Moto clad vinyl Mistress

After the usual initial pleasantries and catching up, Ma’am commanded me to strip and lie down upon the blue bondage table in Her dungeon. Despite being October, we had once again failed to plan ahead an appropriate Halloween “concept” for the session, so a basic Mad Scientist-slash-Creature-slash-electricity-“It’s Alive!” concept was hastily hashed out. Despite it being LOCK-tober, She unlocked the cage on Her property, as it would be the thing primarily receiving most of the previously mentioned electricity. (Mistress note: Regardless of the month, your worthless cock is my property. To do with as I wish – which will never be to touch me.)

Blindfolded within my snug leather hood, there was little else I could do but drift as Halloween themed music played on the speaker. Ma’am encased both of my hands in thick leather mittens and suspended them from above via green bungee cords – green being the apparent color of the day. My head was then placed in a restrictive paramedic … rescue worker ? box and strapped down securely and once my ankles were secure, She shifted Her focus to the area between my legs and soon I felt the familiar pulsating sting of an electrical current around the cock.(Mistress note : E- stim is a favorite CBT activity of mine. I love treating you like my own personal science experiment.)

Some unfortunate issues revolving around an anal probe followed, resulting in first a vibrator and ultimately a second plug being shoved up inside of me and it wasn’t long before I was buzzing in two extremely sensitive regions.(Mistress note: Always be prepared for oopsies! Things happen in real time sessions that can not be edited out as in video clips? If you saw our bloopers!)

As my nipples had gone relatively unmolested until then, Ma’am decided to compensate by attaching three clamps to each, each clamp bearing a particularly strong grip. My only solace was that She decided against hooking the clamps up to the frame above me via additional bungee cords, but She did opt to connect them to my uselessly dangling hands, cautioning me more than once not to move around too much. Mistress note: Placing you in your own body predicament bondage position delights me to no end. Using your own flesh against itself is a huge turn-on for me.)

Pleased with the suffering I was enduring for Her, Ma’am then opted to indulge Her artistic side, wrapping me up with green cling film. She was happily in Her element which almost made my clamped, plugged and shocked condition endurable. For a while, anyway.

Eventually She seemed satisfied with Her work and declared that She wanted to take pictures of Her creation. But before that, She went to retrieve another toy, leaving me to float in mounting torment. In time, She found what She wanted. It wasn’t until later that I saw that they were long, vicious claw appendages to place over Her fingers. All I knew was that suddenly very sharp things were being dragged across my flesh and very sharp, pokey things were jabbing into parts of me that were already beginning to wear down from the relentless crush. ( Wearing you down so all your barriers fall – that is when your true training begins for me.)

Since I still had one hole not being used for Ma’am’s entertainment, She removed a few of the claws and slid Her leather gloved fingers into my mouth. First one, then two, shoving them deep. It’s become one of my favorite aspects of our time together – when She… invades my body. Using it. Claiming it. (Making your body mine is key to ownership of all of you. First step – body, next step – mind, Final step – soul.)

Choke on this, my sub!

I could have gone on with Her violating my mouth until the end of the session, but there were pictures to take. Having been shown them today, the day after, once Her property was already locked away again and unavailable, I am keenly brought to mind of the irony of my situation. I enjoyed the company of a goddess yesterday, a radiant, profane goddess, but the price was to sacrifice my freedom to truly indulge myself to Her beauty. ( Your freedom is an illusion, granted only by Mistress when she desires.)

Still, all good things and all that. The moment passed, She began to undo all Her handiwork as I became increasingly aware that more than just electrodes had been applied to my groin. But first, the fiendish devices that had been chomping on my poor nipples had to come off. The pain was staggering. Ma’am immediately lent a helping hand by forcefully massaging the blood flow back into the area while I howled. Then off came the clamps down below, their nasty bite initially masked by the electrics. (Nipple play is one of my favorite activities! I love digging my long nails into the soft flesh.)

Last to come off was the blindfold. I was then free to sit up and begin moving my body once again, but my respite was short lived for I was soon leaning up against the same table as Ma’am began indulging her penchant for impact play – first a  whip across my shoulders followed up by a series of heavy paddles across my butt.

Then She said the words: “Turn around!”

There is some debate as to whether or not I muttered a certain curse under my breath, but it only took a few strokes to my poor, brutalized nipples and I unquestioningly screamed: “Mercy!” ( my slave has such sensitive flesh knobs! I am working on increasing his ability to handle more for me.)

Not missing a beat, Ma’am altered the vector of Her whip to up between my legs before eventually having me turn back round to resume Her assault against my backside. I didn’t last long before crying for “Mercy!” again. (Such a sweet word when you give in to me.)

We had discussed before the session began that being the middle of “Locktober” I would not receive an orgasm.  It was my suggestion and to some extent, I do regret opening my big, stupid mouth. But in other, fundamental ways, not so much. Days like this, after we’ve had our fun and I’ve been permitted to cum and then be sent back to my little life… this is usually when I feel the least submissive. It’s like we’ve just been playing a game… or it was just a dream (I referred to it as “Narnia” in the past) But today, after a long, intense session which focused primarily on Her interests and ended with me sent home and locked up with no immediate hope for release… it feels VERY real.( When it becomes real in your mind, I control you.)

But we weren’t even done. Not just yet.

Saint Louis Domme and her leather gimp

Ma’am had me sit in a chair while She attached one final set of electrical toys to my body, This time the testicles. She did not spare the batteries, either.

As wave after wave of intense, agony surged though my body, She made me look Her in Her beguiling hazel eyes, demanding: “WHO owns you?” “WHO owns ALL of you?” while punctuating each question with a not-entirely-gentle slap to my face. To make things worse, She handed me Her Hitachi magic wand (the secret weapon of Mistress and prodommes worldwide), repeatedly ordering it turned on and off as I jammed it into the cock whose ownership there was no question.  All while She toyed with the intensity of the electrics, frying the bits below. She let me stroke Her bare foot. She rubbed Her breasts in my face. Worst of all, She turned around and ground Her magnificent bottom into me as I cried in pain and shouted “YOU! YOU! YOU OWN ME, MISTRESS SIMONE!” over and over again. (Using my attributes that you will never be allowed to have to tease and torment you delights me!)

Her point made, the torture ceased. She graciously consented to sit on me, allowing me contact with Her bottom, about which I have spun so many fantasies for Her amusement, one last time. (Subs may get rewarded after taking what I desire to administer to them in session. As my slave has an ass fetish, rewarding him with a small worship keeps him well-behaved between our play sessions.)

Then it was time to clean up. She told me that I did well and that She had a good time, two things I am always very happy to hear. Sadly, schedules did not permit a meal afterwards, so we made our way to our cars, hugged, and went our separate ways. ( I do love an after session social time with my slaves. It allows the control to continue in a mundane setting. Power exchange continues to grow.)

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FemDom Royalty Magazine

FemDom Royalty Publication

  The Revival of the Domme Magazine! Much needed and desired by the community. Vibes of DDI but for our current times.

 One of our own and best saw a need, and decided to go for it. Or do I dare say,saw a hole and filled it- as we do! LOL!

The esteemed Lady Bellatrix is editor-in-chief, publisher and designer extraordinaire aimed to put forth something we have been missing for a number of years now:

A quarterly print magazine and lifestyle blog focusing on Female Domination and Supremacy.

Combining her fifteen years’ experience as a Dominatrix and previous decade long career as a published columnist in the UK, this is a female lead platform designed to amplify the voices within the world of Female Domination.  Dedicating a year of development and production to this venture, she poured her heart into developing a classic and polished magazine. She wanted to make it accessible to all so it is available both in print and online.

Some of the features of FemDom Royalty are :

Exclusive Interviews with prestigious Female Dominas around the World. USA, Europe and the World!

Giving voice to a wide variety of Mistress, Dominatrices and Fetishists, FemDom Royalty provides a voice for all female Dominatrices.

Agony Aunt Advice Column featuring yours truly, Mistress Simone of Chicago

Mansplaining – Exclusive interviews with Males involved with the FemDom community

Agony Aunt Column

I was beyond honored to be asked by Lady Bellatrix to be her Agony Aunt. I immediately had Ann Landers flashbacks.

 Immediately accepting the offer, I convened with Lady Bellatrix on what the focus of the column would be, how to approach it and what type of questions would be included. 3-4 per column of questions slaves may have for Female Dominatrices. The goal of the column is to assist those interested in approaching us on the proper way with correct protocol. BDSM advice in general can be all over the place. With the column, I hope to put my 30+ years to good use educating slaves on proper femdom etiquette, how to present oneself, power exchange, fetishism and submission.

We decided on 3-4 questions culled from slave source , per issue.

 Slaves may submit respectful questions via our fan-sites. If one’s question is chosen ,the reward will be recognition and a copy of the magazine their question is featured in. My goal is to receive a wide variety of topics from slaves worldwide.

To pose a question, one may do so via mine or Lady Bellatrix’s fan-sites. While we would love to accept tons of random questions from slaves around the world with no thought to our time and attention, one needs to set standards. To show your respect, authenticity and sincerity to your question, one must submit it via the fan sites.

Mistress Simone‘s fan- sites :

Moto Queen in Vinyl

Loyalfans

Sextpanther

Niteflirt

Lady Bellatrix’s fan-sites

Lady Bellatrix & Mistress Simone

AdultWorks

Sextpanther

Niteflirt

For fellow Dominatrices who would love to be interviewed or contribute, please contact Lady Bellatrix via her website.

Authors, artists and males interested in the mansplaining concept, also contact her via the website.

The premiere Issue is now available!

Issue 1 includes  exclusive interviews with three internationally renowned Dominatrices. Our cover Domme is Domina Silvia of Germany. Also featuring interviews of Mistress Tissa of Philadelphia USA and Mistress Lorraine of Essex, UK. Every issue will have a feature called Mansplaining and our exclusive interview in the inaugural issue is with Jon from Authentically Kinky.

Each issue will also feature reviews of books, events, female owned dungeons as well as members sites all within the Femdom realm. Issue 1 takes a look at Jane Boon’s Bold Strokes, Lady Sara Borgia’s Strap-On Parties, Mistress Justine Cross’ new dungeon Stella Obscura in Los Angeles and the members site of Mistress Jessica Woods of Herefordshire, UK.

Issue 1 is now out and live for purchase and download.

Get your copy here : FemDom Royalty

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Casual, his ass!

 

For a variety of reasons, Ma’am and I decided that July’s time together would be a bit more “casual” than usual. (Well,we started off like that but keep reading , dear readers to see when it flipped) After the customary pleasantries upon arrival at the dungeon, Ma’am ordered me to strip.(Mistress note: Watching my slaves shed their societal wares to bare their self to me is one of my kinks and turn-ons.) Next came the leather hood, collar. After several long weeks, my chastity device was unlocked – though casual or no – as always an orgasm was still far from certain and entirely dependent on how pleased Ma’am was with my performance on this day. ( Your orgasm belongs to me. It is only granted when I am pleased. Orgasm control and keyholder are 2 things I enjoy engaging in.

Firstly, I was sent to stand in the bondage wall corner. She attached some clothespins to my nipples and cuffs were buckled around my wrists and ankles and subsequently fastened to the wall. Ma’am then concocted an additional twist by securing my collar to the wall as well, forcing me to hold as still as I could muster, lest I choke myself. (I do love my predicament bondage.)

Saint Louis Mistress with her slave

Both facing a corner, as well as being blindfolded, I could only hear the various rattling and clinking as Ma’am gathered various twisted implements for Her amusement. I never really knew what was about to hit me – literally – until, well, it did. Ma’am has often expressed a certain disappointment that in our phone sessions, I do not strike myself with quite the ferocity that She prefers, so She more than makes up for it when we are together. At some point, additional clothespins were added to my nipples as well. (The more clothespins and clamps ,the better.) Eventually, She rounded up six of Her favorites and informed me that in honor of Her recent birthday, I would receive ten strokes from each. Although not specifically instructed to, I called off – or yelped in many cases – the count as a means of getting through the experience. In the end, She was apparently quite pleased with the bruises She wrought, rewarding me with long, sensual scratches down my back.

It was then time to move to another position. Now I was on the floor, at Her feet, one of my favorite places to be. She told me to worship Her boots which I did so happily and eagerly. I make a point of ensuring the soles are properly cleaned (the heels were a bit too chunky to properly suck, but they were licked thoroughly) (Mistress note-I will never make things easy for you. My sadistic pleasure comes before your ease.) before indulging myself with the taste of Her leather. After She was satisfied, She rewarded me yet again by permitting me to then worship Her Goddess backside! I enthusiastically smothered Her bottom in kisses and savored every hungry sniff of Her aroma that I could inhale. She knows this is my biggest fetish and I must have taken my beatings well, indeed, to be so spoiled.

But, alas, nothing lasts forever and all too soon I was transferred to a reclining chair and after tying me down and blindfolding me again, my genitals were wired up and shocked. She also took advantage of this moment to swat my thighs with some implement and reach in and twist and pull my nipples with Her fingers. Presently, She decided my mouth was not being put to sufficient use. First, She slid a dildo in and out, pushing it ever deeper and deeper. A test, no doubt, of my progress on the cock-sucking training I am expected to perform at home in-between serving Her in person. Seemingly satisfied with my progress She switched to having me suck Her leather gloved fingers – again – making certain to twist them in deep. This has rapidly become one of my favorite activities during our sessions. Strap-On play is great – and we would come to that presently – but having an actual, warm, squirming, living part of Her, my Mistress, my owner, inside of me…  It’s powerful stuff.

Leather gloved finger sucking

Following that, I was directed to get up, move to the table and assume “the position.” She placed the previously utilized dildo directly in front of my face and off and on ordered it to be sucked some more. As I complied, She worked my whorish back hole with an electric plug, ramming it up deep inside me while cranking the voltage, which provided the most extreme stimulation of the day. When I couldn’t take it anymore, She finally showed mercy, replacing the plug with Her strap-on and pumping my hole until I finally begged Her to cum, which She graciously gave Her permission.  It was greatly appreciated! (Keep in mind, one will not always gets release from Me. It is only if I am satisfied with your performance.)

 

Pegging Goddess

Though spent, my service was not quite over as I to assist in helping tidy up the dungeon before being permitted to remove my collar and put my clothes on once more.

For what was supposed to be just a casual afternoon, I headed home with a bruised butt and legs of jelly. But as always, dreaming of the next time I would be privileged to enjoy Ma’am’s company again.

Oh, and we also got ice cream. (Mistress note: It’s the only time I enjoy vanilla!) That was fun. Thank You for everything, Ma’am.

Mistress Note:

For those that desire to have something a bit more relaxed while seeing if we mesh for session, I do offer lunch and dinner consultations. Where we can chill, get to know each other and discuss our mutual kinks. For my social consultation information, visit my sessions page.

If you are too far for in person or want to speak on the phone beforehand, my fan-sites are the best way to learn more about Mistress and have a conversation.

Loyalfans

Niteflirt

Sextpanther

 

 

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   I’ve attempted to write this blog now for a month. Starting and stopping numerous times.

It is hard to announce a major change to your life publicly and focus on the clarification of the event. I know this will be the first question many of you will ask, so let’s get it out of the way.

Let me state emphatically : I AM NOT RETIRING. REPEAT – NOT RETIRING!

I am committed to my career and clients. My intent is to continue accepting those both new and experienced that desire to see a mature, skilled Dominatrix with over 30 years of talent. Maturity is hot, after all!

Chicago Shiny Mistress

I have been blessed the last 32 years to do what I truly love – live and share a life of fetishism, kink, and BDSM. I will continue to do so.

I have had my own independent fetish exploration studio in Chicago for 32 years. The current studio had its inception in 2008. This year marks the 17th year you have had the pleasure of sharing my beautiful space with me. I loved creating it, sharing it with both my community and industry. It has been the center of so many beginnings and endings.

However it is time for a different mode of expression and business. With bitter sweetness, I have closed my Chicago studio ONLY. It was a very hard decision but time for a change.

My Saint Louis dungeon will remain. In Chicago, I will be accepting sessions at the wonderful Apex Media Chicago.

If desire a one hour session or a vibe similar to my heavy bondage front room, I also have the lovely option of Chicago Dungeon rentals.

Like many wonderful Dominatrices including my mentor Suzanna D’Arcy, Friend and owner of fabulous NY Rubber studio, Ariana Chevalier and Wonderful Vinyl Queen – there comes a time when our well-being, quality of life and life balance becomes important.

So many community groups and organizations had their events meeting sand parties there. Life-stylers and Professionals were provided with a safe, female owned and focused space with no drama or judgement – the first of its kind in Chicago.

Let me share a few of the groups that called my Studio home over the years:

Chicago Clubfem

Black beat – one of the first BIPOC groups formed in Chicago, run by my friend Ms Lash

Chicago ABDL group

Chicago Foot Parties

Vespertine

Rough Play group

TNGC Chicago

I have been proud to facilitate the local Chicago community and nationwide by hosting so many wonderful educational workshops, from my mentor Suzanne D’Arcy’s last class, Lee Harrington’s weekend, Kink Academy, 7 days of Domination and Mistress Chiaki’s Shibari classes, to name a few.

I have provided a safe home for numerous fellow Prodommes over the years, opening my doors in friendship and education.  There have been many wonderful touring Dommes visit me at my Chicago space, from my work wife Elena De Luca, Vinyl Queen, Irene Boss, Helene Locke, Sky Terrapin, Goddess Nyx and many more.

My space would not have become the welcoming, open space it is without all of you. So many hot scenes, transformative sessions, moving connection within the Studio’s walls. Oh, if the next tenant only knew!

            You will be able to still enjoy over 30 years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans

 I will be doing a retrospective blog of all the amazing, intense times I had in this studio and my others. I’ve been in front of some type of camera for the last 30 years so my catalog of images is extensive. Here is a treat of a few of my favorite scenes from last 3 years :

Saran Wrapped Pride clown

Suspended rubber gimp

Easter BDSM scene

Latex Mistress Simone with her demon sub

Rubber balloon Slaves

Please continue to read for timnext steps.

While  the time line can fluctuate, I estimate my current Chicago studio is now closed for sessions. REPEAT for the 1000th time: I AM NOT RETIRING> Myself and my bondage gear will be available for sessions at ApexMediaChicago and Chicago Dungeon Rentals.

My gear and equipment : Again, let me clarify this before it gets asked: I AM NOT CLOSING DOWN FOR GOOD – THEREFORE I AM KEEPING A GOOD PORTION OF MY GEAR AND DUNGEON FURNITURE. As my Saint Louis space is still open a few pieces and some of the gear from Chicago will go there. Some of it will also be going with me to Apex Media for use in my sessions there. I will still be fully equipped for all our mutual fetishes like heavy bondage, medical fetish, CBT and more.

I have not decided at this point whether or not I will open another public BDSM studio in Chicago. The main reasons I have decided to close my current space are the insane traffic and my current building condition.  If you’ve been to my studio within the last 10 years, you know the condition of the building has deteriorated, especially my leaky ceiling. I have reached the end of my patience with it.

While this is a huge change for Myself and those I sessions with, it will minimize my stress thus allowing me to relax and develop better connections with you when we session. It will be nice to have less stress and focus on our mutual interests instead of managing a space and its issues.

I do not know the emotions it will bring except bittersweet, sad and happy all at once. What I am putting forth here is the factual information of my decision. If you have a desire to reach out to chat, let me know your studio memories and how I and my spaces have created a difference in your life, please do! I would love to hear them, especially for my upcoming book I will be writing.

I can be reached of course here via my website , all my socials and my email

My Happy place!

DUNGEON SALE (completed!):

There will be a dungeon sale but it will of gear I want to go to a good home, gear I do not use often or items  that do not fit me. Items will range from dungeon furniture, impact toys, medical fetish items, dungeon supplies, vanilla furniture, shoes, latex clothing and more. Date is October 25th and 26th  more details via my social media accounts: X, Fetlife, Facebook and Instagram.  There will be  an industry only sale day on October 25th then Sunday, October 26th will be open to public. The public sale will require a 10$ donation to attend, of which all will be donated to SWOP.

October 25th -Industry ONLY sale 1-8pm Please be a verifiable professional. If you do not know the Studio address, please email me at chicagomistress@gmail.com

October 26th – Community open sale  1-7pm $10 SWOP donation due at door. No donation – no entry Studio address will be given to you via email if you do not know it. My email is chicagomistress@gmail.com

I will also be posting some items for sale via Facebook, Fetlife ,Ebay and Poshmark.

When I walk out the door for the final time, it will be with a sad heart but a full, happy and satisfied one. Knowing I did the best I could to make our kink world a little safer, happier and weirder. I hope you will continue to share in the next chapter of my Domination journey with me at Apex Media for Chicago sessions.

 You will be able to still enjoy over 30+ years of domination scenes and clips via my online fansites: Sextpanther and Loyalfans.

                             As well as new scenes and clips as I get accustomed to Apex Media Chicago for my new adventures.

Thank you ever so much for trusting me with your kinks, fetishes and perversions. I look forward to this new leg of my Domination journey.

Warmly,  ChicagoMistress AKA Mistress Simone AKA Ma’am 

P.S. Watch for the Retrospective Blog showcasing some of the fantastic scenes, events, fellow Professionals and submissives I’ve had the honor and pleasure of meeting over my career.

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 Double Domination Session with Chicago Mistress, Ms Elena De Luca & Mistress’s Dogsbody

Session Date 11/20/24

The afternoon began with a customary bit of light conversation; greetings, getting caught up, etc. Outside of photos sent after the session (Mistress note: I only takes pictures during session upon consent of my clients Privacy is a key component for mutual respect within prodomination sessions.) it was the one time during my visit I could really just enjoy the vision of my two gorgeous captors-to-be and their sexy fetish outfits, though the most exciting sight for me was that of the key to my chastity device dangling just above Ma’am’s beautiful breasts. ( Mistress note: Placing my boys in chastity is an enjoyable component of the power exchange for me. It isn’t right for everyone but if we both consent then it can take our connection to a deeper, more intimate level).

Voluptuous Mistress Simone

But, alas, it wasn’t long before I was ordered to strip down and present myself to Ma’am so as to have said cage unlocked and the games then officially began. I was hooded, blindfolded, nipples clamped and then maneuvered into facing a corner, like the end of Blair Witch; whereby my hands were subsequently locked into position. (While I may encase you in leather, latex, or other favorite materials of mine within our session,you will always start by de-robing and being vulnerable in front of Mistress.)

From the very beginning, the lovely and malevolent Miss Elena De Luca made her presence known, immediately setting upon my back with various whips and other implements. I hardly ever get a good look at everything being used on me, at least until the session is over, and then it’s usually a large, vaguely disturbing pile that requires tidying up.( A good tag team flogging or beating can be very satisfying. The double domme energy keeps the submissive on their toes, not sure what will come next. In regards to sensation, the energy from 2 different set of hands in regards to throw, power and technique can send the sub into a new and deeper subspace).  The clamps kept popping off, which meant they continuously need to be painfully re-applied, following Miss De Luca’s cruelly digging her nails into the increasingly tender target flesh.

It was around this time that Ma’am decided to introduce a little, additional game element to the festivities. She chose a music channel dedicated to soundtracks and I would be “graded” on my ability to correctly identify whatever was playing ( My dogsbody is a science fiction aficionado. He loves John Williams ) My attention thus split, I made my first and thankfully only major misstep of the day: mixing up Ma’am’s voice with Miss De Luca’s, earning me a pretty heavy beating in return. (One should be conditioned to their owner’s dulcet tones. I love voice training my submissives to react to my voice only, especially for orgasm control. Vocal response training to my tone and words is a huge kink of mine.I identify as a high protocol Domme , one that enjoys control, rules and positions).

Even so, I was up two correct answers out of three by the time I was moved from the corner, to be laid out on a table. When it is just Ma’am and I, these transitions typically mean I receive a brief respite from Ma’am’s affection, but this day Miss  De Luca ensured that my suffering never took any breaks, even as I waited to be secured into my new position. (2 Mistresses means no respite. The constant stimuli can be overwhelming but the strong will survive).

A plug was slid up inside of me and electrical pads were placed around my genitals (Ma’am’s property). I soon had electricity coursing through me inside and out as Miss De Luca took advantage of my immobility to indulge in some target practice. Not that She needed it. She seemed more than perfectly capable of swatting whatever it was She seemed to be aiming for with painful precision.

Chicago Mistress & Miss Elena De Luca -the perfect prodomme pair

At the same time, I ran into a bad run of films I had only seen once, many years ago, and my score began to dip precipitously. Miss De Luca leaned onto the table and rested Her impressive cleavage on top of my head. (Me still blindfolded) and informed me that if I achieved a high enough score I would be rewarded with some full-on facesitting before the end- all while digging Her nails into my nipples and/or smacking the tip of my cock with Her crop.

I was already in a pretty desperate state when Ma’am treated my severely tenderized nipples to… The Cob – which if the pictures are accurate was indeed a corncob on a stick.(It is indeed a corn cob on a stick, a gift from another slave. One should always be careful what you gift to Ma’am as it will most likely end up getting used on the purchaser). As a torture device it may sound kinda funny, but the next day when I had to lie face down at the chiropractor’s, I was far from laughing.

Beware the corn cob as it is deadly!

By then I was one right answer away from my reward when suddenly, and I think for the first time ever, I was the one who stunned Ma’am. From the very first bars I began to laugh and laugh, regardless of how intense the electrics had been cranked up to. I laughed because it was a song I knew backwards and forwards, having listened to over and over again in my freshman dorm, so many years ago. (Once a geek – always geek, says The Geek Mistress. I was a bit shocked why he was laughing so hard as I could not hear the song from my position in the dungeon. Once I heard it, I knew though!).

“BATMAN!” “BATMAN!” “BATMAN!” (For the plebeians, the soundtrack is Batman ,done by Prince)

However, it was not a bat, but a duck, a rubber duck fashioned into a gag that was stuffed into my mouth as I was relocated to Mistress’s bondage second table and strapped down into position. Miss De Luca was a woman of Her word and graced my face with the presence of Her lovely bottom, though She seemed more interested in trying to get the duck to squeak by bouncing up and down upon it. (Well, amusing ourselves at our submissive’s expense is one of our primary goals when together. We love making each other laugh by humiliating you).

Miss De Luca squeaks the duck gag!

Eventually the duck was removed but Miss De Luca was not yet finished with my mouth as She forcefully slid a Her leather gloved hand in and out, forcing my jaw open, pushing deep down into my throat until She was satisfied.

That left one last hole to exploit, so I was untied and essentially flipped over. Ma’am went first, ramming me with Her strap-on, the spikes of the harness digging into my butt. Miss De Luca was given the final violation of the day. My eyes popped a little as the cock She chose really stretched me open and She began to hammer away vigorously.

By the time they were done with me, I was pretty wiped out, but very grateful for their time and attention. It was my third opportunity to session with Miss De Luca. She has an amazing dynamic with Ma’am. And a chance to spend the afternoon with Ma’am is ALWAYS amazing.

All that was left was to lock away Ma’am’s cock for another month (?), insert a remote-controlled vibrating plug(I do love using the Lovense Hush 2 plug. Highly suggest for those who desire a bit of remote control, hidden play. It works very well in public) and take my two tormentors out for a nice dinner (After a lovely time spent with Miss Elena De Luca and my dogsbody, I enjoy relaxing with a good, upscale meal  and a bottle of wine or a lovely Smoked Manhattan). All in all, a day very well spent.

Mistress Simone’s note : Playing together with Miss De Luca is one of my favorite things to engage in. Our unique blend of sadism, humiliation and fun creates a fun yet intense enjoyment with all involved in the session. Some of my most creative themed scenes have come for us just having general conversation in regards to my slaves.

Our combined sadistic imaginations come up with some delightful evil sessions, including wonderful  Here are a few examples for your amusement:

Saran Wrap Mummification

Can he handle the 2 of us?

Keep in mind ,you can book us both when we visit each other’s home base, either Chicago or New York City. We also do FMTY to each other’s city or to your destination together.

Check out our respective websites for our FMTY (Fly Me To You) guidelines.

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                                       Dealing with Vampiric Encounters

You’re finger licking good

The Intrigue of the Vampire Mythos

Women swoon. Children cry. Men scream in fright.

Placing the VAMPIRE label  on something or someone causes a myriad of  images. Creatures that are
ravenous predators, evil harmful killers who prey on innocent victims.Sensual

This class will shed light on the seduction vampires have  held over
humanity for centuries.The lore of the life sucking creatures prey on humans has existed since humanity walked on 2 legs.

The Medieval times presented vampires as walking corpses most likely die to disease and pestilence. It wasn’t until The Gothic Era that the more romanticized version appeared.

The traditional vampire is portrayed as the reanimated body of a
deceased person believed to come from the grave at night and suck
the blood of the person asleep. They can be repelled by sunlight
and/or garlic and can be killed by a wooden stake to the heart.

In recent times, we have even further glamorized vampires with such
shows as True Blood, What We do Within the Shadows, Buffy,
Twilight and of course countless romance/ fantasy series.the movie,Nosferatu has recently been remade for a third time. It’s been called erotic, sensual, eerie, and sexual.

                                                                  Once again our culture is enraptured of a vampire. Women are swooning, men are aghast, parents are appalled. Let’s find out why,shall we?

Vampire play engages our most primal spirit. Hunger, sex and
surrender all rolled into one sexy archetype. According to folklore, vampires feed upon the life force of another
being whether it be animal, fish or human. The blood may be the draw.  For others, it is the darkness, romance or spiritual. The
most primal energy of another creature. Having the power of life and death within one’s being encompasses true power, especially if you can return one to life – even a strange distorted life. The mysterious creature lurking in the shadows, forbidden, thrilling and sexual. Whether we like to acknowledge it or not, all humans are drawn to the dark.It intrigues and terrifies us at the same time.

 I recently was honored to present this class for 7DOD online. To watch the online class version, please visit  7DOD Vampire Play

Engaging in the vampire fantasies within our fetish scenes can denote many paths.

It will need to be done safely and consensually.
But role playing vampire in our sessions can have serious
consequences that we need to be aware of. Biting a client can break the
fluid boundaries. Pricking veins for blood draws can create unsafe
connections and unwanted connections between you and client.

Now for the disclaimer:
I am not a medical professional. In this class, I will not provide full
education on blood borne pathogens,STDs transmitted via bodily
fluid exchange or consumption, or the multiple ways to do the wide
variety of blood play.

Please make sure before you engage in fluid play, you educate
yourself and your play partner on the risks. Knowledge in Power , especially when life in concerned.

Take a first aid class, or multiples, to gain knowledge in how to prevent permanent harm.

 In this blog,I will discuss:

Different forms of vampire play

                                                                    How we can engage in the fantasy within our fetish scenes safely and consensually.

Fantasy vs Reality

Energy play

Biting Realistically

Small blood draws with needles or finger pricks

I consider needle play a different beast from vampire play. Needles and
scalpels can be used in this play but are not necessary. They create their own synergy in style and technique.

Your life fluid tastes so delicious!

Possible Forms of Vampire Play

Psychic or Pranic Vampire: Any person who enjoys actively and regularly absorbing and manipulating human kinetic energy in order to maintain their own emotional,sexual and spiritual well-being.

They can do this via touch or distance.This type of vampire is very popular within New Age and Pagan communities. I have a separate blog on this topic.

Sexual Vampire: Any person that feeds specifically on the energy generated from intimate relationships, heavy sexual release and orgasms.

Sanguine Vampire: Vampires who take blood from a partner and use it as a focus for gaining energy. The blood is the main component.

Vampire Play Safety Protocols

Within our scenes, the desire is usually for actual sanguine play. Blood play does not have to incorporate vampire play.
When one thinks of actual vampire blood play, biting is the activity one usually brings to mind.

It is the image we all see in the media. Cutting , scalpel play, and small blood draws are more associated with blood play.

However they are activities that can safely facilitate vampire play incorporating a blood component.

As this is an overview
class , I will cover each with beginners information. Truly each one is
its own in-depth instruction.

Be aware of not only the health risks to all involved parties but the
emotional and spiritual risks. The type of vampire play I engage in
differs from person to person. The more blood/energy involved, the
deeper and more permanent the connection.
CONSENT is paramount in blood play.

Prepping skin prior to opening it is essential for scene. This will
minimize the risk of bacteria or germs entering the area.
Likewise afterwards, make sure wound is cleaned and covered.
Prevent infection in start and finish. Use 70% or above alcohol to
clean.

Implements such as scalpels, needles and finger pricks must be
single use, sterile and disposed of properly. Do not use knives, razor
blades or vampire gloves. These items tend to be hard to sterilize to
the level needed.

Adrenal spikes can occur with blood play {we tend to fight or flight
when we see blood esp our own}. Make sure you are aware of blood
pressure, heart issues and other possible health conditions of your
donor that may be affected by blood play.

Learn your basic anatomy esp the circulatory system. You will
need to know what major arteries to stay away from. This will
also benefit you in other types of play.
Choose areas that have less major arteries such as breasts,
shoulder blades, buttocks. For a start, here is link to circulatory system.

Vampire Blood Play activities

 Biting {Odaxelagnia}

Biting is the classic vampire way! It is also known as Odaxelagnia.
The eroticism of Dracula slowly hypnotizing his victim, baring the vulnerable part of their neck
sensuously caressing the vein then savagely sinking his teeth
into their willing offering of flesh is an iconic image.  HOT!

Biting is its own fetish , done to degrees from gentle nibbles to hard
chomps. However, gnawing away at your partner’s neck or body –
even with sharp prosthetic fangs – will not gain you the result you desire. All it
will do is bruise them and your jaw. If the bite is your kink, by all means
administer the traditional sex blood love mark – a hickey. For those
who desire access and fantasy to neck biting, this is the way I suggest
you begin. It can be highly erotic and energetically connected. Plus
leaves lovely reminders of your scene.
Play the fantasy up as much as you like. I’ve done a whole role
play scene where I am Vampire Mistress and my client is my helpless
victim. Tying him down to my table, I then slowly strip his garments
away to expose his vulnerable flesh which I then draw blood to the
surface. You can imagine the rest.

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Keep in mind, this seemingly innocent activity may still break skin and
you may ingest some blood. Also ingesting larger amounts of blood is
not good for the human digestive system. Even though rare meat has
some ,it is usually cooked to some degree. Raw blood from source
can upset your internal system.
If the blood ingestion is your desire, I suggest using a scalpel or
needles. Keep it to a small amount, less than pint. Think of the
medical blood draw we get when go to doctor. A vial that size.Practice safely and learn proper technique.
If the role-play is your desire, consider using fake blood for the
copious amounts. Again, do not ingest it.

7DOD has a wonderful online class on biting by Ms. Fox. You can watch it here

 Cutting (Piquerism)

For all my cuttings also known as Piquerism , I use a sterile, single use scalpel. As it is a medical
implement, it must be disposed of as such.
My main warning with cutting into someone’s flesh is Do not cut too deep!
Last thing you desire is a hospital trip or accidental bleed.

Cuts can look light and not bled when first done so one’s tendency is to give
another cut. Don’t. Be patient. Take the time to wait for blood to rise to
skin.

Cuttings  can scar so this possibility should be discussed beforehand.

Make sure you have safety equipment close at hand to staunch
possible bleeds.

Cutting into my slave’s flesh for blood play

Blood draws/drains

Blood drains would be the most reminiscent of the traditional vampire drinking of blood. I would not suggest this for a casual session or one-time client.

I develop an intimate connection with all my “blood dolls” or donors. It is a willing offering -not a forced or taken one.

An activity I would consider at the higher end of risk. STD and infections are a big risk here. To engage in blood drains and draws safely, you will need to take a venipuncture class.

I will not go into details here on how to do so as its its own class. I prefer those pros interested in it go to a med professional class that includes certification. No more than a pint!

Think on when you go to get your blood drawn. Blood draws, also known as phlebotomy is how we obtain the blood draws/drains.

Needle pricks & punctures Small amounts usually from needles and pinpricks. A great way to begin with blood ingestion, drawing or smears.

If you have ever cut your finger, you know you can get what appears to be an incredible amount just from this small opening.

Many people start here with a small drop to taste. If blood art is your desire, the drips and cuts from scalpels and needles can allow you the ability to finger paint safely.

Always monitor your amount. Anytime your donor/partner feels woozy, dizzy, lightheaded or faint – immediately stop, stance the bleeding and administer first aid.

Blood draws is also used to draw a small amount used in ritual, connection and amulets. Blood bonding between partners can be a special passage, a commitment of one’s relationship.

Be aware anytime you puncture the skin with needle you could end up with
a blood blister especially on cock and balls. This may scare some clients
and compromise them. Do not drain a blood blister, it will subside on own.

If you would like to preserve the blood into an item to wear, there are ones
for sale on Etsy and other sites that will provide directions on how to make the blood inert yet fluid.

Practical Components Overview

1.  Choose the component that will best work with your intent and
goals. Vampire Play doesn’t have to involve actual blood. It can just be the dark fantasy you enjoy.

2.Blood play especially with energetic components does not
preclude logical thought. The key practical ingredient of most protection is an energy
shield. Guard your energy; it can be taken from you.

3. Decide where you stand on your vampire fetishism. Is it the
fantasy, the aesthetic that get you off? The dark clothes, make-up?

4. Be aware anytime you puncture the skin with needle you could
end up with a blood blister especially on cock and balls. This may
scare some clients and compromise them. Do not drain a blood blister, it will drain on its own.

5. Hypnotism can be a competent of the fetish – playing off the vampire entrancing their prey with their penetrating gaze. Removing all will to resist.

This would be a good component skill to add to your vampire play if  you desire. Remember CONSENT is key!

 6. Combine sex with your blood play if your dynamic is sexual. One of my hottest nights
was fucking my partner while drawing blood runes on them
from the numerous small cuttings and needles I had done on them prior.

7.Menstrual blood- even more ritualistic and intimate. Also  lends itself to other types of play such as degradation, empowerment and humiliation.

I hope you enjoyed this blog on one of my favorite types of play. I would love to hear your thoughts or engage with you in session for this type of play. My email is here.

                                                    I love supporting other articles on topics I write upon that I find well-written. This one in particular I find informative. Lovense Vampire blog

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Using My Dogsbody for My Amusement

                                                                                                                                         Session 9/24/2024

Saint Louis BBW Mistress

I always feel a sense of anticipation in the air in the lead-up to my session with Mistress Simone, the way others must feel the way when Christmas or Halloween begins to loom ever larger on the calendar. But I get to savor the sensation every single month. {What a lucky slave! Definitely earned my attention}

My time in Ma’am’s presence typically begins with a brief period of casual conversation: getting caught up, establishing headspace, etc, before inevitably receiving the command to strip. {Once my command is given, I expect it to be obeyed. No more small talk! Just commands }

On this occasion in her Saint Louis dungeon, Ma’am decided to arrange a private little “Fashion Show” – where She was the sole audience – and had me model several new – to me anyway – pairs of panties, the majority of which came home with me after.{ Playing dress-up with my subs,sissies and slaves amuses me. Those panties went home with him and you can see them on X in his daily panty post }. Then my cock – or rather HER cock – was finally granted freedom from its chastity cage after another long, dry month. Ma’am directed me to lower myself to the ground in order to assist Her in donning one of Her many striking calf-high pairs of leather boots. She informed me I might later be permitted to lick their soles clean, after I had earned such a privilege, of course. { Worshiping my boots, shoes or feet  must be earned. See next  part for how he did so. Also read my foot worship blog for my view on it.}

Assume the position

“Earning it” in this case meant I was soon up on the table, flat on my back; arms secured at my sides, legs hoisted up and suspended in the air, spread wide for easy access. I was hooded, blindfolded, and had a dildo gag buckled tight around my head. It was not to be my only hole Ma’am intended to violate that afternoon, as I soon felt Her teasing a bulbous metal plug up and down between my cheeks before sliding it up inside me. The plug came to life with a deep, throbbing pulse while Ma’am applied small pads around the cock and ball area, which had a much sharper, prickly effect causing me to groan in pain through the gag.As usual, when such outbursts occurred, Her only response was, “Good.” {Filling a sub’s holes for my pleasure and control is the only way you will receive pleasure unless I choose to allow you release. You will learn to enjoy the sensation of me inside all your holes.}

Earlier, after I had helped with Her boots, I also had the honor in helping Ma’am to put on a new pair of leather gloves. Now on the table, I occasionally felt Her run Her hands over my body.{ My leather gloves run slowly over your willing flesh, creating a hypnotic memory I can se later to control your arousal.}  It felt wonderful, until She reached my nipples and gave them both a vicious twist. Then, She attached… something to each of them. As I spend most of my visits with Ma’am blindfolded, cruelly deprived of Her beautiful face and desirable leather-clad body, one of the curious highlights of any session for me is during the clean-up afterwards when I get to actually look at – and often gawp in shock – the various little instruments of torture that have so recently been used on my helpless body. { Using my extensive array of bdsm implements to create sensations on you releases my inner sadist and sensation junkie. I control what you feel.}

There’s often quite the pile as rarely am I allowed to have much time to simply process whatever sensations Ma’am subjects me to before some new twist is added. In this case, it was applying a vibrating wand to the cock area, which was still being relentlessly zapped, but I was happy to receive whatever pleasure Ma’am so deigned to provide. And so it went for a little bit: alternating between tweaking the current to a new high and an all-too brief taste of sensual delight.  I could have spent the entire session like that, but soon enough, Ma’am decided She had other plans for Her slave. { Tease and denial – ah , the ultimate control for Me. You never will be able to gauge when I give pain or pleasure.}

For starters, She launched into a series of strikes on my defenseless flesh using a variety of implements. Some were thin and very stingy. Another felt broad, hollow and plastic. It didn’t really matter. Between Her choice of targets and the strength with which She struck them, it hurt… a lot! { While not every session contains pain, I am a sadist who gets off on sensation play, sensory control and sadism.}

At some point, She also removed my gag, only to swiftly replace the plastic cock with Her fingers, still clad in the leather gloves. I struggled to keep Her from feeling a single tooth as she relentlessly forced Herself in and out of my mouth before signaling, She was done with a slap to my face. { The last thing you should do when I explore your mouth for my amusement is let me feel those teeth. Nibbling Mistress is only allowed when I say and usually it’s my strap-on.}

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But my time on the table was not over just yet. Ma’am climbed up and drove the treads of Her boots deep and hard into my crotch, squashing Her property as though it were some kind of bug. (Although Ma’am would, in fact, be much kinder to some poor, wayward insect!) { Stomping on your measly manhood, squishing it under my boot heel makes sure you know your proper place -under my boot heel.}

Once safely back on the ground again, She indulged in a bit more pinching, twisting and smacking, before finally decreeing that it was time to change my position. This also meant I was close to receiving my treat for being a good boy.{ What a lucky boy to earn his reward. Or is he? Luck or hard work? } This day, my said reward included the aforementioned boot licking, drinking Her divine nectar and serving as a seat cushion for Ma’am’s equally divine derriere. At the same time, She left the plug in and the pads attached to keep my suffering ongoing. She is a sadist, after all. And even when doling out rewards for good behavior, Her entertainment always comes first. { Key lesson for those that desire to serve me! The only correct answer is “As You Wish }

And then, sadly, our session came to its conclusion. We tidied up the dungeon and Her property was once again locked up tight for another month (Ironically, “Locktober”) { While I enjoy Locktober, I do not need a special month to deny you release. I prefer to control that round the clock. However if you are unable to commit to total denial, I do enjoy occasional , situational for those who desire. }

With all of that dealt with, I received the honor of “Feeding the Ma’am” as She puts it: taking Her out to dinner and enjoying both Her company in general and more stimulation – this time of an intellectual nature as our conversation went on for quite some time and covered a great variety of subjects. { I enjoy sharing good food and conversation with my subs after our session time together. }

I began my drive home tired, yet also energized; spent, yet also aroused; but most of all profoundly grateful that after years of seeking, I finally have found a cool, sexy, and highly intelligent Dominant Woman who understands and cares for me. Thank You, Ma’am. Thank You for Yesterday, all the days that have come before, and all the (hopefully) many days we yet will have together in the future.{ I enjoy establishing ongoing connection and power exchange with my subs. Keep in mind though, I do also enjoy seeing solo session clients who desire to engage in our mutual kinks. It’s more about our engagement within out time together.}

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The art of sensual /sadistic tickling with BDSM play

Tickle time with my claws

Knismolagnia , commonly known as tickling, can be a fun addition to your BDSM play.  Laughter in the dungeon can be a good thing, especially to heighten the energy and connection between your play partner and you. I love having a submissive restrained to my table then tickle and tease them , hearing their laughter throughout the space. Usually my own laughter at their predicament joins in. I leave my nails long specifically so I can get deep into the tender tickle areas on the body. There can be assumptions that tickling is a light activity to engage in, but quite the contrary. I have had subs hyperventilate from the excitement of a heavy tickling, even one pass out. In all play, one should cover possible physical limitations or concerns that may impact a scene. Tickling requires one to delve deeper back into  possible memories of the activity that might affect the scene. Many of us recall being tickling by siblings, parents or other persons in our childhood. For some, these memories can create triggers that need to be acknowledged and discussed PRIOR to engaging in a tickle scene. There should always be a prior discussion that includes emotional history with scenes. In my intake interviews for play, I always ask if someone is ticklish. If the answer is yes, I always ask a secondary question of how they react to it. For many, it is a hard limit and negative trigger. Others enjoy its cathartic benefits immensely. Before you reach to tickle someone, you should know how he or she might react to it. You do not want to disrespect boundaries just because of an assumption.

While any activity we engage in can cause an adverse reaction based on memories, it is much more likely with tickling because of our societal norm of engaging in it at young ages. Fortunately this pattern has been changing in current times..Tickling can be one of the earliest personal touches  we may receive from another human. Think on how often a baby has heard “Coochy coo” while being tickled lightly on feet, tummy or chin? Think back to your childhood. Can you remember an incidence of tickling? Perhaps a family relative or sibling? Neighborhood kids who either you tickled or you were tickled by? It can be a very traumatic experience especially if we were very young, or boundaries not respect due to familial/societal environment. So when approaching it as an adult play activity, it can cause those feelings to reoccur. For some, the tickling becomes  erotic, awakening the senses and providing an endorphin rush. For others, it can arise anger, fear or hurt. One needs to tread lightly when beginning this type of play.

Restrained for tickling

Two paths a tickle scene can take: sensual or torturous. In tickling, the people being tickled (often referred to as ticklees,those administering are the ticklers) can allow themselves the release of total control. They do not have to think about the activity (in fact cognitive functioning drops when being tickled) nor generate or create the sensation. Just react and feel. This freedom is one big draw to tickling. If someone is new to tickling scenes, I suggest beginning with sensual. One can always heighten the intensity of tickling as scene progresses. Digging in hard right away without warning can send ticklee into negative space, cause an injury or get the tickler kicked or punched if the ticklee is not secured down or free to move around. Our initial reaction to being tickled is to move away from the sensation and/or push the tickler away. Ticklers must be aware of body position when tickling. Environment can cause injuries.If in a vanilla setting, look around to see what may cause injury if scene gets aggressive. Lamps, candles, table legs and tops, glassware, etc can all be a hazard. In a dungeon setting, same applies. When someone is on one of my equipment pieces, I need to make sure they can’t fall off or strain a muscle if tied down. I also want to make sure the restraining pieces are strong enough for heavy thrashing,otherwise injury can happen AND I may be replacing ripped/broken equipment. I’ve been bonked in the head before when a cuff got loose because of sub’s wiggling.

Psychologically , it can be an escape from stress, analytical thinking and responsibilities. High protocol slaves and submissives can place service aside for the moment and just breathe.If I am intensely tickling my slave, I can not be asking them highly cognitive questions at same time. Well I can for my amusement as the answers are sure to be amusing. If you are the D in the D/s relationship, you need to make sure your expectations of your sub during a tickle scene are realistic.  They may swear, yell, kick , thrash at you.  Discuss this beforehand so you both are on same page. it would be unethical to  punish a slave for a breech of protocol while being intensely tickled. Many people shut down part of cognition when engaged thusly. Poor taste to punish one because of that. For a more in depth psychological explanation, I suggest this Tickling Tips article.

Tickling is also one of those activities that we can engage in anywhere, any time and not generate unwarranted attention, if done in moderation and consensually. I can administer a light tickle to a sub’s neck while out to dinner. A small poke and wiggle with my fingers to their side while out. Ive even made submissives sit silently in a movie theater while i mercilessly tickle the side closest to me. Punishment if they squeal.  It does not require nudity or huge set-up and/or equipment.

Within scene, it can be combined with pain to create a wonderfully intense reaction.The highs and lows of intensity are one thing that attracts me to tickling. I can have a sub’s senses heighten due to other sensation including pain, then administer a light tickle to a foot or stomach as I move around them. Keep in mind, this is not for everyone. I only engage this way with those I know and play with regularly. I would not desire to take a sub out of subspace and relaxation by an unwarranted tickle or touch. Psychology Today has a great article here about why we may like being tickled.

Leather glove tickle

    How our bodies respond to being tickled:

• Endorphin rush

• Temperature change – Hot or Cold

• External senses dulled

• Analytical thinking temporarily ceases

• Heightened responses , possibly similar to fear

Rapid breathing

                                                             This a good article for understanding the science behind the tickle response.

Advice for body safety with tickling:

You want to take into consideration where you will be tickling. Ask your ticklee where they are most ticklish, if there are any areas to avoid, how intense do they desire. Tickling can leave marks, scratches and bruises. If in a prodomme session, make sure sub is aware and consents to the possibility of marks. Otherwise , wear gloves or use implements to minimize mark risk.

Learn the body’s erogenous zones.  I always tell my subs their entire body is my plaything so no area is off limits unless negotiated. Always respect limits.

Breathing is the key component to managing a tickling scene, both in how our bodies respond to it and possible complications.

Always have a safe word. Keep in mind, in a tickle scene ,the ticklee may not be able to speak coherently. Provide an alternative safe gesture such a a ball drop, toe wiggle, hand wave.

Main physical concerns when engaged in a tickle scene:

Thrashing, Squirming : Sometimes the ticklee likes to fight against being tickled. It is a natural instinct to  move away from being tickled.The struggle can be part of the attraction.

Strain or bruising of muscles; Thrashing around can possibly cause strain on muscles or bruising if the person is restrained tightly and fighting against them.

Bruised  or scratched skin – make sure to discuss prior to tickling. If you are using nails or sharp items to tickle, you can cut, leave scratches or draw blood. Be clear about his possibility before play.

Hyper ventilation – lightheartedness even fainting may occur if the ticklee gets very excited. Watch their breathing and take a break if need. Help them refocus on slow, deep yoga breathes to return to normal state.

Desensitization – I find with many types of sensation play, the nerve endings , skin and tissue mat become unresponsive to the administered sensation. It s the body;s way of telling you enough is enough. Discontinue the  sensation until a state of normalcy has returned.

           Three main types of tickling:

               Soft : what we most associate with tickling, light touching, fur, brushes, feathers, light touches

                                                                      Hard : pressure points, acupressure, digging in, fingernails

                                                                         Vibrational: vibrators, electricity, any thing that goes buzz!

                                                                                               Tickling to orgasm:

                                              Denial-Ruined – I have used tickling to deny a sub an orgasm. Right before the moment of climax, I will tickle them thus redirecting the body sensations

 Heighten –  While sexual pressure is building, administer light or hard tickling touch to increase arousal. Apply then remove- a form of tickle edging. I do a hard tickle with my nails  right before climax. All the synapses are firing, giving one hell of a release.

Tickling as therapy:

Tickling can be very therapeutic, assisting us in solving childhood issues, learning to relax and disengaging our brains. It allows one to feel life in the now and not worry about tomorrow. However, it is nor should be a replacement for actual therapy.

                          An unexpected tickle in scene/sex can trigger bad/good memories that may halt activity and need to be discussed. The signals can be confusing within tickle scene as many ticklees will scream, cry, fight and try to escape. Make sure a clear safe word or gesture has been preset and all involved partners are aware of what it is.

                                                                                                                                          Devious Devices

       Your own body – nails, hair, breath

Feathers in general

Owl or Eagle feathers

Fur

Hairbrushes- anything with a bristle

Vibrators

Paint brushes

                                                                                 Pot scrubbers

                                                                                  Dental tools

                                                                                  Fake flowers and shrubs

One of my favorite tickling site for tips is Tickling Tips. I particularly like the Games page.The endurance one is a favorite of mine. I challenge the ticklee to outlast my administrations.They receive a  Reward if do, punishment if fails!

I like adding sensory deprivation to a tickle scene. Removing another sense will heighten the tickling touch. Try a blindfold, hood or straitjacket if focusing on lower body. As mentioned before,        bondage can help keep ticklee in position and increase their enjoyment. I love binding the legs, leaving the feet vulnerable to my tickles.

All set to be tickled

Remember you can add humiliation or embarrassment  play in. Consensually delve into those past experiences and tickle memories. For those who want to experience tickling but  have yet to take the leap, consider combining it with their other kinks. Touch is the playground of adults. Have fun with it.

If you’re a ticklee who desires to be tickled, or a novice that would like to try it, fill out my session application.  I would love to create an intense ,fun tickle session between us. Both my Saint Louis and Chicago spaces are well equipped to keep you safe while we get our tickle on!

Love to experience a tickling session?

Then book a session in Chicago dungeon or Saint Louis studio here

You can also chat with me about your tickling interest via my online platforms:

Sextpanther

Loyalfans

Niteflirt

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Chicago Mistress in Paris 2023

  My ultimate wish list!

• I am a born and raised Chicagoan. It is my city.
• My first dominant memory was age 5 when I made the neighbor boy ride me around on the back of his tricycle.
• I started professional domination  in 1993 -Yes I have proof!
• Trained for 2 years in a house with other Mistresses. We shared skills and worked together – currently I am engaging in mentoring developing Sex Workers on Dominatrix skill sets. Inquire via my email.
• Opened my first solo dungeon in 1995, north-side of Chicago. I have had 4 independent , private BDSM studios with my last studio location being 17 years.
• Longest running independent Mistress in Chicago. I have  never taken a break, never semi-retired or month off unless it was by design. The first time I didn’t work at real-life sessions was during COVID.
• I plan on accepting sessions as long as submissives and perverts desire to experience my skills. Translation – I’m NOT RETIRING!

Let me treat you to some BLASTS FROM THE PAST :

Latex Military Mistress 2012

Chicago Mistress in her Boystown dungeon Circa 2008 with bound female submissive

Kneel before Me – Chicago Mistress 2017

NYC shoot 2015

   More Vintage dominatrix timeline pictures will be on My upcoming blog on my humble Mistress beginnings

Over the years I have enjoyed owning some wonderful slaves. Thank you to all of them who have made me the Mistress I am today. I treasure each and everyone of you who wore my collar and still do. Owning you has been one of the true blessings of my life. I have lost some of you to the ravages of time. Others have grown beyond our connection and moved into other desires. I hope with all of you, I have enhanced your lives as you enhanced mine, even if we parted ways. Those I am still blessed to own ,thank you for being mine. It is my pleasure. Let’s grow old together!

Even if we only played once or a few times, I hope I am in your mind and memory. I love leaving permanent threads in your psyche. Now is the time to get back in my attention, or just say “Thank you”

For new submissives who desire to session, serve and/or submit , I am opening my roster this year! To learn how to start on the journey with me, visit my Sessions page then fill out my application.

A gift from this list or my personal website Wishlist would get my attention. I also have an Amazon list as I know it is easier for many.

Mistress Simone in thigh high boots New York City Circa 2009

The best gifts IMO are experiences, travel and security. Enhancing Mistress’s life in one of these manners would be the perfect gift for my anniversary. Some of the ways to do so are :

Gift cards are accepted for any of the above. Please send them to my email or visit my Throne wishlist

Chicago Mistress Baby Domme 1999 with her slavegirl R taken for Paul C fetish catalog

That said, there are some lovely tokens I would enjoy receiving and wearing/using for years to come:

In the Bondage arena, ultimate items would like:

Shibari Domme @2017

For my personal enjoyment and pleasure, these items would make me smile:

Gothic Mistress 2009

How to present/deliver a gift:

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