must be clearly discussed at inception and reviewed regularly.</p>
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<p>In this episode, Mistress Simone discusses some of these service practices and how Femme dommes can incorporate them into their dynamic.</p>
<p>After listening, wish to discuss your service desires directly with Mistress? She is available on <a href="http://www.sextpanther.com/Chicago-Mistress">Sextpanther</a> and <a href="http://www.Loyalfans.com/chicagomistress">Loyalfans</a></p>
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