FemDom Royalty Magazine

FemDom Royalty Publication

  The Revival of the Domme Magazine! Much needed and desired by the community. Vibes of DDI but for our current times.

 One of our own and best saw a need, and decided to go for it. Or do I dare say,saw a hole and filled it- as we do! LOL!

The esteemed Lady Bellatrix is editor-in-chief, publisher and designer extraordinaire aimed to put forth something we have been missing for a number of years now:

A quarterly print magazine and lifestyle blog focusing on Female Domination and Supremacy.

Combining her fifteen years’ experience as a Dominatrix and previous decade long career as a published columnist in the UK, this is a female lead platform designed to amplify the voices within the world of Female Domination.  Dedicating a year of development and production to this venture, she poured her heart into developing a classic and polished magazine. She wanted to make it accessible to all so it is available both in print and online.

Some of the features of FemDom Royalty are :

Exclusive Interviews with prestigious Female Dominas around the World. USA, Europe and the World!

Giving voice to a wide variety of Mistress, Dominatrices and Fetishists, FemDom Royalty provides a voice for all female Dominatrices.

Agony Aunt Advice Column featuring yours truly, Mistress Simone of Chicago

Mansplaining – Exclusive interviews with Males involved with the FemDom community

Agony Aunt Column

I was beyond honored to be asked by Lady Bellatrix to be her Agony Aunt. I immediately had Ann Landers flashbacks.

 Immediately accepting the offer, I convened with Lady Bellatrix on what the focus of the column would be, how to approach it and what type of questions would be included. 3-4 per column of questions slaves may have for Female Dominatrices. The goal of the column is to assist those interested in approaching us on the proper way with correct protocol. BDSM advice in general can be all over the place. With the column, I hope to put my 30+ years to good use educating slaves on proper femdom etiquette, how to present oneself, power exchange, fetishism and submission.

We decided on 3-4 questions culled from slave source , per issue.

 Slaves may submit respectful questions via our fan-sites. If one’s question is chosen ,the reward will be recognition and a copy of the magazine their question is featured in. My goal is to receive a wide variety of topics from slaves worldwide.

To pose a question, one may do so via mine or Lady Bellatrix’s fan-sites. While we would love to accept tons of random questions from slaves around the world with no thought to our time and attention, one needs to set standards. To show your respect, authenticity and sincerity to your question, one must submit it via the fan sites.

Mistress Simone‘s fan- sites :

Moto Queen in Vinyl

Loyalfans

Sextpanther

Niteflirt

Lady Bellatrix’s fan-sites

Lady Bellatrix & Mistress Simone

AdultWorks

Sextpanther

Niteflirt

For fellow Dominatrices who would love to be interviewed or contribute, please contact Lady Bellatrix via her website.

Authors, artists and males interested in the mansplaining concept, also contact her via the website.

The premiere Issue is now available!

Issue 1 includes  exclusive interviews with three internationally renowned Dominatrices. Our cover Domme is Domina Silvia of Germany. Also featuring interviews of Mistress Tissa of Philadelphia USA and Mistress Lorraine of Essex, UK. Every issue will have a feature called Mansplaining and our exclusive interview in the inaugural issue is with Jon from Authentically Kinky.

Each issue will also feature reviews of books, events, female owned dungeons as well as members sites all within the Femdom realm. Issue 1 takes a look at Jane Boon’s Bold Strokes, Lady Sara Borgia’s Strap-On Parties, Mistress Justine Cross’ new dungeon Stella Obscura in Los Angeles and the members site of Mistress Jessica Woods of Herefordshire, UK.

Issue 1 is now out and live for purchase and download.

Get your copy here : FemDom Royalty

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   I’ve attempted to write this blog now for a month. Starting and stopping numerous times.

It is hard to announce a major change to your life publicly and focus on the clarification of the event. I know this will be the first question many of you will ask, so let’s get it out of the way.

Let me state emphatically : I AM NOT RETIRING. REPEAT – NOT RETIRING!

I am committed to my career and clients. My intent is to continue accepting those both new and experienced that desire to see a mature, skilled Dominatrix with over 30 years of talent. Maturity is hot, after all!

Chicago Shiny Mistress

I have been blessed the last 32 years to do what I truly love – live and share a life of fetishism, kink, and BDSM. I will continue to do so.

I have had my own independent fetish exploration studio in Chicago for 32 years. The current studio had its inception in 2008. This year marks the 17th year you have had the pleasure of sharing my beautiful space with me. I loved creating it, sharing it with both my community and industry. It has been the center of so many beginnings and endings.

However it is time for a different mode of expression and business. With bitter sweetness, I have closed my Chicago studio ONLY. It was a very hard decision but time for a change.

My Saint Louis dungeon will remain. In Chicago, I will be accepting sessions at the wonderful Apex Media Chicago.

If desire a one hour session or a vibe similar to my heavy bondage front room, I also have the lovely option of Chicago Dungeon rentals.

Like many wonderful Dominatrices including my mentor Suzanna D’Arcy, Friend and owner of fabulous NY Rubber studio, Ariana Chevalier and Wonderful Vinyl Queen – there comes a time when our well-being, quality of life and life balance becomes important.

So many community groups and organizations had their events meeting sand parties there. Life-stylers and Professionals were provided with a safe, female owned and focused space with no drama or judgement – the first of its kind in Chicago.

Let me share a few of the groups that called my Studio home over the years:

Chicago Clubfem

Black beat – one of the first BIPOC groups formed in Chicago, run by my friend Ms Lash

Chicago ABDL group

Chicago Foot Parties

Vespertine

Rough Play group

TNGC Chicago

I have been proud to facilitate the local Chicago community and nationwide by hosting so many wonderful educational workshops, from my mentor Suzanne D’Arcy’s last class, Lee Harrington’s weekend, Kink Academy, 7 days of Domination and Mistress Chiaki’s Shibari classes, to name a few.

I have provided a safe home for numerous fellow Prodommes over the years, opening my doors in friendship and education.  There have been many wonderful touring Dommes visit me at my Chicago space, from my work wife Elena De Luca, Vinyl Queen, Irene Boss, Helene Locke, Sky Terrapin, Goddess Nyx and many more.

My space would not have become the welcoming, open space it is without all of you. So many hot scenes, transformative sessions, moving connection within the Studio’s walls. Oh, if the next tenant only knew!

            You will be able to still enjoy over 30 years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans

 I will be doing a retrospective blog of all the amazing, intense times I had in this studio and my others. I’ve been in front of some type of camera for the last 30 years so my catalog of images is extensive. Here is a treat of a few of my favorite scenes from last 3 years :

Saran Wrapped Pride clown

Suspended rubber gimp

Easter BDSM scene

Latex Mistress Simone with her demon sub

Rubber balloon Slaves

Please continue to read for timnext steps.

While  the time line can fluctuate, I estimate my current Chicago studio is now closed for sessions. REPEAT for the 1000th time: I AM NOT RETIRING> Myself and my bondage gear will be available for sessions at ApexMediaChicago and Chicago Dungeon Rentals.

My gear and equipment : Again, let me clarify this before it gets asked: I AM NOT CLOSING DOWN FOR GOOD – THEREFORE I AM KEEPING A GOOD PORTION OF MY GEAR AND DUNGEON FURNITURE. As my Saint Louis space is still open a few pieces and some of the gear from Chicago will go there. Some of it will also be going with me to Apex Media for use in my sessions there. I will still be fully equipped for all our mutual fetishes like heavy bondage, medical fetish, CBT and more.

I have not decided at this point whether or not I will open another public BDSM studio in Chicago. The main reasons I have decided to close my current space are the insane traffic and my current building condition.  If you’ve been to my studio within the last 10 years, you know the condition of the building has deteriorated, especially my leaky ceiling. I have reached the end of my patience with it.

While this is a huge change for Myself and those I sessions with, it will minimize my stress thus allowing me to relax and develop better connections with you when we session. It will be nice to have less stress and focus on our mutual interests instead of managing a space and its issues.

I do not know the emotions it will bring except bittersweet, sad and happy all at once. What I am putting forth here is the factual information of my decision. If you have a desire to reach out to chat, let me know your studio memories and how I and my spaces have created a difference in your life, please do! I would love to hear them, especially for my upcoming book I will be writing.

I can be reached of course here via my website , all my socials and my email

My Happy place!

DUNGEON SALE (completed!):

There will be a dungeon sale but it will of gear I want to go to a good home, gear I do not use often or items  that do not fit me. Items will range from dungeon furniture, impact toys, medical fetish items, dungeon supplies, vanilla furniture, shoes, latex clothing and more. Date is October 25th and 26th  more details via my social media accounts: X, Fetlife, Facebook and Instagram.  There will be  an industry only sale day on October 25th then Sunday, October 26th will be open to public. The public sale will require a 10$ donation to attend, of which all will be donated to SWOP.

October 25th -Industry ONLY sale 1-8pm Please be a verifiable professional. If you do not know the Studio address, please email me at chicagomistress@gmail.com

October 26th – Community open sale  1-7pm $10 SWOP donation due at door. No donation – no entry Studio address will be given to you via email if you do not know it. My email is chicagomistress@gmail.com

I will also be posting some items for sale via Facebook, Fetlife ,Ebay and Poshmark.

When I walk out the door for the final time, it will be with a sad heart but a full, happy and satisfied one. Knowing I did the best I could to make our kink world a little safer, happier and weirder. I hope you will continue to share in the next chapter of my Domination journey with me at Apex Media for Chicago sessions.

 You will be able to still enjoy over 30+ years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans.

                             As well as new scenes and clips as I get accustomed to Apex Media Chicago for my new adventures.

Thank you ever so much for trusting me with your kinks, fetishes and perversions. I look forward to this new leg of my Domination journey.

Warmly,  ChicagoMistress AKA Mistress Simone AKA Ma’am 

P.S. Watch for the Retrospective Blog showcasing some of the fantastic scenes, events, fellow Professionals and submissives I’ve had the honor and pleasure of meeting over my career.

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Chicago Mistress in Paris 2023

  My ultimate wish list!

• I am a born and raised Chicagoan. It is my city.
• My first dominant memory was age 5 when I made the neighbor boy ride me around on the back of his tricycle.
• I started professional domination  in 1993 -Yes I have proof!
• Trained for 2 years in a house with other Mistresses. We shared skills and worked together – currently I am engaging in mentoring developing Sex Workers on Dominatrix skill sets. Inquire via my email.
• Opened my first solo dungeon in 1995, north-side of Chicago. I have had 4 independent , private BDSM studios with my last studio location being 17 years.
• Longest running independent Mistress in Chicago. I have  never taken a break, never semi-retired or month off unless it was by design. The first time I didn’t work at real-life sessions was during COVID.
• I plan on accepting sessions as long as submissives and perverts desire to experience my skills. Translation – I’m NOT RETIRING!

Let me treat you to some BLASTS FROM THE PAST :

Latex Military Mistress 2012

Chicago Mistress in her Boystown dungeon Circa 2008 with bound female submissive

Kneel before Me – Chicago Mistress 2017

NYC shoot 2015

   More Vintage dominatrix timeline pictures will be on My upcoming blog on my humble Mistress beginnings

Over the years I have enjoyed owning some wonderful slaves. Thank you to all of them who have made me the Mistress I am today. I treasure each and everyone of you who wore my collar and still do. Owning you has been one of the true blessings of my life. I have lost some of you to the ravages of time. Others have grown beyond our connection and moved into other desires. I hope with all of you, I have enhanced your lives as you enhanced mine, even if we parted ways. Those I am still blessed to own ,thank you for being mine. It is my pleasure. Let’s grow old together!

Even if we only played once or a few times, I hope I am in your mind and memory. I love leaving permanent threads in your psyche. Now is the time to get back in my attention, or just say “Thank you”

For new submissives who desire to session, serve and/or submit , I am opening my roster this year! To learn how to start on the journey with me, visit my Sessions page then fill out my application.

A gift from this list or my personal website Wishlist would get my attention. I also have an Amazon list as I know it is easier for many.

Mistress Simone in thigh high boots New York City Circa 2009

The best gifts IMO are experiences, travel and security. Enhancing Mistress’s life in one of these manners would be the perfect gift for my anniversary. Some of the ways to do so are :

Gift cards are accepted for any of the above. Please send them to my email or visit my Throne wishlist

Chicago Mistress Baby Domme 1999 with her slavegirl R taken for Paul C fetish catalog

That said, there are some lovely tokens I would enjoy receiving and wearing/using for years to come:

In the Bondage arena, ultimate items would like:

Shibari Domme @2017

For my personal enjoyment and pleasure, these items would make me smile:

Gothic Mistress 2009

How to present/deliver a gift:

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Remembrance

His favorite thing to do was discuss Gilbert and Sullivan musicals while we played tic-tac-toe with a scalpel on his chest. We would play for hours remotely while he burned and cut himself under my orders while we listened to musicals and opera. And now he is gone. He wouldn’t let me see him at the end, afraid to do so. Now I grieve alone for a soul I was intimate with , in ways people outside our community would not understand.
Let me define what I mean by intimate here. I don’t only mean sexual activities.
As they say : “Anyone can fuck.”  To reach another deeply and energetically is profound and rare. Providing a space for another to let down their barriers, toss off societal conventions and be comfortable sharing their unique perversions is the most intimate we can be with each other. So many hide behind the facade of what is expected by society, family, career or religion. When you engage with a SW worker, fantasy comes to the forefront and even with a simple encounter, the world falls away and it s just you and her in the moment. What makes us good at our chosen path is the ability to let others into our space to be vulnerable, connect and let go while we still maintain our own self-space.
One of the saddest aspects of this path is sometimes not knowing what happens to our submissives. We are contextual for some, regardless of the intimacy we provide. For those rare few, we develop long relationships ,tying into each other’s lives.  It’s like a door is slammed shut and we are not allowed inside to share in the grieving process. So instead we must learn to cope and celebrate the life of them in our own way. Whether its through talking about it with fellow Dommes, reviewing the intense times you had, or memorializing their toys or collar -somehow we must cope. It’s a strange and solo kind of grief – being so connected yet so removed.
As Mistress Shayla Lange said : “It’s so hard to lose someone like that, without having the grieving and sharing stories/memories together with others who knew them brings.” It has changed some now with the advent of social media where we can reach out and share our stories and experiences with others that may have felt same. Before this, we were often left guessing whether they just lost interest or died. Often we would eventually find an obituary, or a family member would run across something about us and contact us in anger or despair – but usually not.

Over the years I have had at least 5 close submissives pass away. Some I received notice ,most I did not. They just disappeared. What made it worse in a few cases was that we had been in communication up to the end. I knew they were ill. One was an unexpected suicide.
In most cases the next communication after death was met with silence or a family member responding in one of 2 ways : angry or confused.

I want to share my experiences with you for a few reasons :
1. Its about time the myth of the uncaring Dominatrix is dispelled. We care very deeply. We develop bonds. We share experiences at the deepest level of connection.
2. For those younger Sex-workers just starting, I want to provide insight into this issue and hopefully provide some advice how to deal with it.
3. Let those subs who are connected with us know that we do experience grieve and loss when they leave us, and to possibly help a few set up a system for letting their Domme know.
4. Sharing my experiences will be cathartic for me, and hopefully help someone in same situation. I know, I know – its not the sexy fetish pics you want to see on a Mistress’s site or the information on how she will humiliate you. And if that is all you seek, we are not well matched. I I want your vulnerability, your pain, your tears, your humor  and your angst, in short- the real you.

So to my 5…

(before you get all huffy, all these names have been changed to protect identity OR the sub was out in the lifestyle. I would NEVER disrespect a client’s right to privacy.)

Nick : In my dungeon there are 3 pieces  I refuse to get rid of no matter how often they get used or how out of date they look. I may eventually move them to my private space but for now they remind me of who made them out of service and devotion. When I was a younger Domme I ran a well known Chicago BDsm club know as the Leather Rose now the LRA. I had my own play-space in the back, called the Annex. In front we had a retail store for fetish wear and gear. Nick came into the store one afternoon, then another , and another, etc. We chatted and got to know each other. He shared his submissive desires with me. Eventually he would offer to fix something for me around club. He would bring me coffee or lunch. Then he graduated to club nights,being there to help me set up and be security. I knew his personal life situation. We would session every so often but more so he was of service. When I needed new pieces for my space, he offered to build. He built a gorgeous cherry stained cross and whipping post. The post still gets much love today, and every time I use it , I feel his spirit.

Whipping post- ignore the meat

Nick helped me put on local fetish fashion shows at various Chicago clubs including Aftermath. He played my naughty Santa.
He taught me how to dive, giving me one of the greatest gifts of my life. We went to Hell and back, literally hell in the Grand Caymans. I swam with sting rays, did night dives. His wife and I became co-Mistresses. I met his daughter.
For years I had pushed him to watch his diet, eat better ,exercise. Stubborn as he was, my orders didn’t help. He came down with diabetes. Eventually it made him less able to come around. We kept in touch but he didn’t come around as often. Eventually I stopped seeing him. This was before the internet so I couldn’t text. We didn’t really email either. I called a few times and wife would say he was busy. About six months later, a community friend told me he passed away. I wasn’t invited to funeral because family didn’t want to explain me. I was crushed. He was my first loss. Till this day , I feel sad in not being able to say good-bye. Its why I keep the cross, post and memories.

Diverbob: My sweet soul who lost his will to live. When I first met my bob, he came to me for a cathartic session. He was a fellow diver, much more experienced than me. We bonded over this love. He traveled extensively so he would share the dives he did with me.Tiger sharks were his favorites,even though he knew it made me nervous. He would present me with small gifts from his travels when we sessioned. He eventually moved away but we kept in touch. I will not go into details but life changed for him, and he tried his best to cope but couldn’t. Then there was a long period of no communication.I grew worried so I sent an email which was the way we kept in touch – nothing unusual. I received an reply from his daughter letting me know he had made the choice to leave us.She had gotten my email and wanted to let me know. She found our correspondence while going through his things-(HINT!!!) When my email came through , she felt I should know. She wrote a very kind letter thanking me for making her dad’s life richer. I still have it.
It is important to note this is not the norm. Most often, we are left to wonder or contacted by  an angry and/or upset family.

Janette: One of my first sissies. We played dress up for over 20 years. Shared love of exotic cars, always brought me a gift for myself or my partner to do with cars. As kinksters age, the desire can stay strong but the ability to participate may not. Janette had numerous health problems we worked through to still be able to play. As the Mistress, it is my job to make sure the ones in my care stay safe when together. She started having longer break between sessions. Said she wasn’t sure could do it anymore. Interest waned. Her health got worse. Eventually my emails and texts went unanswered. Disappeared. I can only assume the worse. I won’t go looking for an obit.

D: He was an old friend from my Leather Rose days. We had played casually back then as he was a heavy masochist while I’m a heavy sadist- perfect match! He had a hard time find people to beat him hard enough. We kept in touch through emails and Fetlife.He knew my personal life and I knew his. he was very private though so I respected his desires (as a good Sex-worker should). Then he decided to come for a session. Grew close. He would spend the afternoon in my dungeon, fixing things for me, making sure it was in working order. I would beat him, he would fix things. I knew he had other play partners as he was a switch. But he was my pain slut. I was his sadist. More friends than Mistress/slave.He always said if he had his pants on, he didn’t have to behave. My partner loved his energy with me. They would spend time in the dungeon just hanging, fixing things,chatting. One day, he came in and told me we had to talk. He had found out he had cancer. My heart fell. He started treatment. We kept in touch. He would tell me his progress. Treatment was successful, we returned to our beatings and fixings. Then it came back…he fought hard but eventually from what I can guess, lost his battle. We kept in touch while fighting it again, then one day the texts just stopped. After a few months, I texted the number I had which was safe to communicate. I got back one sentence : “No Dale here.” My partner from time to time will look at me , tell me that he has pants on so doesn’t have to listen. I smile and remember my painslut.

Burning Man: My Opera & Musical loving heavy painslut. He came to me after years of knowing each other once again from the old days. He had never found anyone that was comfortable with his extreme interests. On suggestion of a mutual friend who knew of my sadism, he came for a session. Finally he found someone who would accept him and his desires. I thoroughly loved our severity. Even in all that, he was one of the gentlest souls I ever knew. Smart as hell – loved math. Would go into long diatribes about physics – which I would only understand 1/3. We both love musicals and operas so our relationship expanded to include both. He would treat me to season tickets. Opera, dinner then play. If he was unable to go into city due to health, I would go over to his home,(the only person I ever did outcall for). We would watch a musical on TV then play. I knew his other play partners as he was a switch. As his health deteriorated, he put in place communication between us so I wouldn’t be left in dark if something happened to him. When Covid hit, we took our play remote. Via text we would have long threads about musicals , politics ,etc – all while I instructed his masochism. It helped keep us connected, also not go crazy being locked inside. He never felt comfortable enough with his health to return to the dungeon. December 2022, he was scheduled for hip surgery. He informed me that after he healed he was coming back in person. Both of us were excited. It is so much better to see you bleed in person! I waited to hear from him. Late February I received a text from his other partner letting me know he had entered hospice. He didn’t feel comfy seeing anyone so we respected his wishes. Then I got the text letting me know he had passed. No word on memorial or if we would be welcome. His small collection of impact toys will come to me. Each time I use one, I will remember him. Every opera season I will attend one and keep an empty seat besides me in his memory.

Closure is something we do not often get as Sex workers. At times, we can share with others who played or knew our submissive. If we have friends or partners that knew them it can help in the grief. Often we must find a way to say “Farewell” on our own.them with others to keep them in your heart.

We can do this in many ways but some that I have found helpful are :

• Keeping their collar or cuffs, something to remind you of the connection
• Performing a farewell ceremony or ritual to honor them
• Placing something they cherished or gave you in your studio, dungeon
• Share stories of them with fellow Sex Workers who may need to share memories of them.
• Doing the things you did with them , such as the opera.

I have found this article helpful for processing my grief

It bears to mention , this is a 2 way street. For those that see, serve and care for us – if we disappear they can feel same as we do and grieve.
I have no final words of wisdom to make this easier to process. It is an individual journey we each must take. The only thing I can say is to remember those we connect and care for in a way that honors their uniqueness.
I hope mine will do the same for me.

MS-

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It is almost my birthday – and no you can’t ask how many!  Let’s just say 2025 is a milestone year in Mistress’s journey.

I do not believe age defines us. Ageism is a construct placed on society to create unrealistic beauty expectations AKA “lookism” on women and keep the billion dollar cosmetic industry funded. A mature Dominatrix has the skill to take you safely beyond where you feel you can go, to create your perfect scenario within her realm and to control your submission for her pleasure.

Elegance is timeless

Perfect time of year for a birthday – outdoor venues are open, summer festivals starting and my birthday – June 26th. Not too hot , but sunny and bright ( I’m not talking about me!)

 My Sun sign is Cancer  which supposedly means I’m maternal and nurturing – I’ve heard this said by some of my submissives after I administer their spankings! Apparently I need to hit them harder.

Look nurturing to you?  I don’t think so!

I share June 26th, the day with some other kick-ass women :  Babe Didrikson, Patty Smyth and Silver Screen actress Eleanor Parker. What great company for my birthday!

                                                                                                              Birthday Week Sessions:

I never session on my birthday unless a submissive makes it worth my while. Sessions before and after my day can be booked via sessions page.

I enjoy sessioning the week before my birthday, creating some special bondage scenes with you! Here are a few of my favorites in the past :

Amazon delivery!

All wrapped up for my birthday! Saran Wrapped slave

Rubber bondage birthday

My most desired gifts in 2025 are Monthly Self care, Experiences and Travel

Self care is very important in my life – as it should be in your life especially if you are dedicated in service to me. I like my subs to be in good health and able to keep up with me. Your assignment to this end is to listen to my podcast on self care. It will provide you with insight into what your Mistress needs in this area.

  My self care may be enhanced via monthly contributing to my beauty regime via  my Throne wishlist, my PayPal if you are privileged , tributes to cover via my online fan-sites or gift cards to my established places of self-care:

• Face & Body Spa
• Aire Ancient Baths
• Kings Spa

      Blush Spa 

 Visa giftcards  to cover such gifts may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com

                                                    Experiences include a wide range of things from gourmet dinners, art museums, operas, theater and concerts. I would love to share these with you or know you                                         gifted me a lovely such event. My tastes run a very wide gambit from classical music, musical theater, electronic festivals and metal concerts.

 A few of my favorite venues to attend are :

Lyric Opera

Chicago Symphony

Fox theater Saint Louis

Rave venue Milwaukee

                                                  Travel : I do love seeing our big, beautiful world. And would enjoy seeing it with a dedicated submissive who I can torment when we are not sight seeing. We can travel to exotic destinations together , kinky all the way. FMWY (Fly Me with you) are reserved for those I see regularly.  I am also open to FMTY ( Fly Me to you) for sessioning and sightseeing. Visit my sessions page for more FMTY details.  Destinations on Mistress’s wish list:

Disneyland Toyko

Bali 

Grand Canyon

Belize

Chicago Mistress in Paris

                                                                                                          My top five gifts for this big birthday are:

       1.  Covering my daily coffee for this year. Make sure Mistress starts every day off perky.

2. Monthly massage. I am attempting to consider my self-care, and as my submissive, you should always consider Mistress’s well being. Best way to cover this is via my THRONE.

3. This lovely Cartier ring. With a milestone birthday, every Mistress should receive a special piece of jewelry.

4. Cooking classes at the Chopping block in Chicago. I love to cook. It de-stresses my mind just like creating intense bondage scenes do.

5. Trip to Japan. It is my dream destination esp with Disneyland being there. You can create a FMWY, or cover part of my trip via THRONE or American airline gift cards.

                                                                              Showing Your Appreciation on my birthday or year round:

There are other ways to gift to Mistress on her special date and year round.

You can make my month or year more enjoyable by tipping for drinks or dinner via my online platforms :

Sextpanther

Loyalfans

                                                                                                                                                                    Throne

While I do love my fetish wear such as boots, corsets and gloves, I have amassed quite a collection over the last 32 years. I expand my fetish wardrobe with items from a few of my favorite high-end fetish stores such as  Northbound, Libidex or Demask

                                                         I love my dark and spooky clothes too so a gift card to any of these sites will dress my curves to entice you : Killstar , Foxblood and Midnight Hour.

I am well known as a gear whore especially heavy leather and rubber. Add to my collection with a gift from one of my favorite shops:

Studio Gum       Current Pleasures         Mr. S

Enfettered      Fetters  

Want to be the slave who gets to see me in the new latex you gifted me? The slave who gets to be first in my new gear?

                                                              Then send a gift tribute  via my Throne wishlist  or a gift card to my email  from any of these sites to and make both of us happy for my birthday!

Want to partially contribute to my care, travel or a high end designer piece? Throne is the way to gift partially to one. MISTRESS’S THRONE

My  Amazon wishlist  has a variety of  gift choices in a price range from 10$ to 500$. It will enable all who desire to please me to choose something enjoy within their desired price range. . As I have said many times on social media and IRL, the size of the gift is not important. it is the thought and energy that went into choosing it.

                                                       Need to send a vanilla gift? Want to dress your Mistress for dinners and trips with you? Then send a electronic gift card to my email from on of my favorite retailers:

                            Alexander McQueen  Sephora  Jo Malone    Tiffany     Rituals      Louboutin

Chicago Shiny Mistress

                                              So now that you have some idea of what I may enjoy receiving, let me tell you a few things I do not enjoy or only specific brands:

I am not big on flowers – I would rather see then thriving in the soil alive and vibrant. Plants however are welcome. I enjoy them in my environments.

Chocolate unless its White and Gourmet particularly Vosges

Wine . While I love wine my collection is quite full right now unless it is a rare vintage or a bottle of my favorite champagne Veuve Clicquot Rose Champagne

                                Scotch and  Bourbon. I do love my whiskey and scotch but tend to be specific on what bottles I desire. If you ask, I will make a desired suggestion for you to avoid duplication.

Over the years I have been a very lucky Mistress with some fantastic slaves gifting me lovely items.

Some of my favorites so far :

1. CBT bondage chair from my irisihlicks:  A deliciously evil reclining CBT chair has arrived thanks to my slave.
2. Car : back in the early 2000s, I had a car accident and totaled my beloved Thunderbird. My live-in female slave at the time gifted me a new grand Prix to make sure Mistress could get back and forth to the dungeon. She saw a need – and handled it. What I consider service. From taking care of my daily coffee to making sure I have what I need.
3. Erostek from my footslut Jack. My old one fizzled out, and he replaced it much to his regret, lol!
4. Mini Bose Speaker from my sissy brenna for my Saint Louis dungeon. When I was opening my space in Saint Louis, I needed a way to play music simply. I did not want a full blown , over-sized stereo. She gifted me the perfect speaker which I still use to this day.
5.  A framed needlepoint of my beloved kitty, Re who passed a few years ago. Hand done by my girl Marie and helped by My other girl ,Maribeth. The love that went into such a tender gift makes it so much more special. It now hangs in my Chicago bedroom.
6.  My Tiffany necklace and bracelet from long time slave, Terry. I wear both regularly.
7. Doxy wand from my nerd slave  D. Make sure your Mistress is able to get pleasure whenever she desires, without dealing with another human. Plus the Buckaroo Banzi sequel.
8.                            Self-care gift of monthly maincure/pedicure from my subgirl Jessica. Continual service as a gift goes above and beyond in service.

These are only a few of the thoughtful and amazing gifts I have received across my career. I am a truly blessed Mistress. Thank you to all who have sent or given a gift over the years. Thinking of my desires and needs, then choosing to provide is a sign of  your devotion and service. Every time I look at or use one of these items, I recall the sweet submissive(s) who gave it to me.

Worship is allowed when Mistress desires

 While I appreciate gifts and spoiling me, it is never expected. I acknowledge and appreciate all tokens, regardless of cost or size. In this area, I really do mean, “It is the thought that counts”.

Thinking of your Mistress and her needs shows your service and devotion. A 20$ Starbucks card is just as appreciated as a 2,000$ pair of Louboutin heels – neither of which I wouldn’t enjoy!

All gift-cards may be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com

My Throne is the best way to send a gift I desire.

 If you do see me during my birthday month, be diligent and review my wishlist before you show up at my door. Tormenting you will be the icing on my celebration.

Even if you can’t see me on my special date, you can show your devotion with a tribute or gift. I will tell you other items that will place a smile on my face in this blog.

If you are in my personal stable or a regular, a gift for special occasions is customary. One not dedicated to remembering their Mistress’s birthday will be noted.

 If you read this blog after my special day, do note that it holds true all year round. Gifts are accepted and appreciated at all times.

If I will be seeing you for a session around this time, consider an outing for dinner and shopping. Even if we are not scheduled for playtime, I do love my outings.

                    Dinner and/or drinks after our session, or if desiring to serve and conversation prior to play- consider scheduling a social date. Keep in mind, prior to sessioning with me, tribute is required.

Chicago’s Queen Dominatrix Simone

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Chicago Mistress’s New and Improved  Website

Hello! Welcome to my first major Chicago Mistress website update in 10 years. I am very excited to share my new look and updated information with you. It has been far too long since a fresh look!

The changes and new protocol within the site will let you discover if we are a good match for sessioning. The updated protocol reflects my experience and skill over my 25+ years as a Professional Dominatrix. It will help you assess if we would enjoy playing together plus inform you of what I desire and enjoy. My main kink is control but you can learn about my specialties here.

Desire to learn more about me overall – what motivates my Dominance, the type of submissive I enjoy, then read my About page.

Chicago Prodomme in her dungeon

Some of the wonderful additions besides updated images of your Mistress are:

Did you know I have a podcast?

FEMME DOMME Mystique podcast episodes :

Did you know I have a podcast focused on the Female Dominance power dynamic? It has been around for 10 years and can be found on multiple platforms including Spotify , Iheart radio ,Youtube , Audible

It has some wonderful interviews with fellow Dominatrices and lifestyle kinksters including Ava Zhang, Miranda Middleton AKA The Bondage Mistress and Queen Ariana Chevalier of NYC Rubber studio fame.

Episodes also include Mistress’s rants on topics which she feels need to be discussed and latest trends in kink. One of my favorite episodes is on 50 Shades of Grey when it came out.

Of course you can listen to ALL the episodes right here on my Femme Domme Mystique Podcast page!

Other Features you will now find on site:

NEW session intake form – updated for those serious in serving. I have fine-tuned my protocol to better suit Myself and you in determining our chemistry. I seek those who sincerely desire to play and engage in our mutual kinks. One does not need to be submissive to see me but you do need to be respectful of my role.

I will not switch or submit – not in my nature. We can enjoy a relaxed fetish focused time together but do not disrespect me.

BLOG on topics ranging from my mindset as a Professional and lifestyle Dominatrix to my thoughts on specific kinks and fetishes.

. For over 20 years I have been educating on kin, fetishism and BDSM. My writings on my blog include class lectures such as my Vamp Play class I just did for 7DOD

NEWS page covering my adventures as a prodomme, the events I attend , my touring and travel dates

REVIEWS from years past to present. These will enable you to get a sense of how I play with my submissives in my scenes

LOOK page for those who desire to gaze upon Mistress’s elegance and Dominance. For completely current images , you will need to visit my Loyalfans, Sextpanther and social Media pages

Details on both my  Kink Studio spaces – Chicago and Saint Louis

Off site ways to find more about Mistress

I like to support other lifestyle and kink sites that I find engaging, authentic and education – or just carry cool stuff!

Not sure if you know but your Mistress is a published author with articles on sites such as Fearless Press and Kinkly

Also I wrote a book on one of my favorite means of control – Chastity.  It can be hard to find but last I checked  “The Toybag Guide to Chastity” can be found on BooksaMillion

Shiny Mistress in her Saint Louis bdsm studio

My educational videos can be found via Kink Academy. For the good stuff though you will need to visit my Clips4sale store. While I am not a video clip Mistress, I do enjoy filming with friends and doing instructional clips. You my also purchase my clips on my Loyalfans

I know there are some of you out there who just desire the devotional material for you to worship so for you, there is my photo gallery.

Not enough pictures for you? Well then you must tribute for more via Loyalfans, Niteflirt or Sextpanther.

I do hope you enjoy the new website while learning more about Me. Read the reviews, peruse the blog and oogle the pictures – then when ready fill out my contact form to visit the real thing!

Take the step! Schedule your session here

Desire a conversation to see if we are compatible? I have a number of platforms available for us to chat and see if we are well-matched

Sextpanther

Loyalfans

Niteflirt

Chicago Mistress – Elegant,Mature and Skilled

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